People who have a high number of sexual partners

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.

Exactly. Not a high number for someone who wasn’t in a long term relationship by age 30.

Huge red flag if one has failed to have a LTR by 30. Huge.

Disagree. Some people are focused on schooling through that age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.

Silly old me here is thinking that letting a different man stick his d*ck in me every three months is a bit gross. I don't even change my toothbrush that often.

An overused toothbrush is way grosser than an active sexy life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.

Silly old me here is thinking that letting a different man stick his d*ck in me every three months is a bit gross. I don't even change my toothbrush that often.

Yup. Silly old you.

[Anonymous]

Numbers don’t matter to me. Reasons do. Were they just casual sex where both partners just wanted to have fun? Fine. Or was it from cheating? Not fine.

Can the person sexually satisfy a long term partner? I say this because in my experience, men who’ve had many partners but no long term ones don’t know how to keep the sex good and interesting over a long period of time. And that matters.

Most people have had a mix. Some short term casual encounters. Some long term partnerships. To me, that’s normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.

Exactly. Not a high number for someone who wasn’t in a long term relationship by age 30.

Huge red flag if one has failed to have a LTR by 30. Huge.

Disagree. Some people are focused on schooling through that age.

Nah, that doesn't pass the smell test. School is one of the best places to meet LTR's

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Numbers don’t matter to me. Reasons do. Were they just casual sex where both partners just wanted to have fun? Fine. Or was it from cheating? Not fine.

Can the person sexually satisfy a long term partner? I say this because in my experience, men who’ve had many partners but no long term ones don’t know how to keep the sex good and interesting over a long period of time. And that matters.

Most people have had a mix. Some short term casual encounters. Some long term partnerships. To me, that’s normal.

They're just bored of the same vajayjay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If someone has casually slept with over 25 people at say age 30 what would you think of them?

Does the answer differ if this person is a man or woman?

I was pretty proud of myself

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Sex is normal. Sex is great. Sex should be enjoyed.

Daily.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If someone has casually slept with over 25 people at say age 30 what would you think of them?

Does the answer differ if this person is a man or woman?

I was pretty proud of myself

Are you a man or a woman? If woman, it's not exactly a hard thing to accomplish...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.

Silly old me here is thinking that letting a different man stick his d*ck in me every three months is a bit gross. I don't even change my toothbrush that often.

An overused toothbrush is way grosser than an active sexy life. [/quote
+1 My first thought as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If someone has casually slept with over 25 people at say age 30 what would you think of them?

Does the answer differ if this person is a man or woman?

I was pretty proud of myself

Are you a man or a woman? If woman, it's not exactly a hard thing to accomplish...

Not hard for either gender at that age from iM seeing these days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Numbers don’t matter to me. Reasons do. Were they just casual sex where both partners just wanted to have fun? Fine. Or was it from cheating? Not fine.

Can the person sexually satisfy a long term partner? I say this because in my experience, men who’ve had many partners but no long term ones don’t know how to keep the sex good and interesting over a long period of time. And that matters.

Most people have had a mix. Some short term casual encounters. Some long term partnerships. To me, that’s normal.

They're just bored of the same vajayjay.

Right. Because they’ve never made it work in a long term relationship. Women feel the same way. The same penis for 20 years isn’t particularly interesting. It takes effort and creativity to keep it good. Many casual and no/few LTR often points to a lazy partner. Buyer beware.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Numbers don’t matter to me. Reasons do. Were they just casual sex where both partners just wanted to have fun? Fine. Or was it from cheating? Not fine.

Can the person sexually satisfy a long term partner? I say this because in my experience, men who’ve had many partners but no long term ones don’t know how to keep the sex good and interesting over a long period of time. And that matters.

Most people have had a mix. Some short term casual encounters. Some long term partnerships. To me, that’s normal.

Yup. Lots of drunken ONSs with condoms rarely results in someone who knows how to keep sex exciting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Numbers don’t matter to me. Reasons do. Were they just casual sex where both partners just wanted to have fun? Fine. Or was it from cheating? Not fine.

Can the person sexually satisfy a long term partner? I say this because in my experience, men who’ve had many partners but no long term ones don’t know how to keep the sex good and interesting over a long period of time. And that matters.

Most people have had a mix. Some short term casual encounters. Some long term partnerships. To me, that’s normal.

They're just bored of the same vajayjay.

Right. Because they’ve never made it work in a long term relationship. Women feel the same way. The same penis for 20 years isn’t particularly interesting. It takes effort and creativity to keep it good. Many casual and no/few LTR often points to a lazy partner. Buyer beware.

Or self delusion. Much of the excitement comes from variety. You can only approximate that so much with toys, whips, positions and whatever else you convince yourself is interesting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.

Silly old me here is thinking that letting a different man stick his d*ck in me every three months is a bit gross. I don't even change my toothbrush that often.

An overused toothbrush is way grosser than an active sexy life.

An old toothbrush doesn't give you Aids.