People who have a high number of sexual partners

Anonymous
If someone has casually slept with over 25 people at say age 30 what would you think of them?

Does the answer differ if this person is a man or woman?

Anonymous
25 @ 30 is not a high number. I was thinking 100 would be a high number.

And no, I would not judge.
Anonymous
No. Sex is normal. Sex is great. Sex should be enjoyed.
Anonymous
Probably have lower ability to pair bond and form deeper emotional connections. Probably also more likely to cheat.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Probably have lower ability to pair bond and form deeper emotional connections. Probably also more likely to cheat.


My partner and I both have a “high” number and we’re still completely bonded and connected. Probably because our relationship isn’t built on sex.
Anonymous
Doesn’t bother me.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Probably have lower ability to pair bond and form deeper emotional connections. Probably also more likely to cheat.


My partner and I both have a “high” number and we’re still completely bonded and connected. Probably because our relationship isn’t built on sex.


Exception/ rule and all that. Keep patting yourself on the back though, Jane.
Anonymous
No... I have a higher number than that...

Anonymous
Ugh, I'll be that guy. Yes it's different for men and women too.
Anonymous
I would think they had sex with a lot of people.

For me, the answer doesn’t differ.
Anonymous
That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.


Exactly. Not a high number for someone who wasn’t in a long term relationship by age 30.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.


Silly old me here is thinking that letting a different man stick his d*ck in me every three months is a bit gross. I don't even change my toothbrush that often.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.


Exactly. Not a high number for someone who wasn’t in a long term relationship by age 30.


Huge red flag if one has failed to have a LTR by 30. Huge.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.


Exactly. Not a high number for someone who wasn’t in a long term relationship by age 30.


But...this is also telling.
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