Should I tell his wife?

[Anonymous]

Long and short, I slept with a married man. Twice. It was a fling, he love-bombed me to bits, I called it off after a few weeks out of crippling guilt - we’ve gone no contact. He’s not a clever cheater - I know his real name, address, job, etc etc. I also have his wife’s information.

Now a dilemma: do I tell his wife? They’re mid-forties, married nearly twenty years, two teens. Established. That said, he mentioned that he’d cheated on her in the past and after much struggle they were able to stay married. I feel sorry for the woman, as I’m sure I’m not the only one. But maybe she doesn’t want to know.

WWYD?

[Anonymous]

Don’t tell her

[Anonymous]

Mind your own damn business.

[Anonymous]

She knows he’s a cheater and decided to stay with him anyway. There’s no value to you saying anything.

[Anonymous]

My vote is yes, tell her. Give her details. That way, even if she does stay, she can use it against him, which he deserves. Tell her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Long and short, I slept with a married man. Twice. It was a fling, he love-bombed me to bits, I called it off after a few weeks out of crippling guilt - we’ve gone no contact. He’s not a clever cheater - I know his real name, address, job, etc etc. I also have his wife’s information.

Now a dilemma: do I tell his wife? They’re mid-forties, married nearly twenty years, two teens. Established. That said, he mentioned that he’d cheated on her in the past and after much struggle they were able to stay married. I feel sorry for the woman, as I’m sure I’m not the only one. But maybe she doesn’t want to know.

WWYD?

troll fail

[Anonymous]

Just stay away from both of them.

[Anonymous]

No definitely not.

[Anonymous]

I would let her know in some way where she can’t trace it back to you.

[Anonymous]

Move on and figure out how you got sucked in that sh*t.

- Used to sleep with a married guy and didn't understand how damaging it all was. Went to therapy. Now in a healthy relationship.

[Anonymous]

Get your own husband and leave these people alone

[Anonymous]

you are likely a troll but if you are real....you already enabled a homewrecker, don't actually be one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mind your own damn business.

I mean it kind of is her business, to be fair.

[Anonymous]

When Monica Lewinsky tried OP's tactic, the entire US government branded her a "crazy stalker".

[Anonymous]

Hell yes. cc him.