Why are some women always lucky in love?

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Anonymous wrote:Knowing your worth, and being open to love is a big thing. Also, sometimes part of it is just luck. There are really awesome people who continually get the short end of the stick. I learned at an early age that life isn’t fair a lot of the time and there is no rhyme or reason to it.

So much is about finding someone that didn't have a f____ked up childhood. A person's childhood is such a major red flag that so many miss and don't see how it will play out in middle age, the leftover, unaddressed issues and learned coping mechanisms.

I will heavily council my kids to look at their future partner's parents/family relationships very carefully.

I also think she had a lot of tragedy early in life (her mom dying young) and now karma is coming back to her in a good way. She seems like a genuinely good, warm-hearted, emotionally-sound person.

absolutely +1

Not everyone is permanently ruined because of messed up childhoods that were no fault of our own. It’s sad that you are implying these people should be doomed by a life of loneliness over circumstances which were beyond their control. Very heartless and cruel. Varied experiences and yes, even adversity can bring genuine compassion and appreciation to many relationships.

I disagree that early trauma doesn't ruin people's ability to be in a healthy relationship. Childhood trauma changes the brain. It takes a lot of effort to offset the damage to act like a functional adult. Some people are never able to act their way above it.

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Anonymous wrote:I think this is me, even though I choose to be single ATM. I've always had a ton of men trying to get to me. I currently have very rich and some even famous men in my DMs trying to talk to me

1) I'm conventionally attractive, "beautiful" according to most people
2) I have a positive attitude and am generally happy go lucky
3) I dont care that much about male approval which seems to call it to you, bizarrely
4) I'm an interesting, fun conversationalist.

I think that's about it. It's not that complicated, men are simple creatures.

I don't mean this as an insult and I'm sure you're lovely, but you probably could have stopped at #1. For beautiful women being "lucky in love" is the default. The PP who said she's ordinary looking but still consistently attracts lots of quality men is a lot more interesting, IMO.

This is true. I am in a group of single friends. The prettiest, thinnest one has had two boyfriends during the pandemic, even though she is actually the craziest when it comes to being a partner. I am generally very low key and tolerant, but I am overweight(though pretty) so I have a harder time but have dated a couple people less seriously. The ones who are normal weight, but not as cute, haven't had any luck.

Beautiful women attract men but often they just want to pollinate them, then they move on to the next beautiful flower. Ask me how I know.