People who have a high number of sexual partners
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Anonymous
Maybe. But for every guy like that there are 10 more who are lazy and would value the ease of sleeping with someone they already slept with. |
Anonymous
That's kind of gross. Change your toothbrush! |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
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Men who was at 20 partners when I got married at 30. And I am relationship minded and this includes three situations that were anywhere from over a year to two years.
It's really not that difficult to push it to 25+. Didn't go to bars, these are women I met at school or work or through people at both. So I can't/won't judge someone with a high count. I'm not a bad looking guy but seriously. it's pretty easy to do. |
Anonymous
| Agree with PP. I had a low number because I was married young. Divorced for four years and into the 30s. I am dating hoping to get married again, and a healthy sexual relationship is part of that. |
Anonymous
| My current partner only had 7 including me. I like that. I don't like being in a relationship with a woman who has a high number. For a FB, it's fine. |
Anonymous
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It was 1 before college and 3 at end of first year. I lost count in year 2 & 3, but was probably around 30 combined for both years. Most of my friends also had a similar number in years 2&3. Way down in year 4 and afterwards.
DH would be shocked if he knew. 
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Anonymous
Why would DH be shocked? I assume my wife had a similar experience even though she claims a lower #. I had tons of fun in college with girls like you! |
Anonymous
100 years of women struggling and being treated like second-class citizens. All so PP can get pounded (erm..."sensual hookups") by 27 different drunken college dudes and anyone who judges her for it is an oppressive sexist! |
Anonymous
Dear Gd yes. |
Anonymous
Exactly WTF is it to you how many guys she's been with? How does it affect you in any way? |
Anonymous
He is under the impression that I had been with very few men before him. I did not talk anything about this, but I may acted a bit too virginal when we are together the first time.
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Anonymous
| For a woman it's mental disease or defect. For a man it's ok. |
Anonymous
I’ve known people like this, and it always stems from insecurity. People who are secure in themselves and their sexuality don’t care what others do because sex is awesome. |
Anonymous
so this applies to the women who have posted here, judging men with high numbers and deeming them unsuitable for LTRs? |