Dating single moms?

[Anonymous]

If I'm a single dad and want to date single moms, any tips? Good places to meet them besides soccer?

[Anonymous]

"If"?
Most single women in their 40s and up are mothers. Try online, Bumble etc

[Anonymous]

Dating apps.

[Anonymous]

Be willing to meet for coffee or lunch during the workday first. Save the sitter for the serious dates.

[Anonymous]

Go where the kids are.

Playground. Children's museum. Storytime.

If your kids are older...put them in weekend activities. Meet women at pickup/drop off.

Hell...Target in the kid's clothing section. Single moms are everywhere, man.

[Anonymous]

Soon enough you will learn the right answer is, "don't do that".

If I'm a single dad and want to date single moms

No, you don't. Trust me.

[Anonymous]

Apps. Single moms may not mean they want relationships

[Anonymous]

You get a 1 or 1.5 point boost in the Social Market Value of the woman you pull if you’re willing to date a single Mom.

Say the best you can pull is a 6. So if you go for a single Mom, you can now pull a 7.5. That’s without losing weight, getting fit, getting a promotion, or any of the other things you do to boost your own SMV. Just the instant decision to date single Moms has a +1.5 point impact in what you can bag.

Then consider this: you get this chick and wife her up. She knows what it’s like to be a single Mom, and she doesn’t want to go back. Once you’ve locked her in, have her go get new b***s. That would take her to an 8 or 8.5, a stone-cold MILF.

All because you opened yourself to dealing with a step kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You get a 1 or 1.5 point boost in the Social Market Value of the woman you pull if you’re willing to date a single Mom.

Say the best you can pull is a 6. So if you go for a single Mom, you can now pull a 7.5. That’s without losing weight, getting fit, getting a promotion, or any of the other things you do to boost your own SMV. Just the instant decision to date single Moms has a +1.5 point impact in what you can bag.

Then consider this: you get this chick and wife her up. She knows what it’s like to be a single Mom, and she doesn’t want to go back. Once you’ve locked her in, have her go get new b***s. That would take her to an 8 or 8.5, a stone-cold MILF.

All because you opened yourself to dealing with a step kid.

This! With new boobs she’s be at least a Solid 8.

Lol

Not sure why but this post cracked me up.

[Anonymous]

There are some guys on this forum who have read way too much of the pick up advice books or articles.

I'm a single mom who doesn't use dating apps. In my experience you check me out, stare, and circle nervously for about 18 months then make awkward small talk when you can. It's awkward but endearing. Try the real world - volunteer at your kid's school and get to know the other parents.

[Anonymous]

Single moms are the best.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Single moms are the best.

(For a pump and dump)

[Anonymous]

I notice that women without children are much more in demand on online dating sites.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You get a 1 or 1.5 point boost in the Social Market Value of the woman you pull if you’re willing to date a single Mom.

Say the best you can pull is a 6. So if you go for a single Mom, you can now pull a 7.5. That’s without losing weight, getting fit, getting a promotion, or any of the other things you do to boost your own SMV. Just the instant decision to date single Moms has a +1.5 point impact in what you can bag.

Then consider this: you get this chick and wife her up. She knows what it’s like to be a single Mom, and she doesn’t want to go back. Once you’ve locked her in, have her go get new b***s. That would take her to an 8 or 8.5, a stone-cold MILF.

All because you opened yourself to dealing with a step kid.

This! With new boobs she’s be at least a Solid 8.

Lol

Not sure why but this post cracked me up.

Lots of assumptions in the PP. if any fail, you’re back at a 6 with some other guy’s saved game to boot. That’s a lot more risk than you suggest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Go where the kids are.

Playground. Children's museum. Storytime.

If your kids are older...put them in weekend activities. Meet women at pickup/drop off.

Hell...Target in the kid's clothing section. Single moms are everywhere, man.

Please don’t try to hit on me in front of my kids. It’s nothing personal; I just don’t want to bring my kids into my dating life.

I’ve met single dads through activities that I do when my ex has the kids (things like running clubs or volunteer activities). It’s good, because we know our custody schedules line up.

Are you looking to just date, or do you want to remarry? I think it’s best to be honest about your intentions up front. I don’t want to remarry/blend my family, so I don’t want to waste someone’s time if that’s what they are looking for.