This is a lie they are selling. I run a very large foundation and am very familiar with endowments and how they work. |
| If HYP really wanted to make for a more interesting campus, they would double the size of their undergrad classes. The exclusivity of them attracts people who chase clout and has turned admission into a game. The impossible odds of getting in also really degrades the quality of New York secondary school which base their entire curriculum on guaranteeing an outcome for parents rather than producing interesting kids who are willing to take chances and take risks. |
she still won't add the other colleges. this is Ivy+ or bust mom!
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It is your tone and attitude. Why did you need to mention race? Especially because it likely isn't true (particularly if you don't consider Asians to be white). If you hadn't mentioned race I likely would not have responded. Then you got belligerent, antagonistic, rude, and continued to make worse and worse points that fabricated a story line that didn't exist. There is no penalty for saying "oops, my bad" here. I have done it many times. I'm not perfect. You shouldn't have mentioned it in the first place but you just compounded it by getting worse and worse. Not sure why I even engaged this far. Should have just moved on. My bad. Or maybe not. Who knows. I also am not 100% convinced that many more private school kids are getting into top colleges this year. It is extremely anecdotal at this point. I would be willing to bet that on the margins that might be true, but it likely isn't a statistically significant number. But we won't know for a while. And I'm not drawing major conclusions based on one year of data where the numbers likely didn't move dramatically. Instagram postings from NYC private school kids do not prove a lot. |
I believe Collegiate also reports 5-year data on it's website. |
What's your guess which schools move up and which move down if she added 5-10 more schools? I can't imagine much changes. |
School (N/yr): Ivy+WASP; H/Y/P/S/M; Ivy+ | Years Brearley (61): 60%; 19%; 53% | 2021-2025 Spence (64): 54%; 17%; 50% | 2021-2025 Collegiate (52): 52%; 12%; 48% | 2020-2024 Dalton (87): 52%; 16%; 48% | 2019-2024 Riverdale (116): 46%; 11%; 43% | 2020-2025 Saint Ann's (86): 45%; 13%; 35% | 2024-2025 Chapin (60): 43%; 11%; 38% | 2021-2025 Nightingale (57): 33%; 6%; 28% | 2021-2025 Fieldston (120): 28%; 3%; 24% | 2020-2025 Browning (25): 25%; 3%; 23% | 2021-2025 Regis (130): 25%; 6%; 22% | 2022-2025 Friends Seminary (74): 24%; 5%; 21% | 2021-2025 Packer (96): 19%; 5%; 16% | 2021-2025 Avenues (91): 19%; 3%; 17% | 2023 Dwight-Englewood (124): 17%; 3%; 16% | 2023-2025 Sacred Heart (56): 16%; 3%; 15% | 2021-2025 Poly Prep (128): 15%; 2%; 12% | 2021-2025 Marymount (50): 14%; 3%; 13% | 2020-2024 Horace Mann (180): 42%; 6%; 42% | 2023-2025 *** lower bound; missing Stanford, MIT, Caltech, Amherst, Williams; badges <5 students |
| It can depend on the school and the college. Sometimes a college counselor can really mess up a relationship with a school and you that school will no longer take its calls. A huge part of being the head of a TT schools is managing the egoes of admissions people at Ivy League schools and keeping up a relationship. They actually will quash the applications of students and not “back” certain kids if they need to reserve a space for a high value family (aka big donors). Some schools are more fair than others. |
| If you just have your heart set on Harvard, you need to clock the kids in your kids’ class, who is a double legacy, are they big money donors (BIG money, like building money, not like did well for yourself money), and if there are more than one or two, just know your kid won’t be getting the school’s support. |
This is fascinating to me. Assume you work in admissions or in a school college counseling office? Any other interesting nuggets you can share? |
a) It is true. b) You've typed like 4x as much as me, I don't see how I'm making worse points or "fabricating a story line" here; I'm basically making the same point over and over again and tossing in some general snarkiness. To the extent that I was trying to troll you - and I didn't start off that way but I came around to the idea after a few of your responses - I seem to have succeeded extremely well in that, because you're still responding and you're clearly a lot more bothered by this interaction than I am. |
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No, I just have now been at a TT school for a number of years and have heard enough stories/been told this by faculty, admin, etc. Literally four hours ago, an acquaintance was complaining about how Horace Mann didn’t support her niece’s application to an Ivy despite the fact she was in the top 5 percent of her class. It’s a known thing at most of these places. If your main goal is Ivy League admission, you have to know it’s a game. All these people on here doing percentage odds. My guess is their kids will go to great schools, but the kids who get the HYP spots are often rich and connected.
(my kid isn’t at Horace Mann)
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Where did her niece end up? |
Was this a specific Ivy? Considering that they send over 40/yr to Cornell+Chicago, it does seem like they would discourage unconnected kids from applying to at least some top schools. |
*does not |