Dating single moms?

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Anonymous wrote:Single moms are the best.

(For a pump and dump)

Men who do this are terrible lovers. They dump because they’re embarrassed about their performance.

As a woman I disagree. They still view women poorly who sleep with the guy early on. Hypocritical yes, but also true.

I really don’t care what people think. As a very busy single mom with few opportunities to have a nice social life....and sex.....I will sleep with a man early on if I like him and I basically feel that I’m using him to fill my needs.

I'm a single mom and I don't need to be in love or really like someone to have sex. There are times when it is something I just really want to do and if he's a good guy I feel as though I'm taking advantage of him, not the other way around. I do hope that someday I will have the time to be in an LTR but until then it is what it is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Single mom here that looks good and takes care of myself. I don’t have time for games or messing around. I know what I am looking for. Depending on where I am in my life I want a FWB or a LTR, and I will search that out accordingly. Right now I’m in a LTR with someone that I adore, and think could be “the one”. We slept together on the second date, which is extremely unusual for me, but I knew that he was special pretty quickly. We’ve been together 8 months now.

Things I look for in a guy-
- Kindness
- Stability (in personality/temperament and income)
- Must rock my world in bed
- Great sense of humor
- Intelligence
- Sexy (can be somewhat subjective. What is hot to me, may not be hot to you.)

If you have all of these qualities, and are open to moving at a pace that is set by the single mom with regards to her kids (she will always put them first), then you should think about dating us. We are an awesome demographic.

TL;DR we have a long list of demands and nothing to offer you except periodic access to our aging, sagging bodies that were destroyed bearing some other dude's children. We are an awesome demographic if you like

[Anonymous]

I’m a single dad (at home with kids this weekend) and I have a few single mom friends. They are all very independent and want to keep it that way so as not to disrupt their children’s lives and I applaud and admire them for this. I’m very much the same way and like them it’s very important to once in awhile be an adult and do adult things with another adult. Having a FWB is a nice way to remind yourself that you are an attractive, sexual person and not just a single mom or dad.

[Anonymous]

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For you single moms with FWB-like arrangements, who pays when you go out?

Why go out? If the kids are with the XDH, it is time to mate like crazed wildebeests. You can also find food + cocktails later.

Unless the sex is weak. Then he should pay.

We don't split the check but I pay half the time...ok....about 25% of the time. He makes a lot more than I do but we really don't talk about it. He's a good guy who would pay 100% of the time but he understands why I want to pay.

Good for you for not viewing him as an atm.

I'm looking for a single mom who does atm.

I just want one who does a. I won’t even worry about the tm part.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Single mom here that looks good and takes care of myself. I don’t have time for games or messing around. I know what I am looking for. Depending on where I am in my life I want a FWB or a LTR, and I will search that out accordingly. Right now I’m in a LTR with someone that I adore, and think could be “the one”. We slept together on the second date, which is extremely unusual for me, but I knew that he was special pretty quickly. We’ve been together 8 months now.

Things I look for in a guy-
- Kindness
- Stability (in personality/temperament and income)
- Must rock my world in bed
- Great sense of humor
- Intelligence
- Sexy (can be somewhat subjective. What is hot to me, may not be hot to you.)

If you have all of these qualities, and are open to moving at a pace that is set by the single mom with regards to her kids (she will always put them first), then you should think about dating us. We are an awesome demographic.

TL;DR we have a long list of demands and nothing to offer you except periodic access to our aging, sagging bodies that were destroyed bearing some other dude's children. We are an awesome demographic if you like

And yet, the most popular type of porn used by American males is....MILF porn. Guess the saggy bodies aren’t all that bad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

For you single moms with FWB-like arrangements, who pays when you go out?

Why go out? If the kids are with the XDH, it is time to mate like crazed wildebeests. You can also find food + cocktails later.

Unless the sex is weak. Then he should pay.

We don't split the check but I pay half the time...ok....about 25% of the time. He makes a lot more than I do but we really don't talk about it. He's a good guy who would pay 100% of the time but he understands why I want to pay.

Good for you for not viewing him as an atm.

I'm looking for a single mom who does atm.

I just want one who does a. I won’t even worry about the tm part.

Most will do a.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Single mom here that looks good and takes care of myself. I don’t have time for games or messing around. I know what I am looking for. Depending on where I am in my life I want a FWB or a LTR, and I will search that out accordingly. Right now I’m in a LTR with someone that I adore, and think could be “the one”. We slept together on the second date, which is extremely unusual for me, but I knew that he was special pretty quickly. We’ve been together 8 months now.

Things I look for in a guy-
- Kindness
- Stability (in personality/temperament and income)
- Must rock my world in bed
- Great sense of humor
- Intelligence
- Sexy (can be somewhat subjective. What is hot to me, may not be hot to you.)

If you have all of these qualities, and are open to moving at a pace that is set by the single mom with regards to her kids (she will always put them first), then you should think about dating us. We are an awesome demographic.

TL;DR we have a long list of demands and nothing to offer you except periodic access to our aging, sagging bodies that were destroyed bearing some other dude's children. We are an awesome demographic if you like

And yet, the most popular type of porn used by American males is....MILF porn. Guess the saggy bodies aren’t all that bad.

Porn MILFs tend to have decent bodies though, and there's the whole mommy fetishism that goes with it,

[Anonymous]

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We don't split the check but I pay half the time...ok....about 25% of the time. He makes a lot more than I do but we really don't talk about it. He's a good guy who would pay 100% of the time but he understands why I want to pay.

I am great with paying for dates, travel, etc. I normally make more than my dates so it makes sense.

My question: What about staying the night? I have to get up early for work or the gym (every day but Sunday) and have little desire to stay over. Morning or middle of the night sex is great; however, waking up at 5:00 am to hurry and get it on it is not great.

I am cool with staying over on a Saturday night (or having her stay over then). Ladies - are you good with not staying over most of the time?

Yes! I need my sleep & usually sleep better solo (so many guys snore!) ... but it would bother me if the guy kept out of bed immediately after. Chill for a bit & a long kiss goodbye & out you go.

[Anonymous]

And yet, the most popular type of porn used by American males is....MILF porn. Guess the saggy bodies aren’t all that bad.

Women: we must teach men that porn does not represent actual reality because neither the women nor the scenarios depicted are anything like real life women or real life sex.

Also women: men watch MILF porn so they must like saggy MILF bodies in real life.

[Anonymous]

For those of you that are single moms or dating single moms, what Apps do you like? I am on Bumble and find the number of men that come through my cue is dwindling.

[Anonymous]

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And yet, the most popular type of porn used by American males is....MILF porn. Guess the saggy bodies aren’t all that bad.

Women: we must teach men that porn does not represent actual reality because neither the women nor the scenarios depicted are anything like real life women or real life sex.

Also women: men watch MILF porn so they must like saggy MILF bodies in real life.

Awhile back I asked my husband if he ever watched porn and he said rarely because it makes him realize that he is undersized and who needs to be depressed. In reality he’s probably average but he makes wonderful use of it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

And yet, the most popular type of porn used by American males is....MILF porn. Guess the saggy bodies aren’t all that bad.

Women: we must teach men that porn does not represent actual reality because neither the women nor the scenarios depicted are anything like real life women or real life sex.

Also women: men watch MILF porn so they must like saggy MILF bodies in real life.

Awhile back I asked my husband if he ever watched porn and he said rarely because it makes him realize that he is undersized and who needs to be depressed. In reality he’s probably average but he makes wonderful use of it.

This sounds unlikely. Guys who watch porn don’t pay any attention to the man. Your DH would only notice the size of the men if he is gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

And yet, the most popular type of porn used by American males is....MILF porn. Guess the saggy bodies aren’t all that bad.

Women: we must teach men that porn does not represent actual reality because neither the women nor the scenarios depicted are anything like real life women or real life sex.

Also women: men watch MILF porn so they must like saggy MILF bodies in real life.

Uh-oh, somebody was triggered

You know, if you stopped hating women so much, you'd get to do a whole lot more than just watch porn.

[Anonymous]

Single moms rock in bed. I prefer to date them because generally they don't want I mediate ltr and are down for anything as long as they get theirs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Single mom here that looks good and takes care of myself. I don’t have time for games or messing around. I know what I am looking for. Depending on where I am in my life I want a FWB or a LTR, and I will search that out accordingly. Right now I’m in a LTR with someone that I adore, and think could be “the one”. We slept together on the second date, which is extremely unusual for me, but I knew that he was special pretty quickly. We’ve been together 8 months now.

Things I look for in a guy-
- Kindness
- Stability (in personality/temperament and income)
- Must rock my world in bed
- Great sense of humor
- Intelligence
- Sexy (can be somewhat subjective. What is hot to me, may not be hot to you.)

If you have all of these qualities, and are open to moving at a pace that is set by the single mom with regards to her kids (she will always put them first), then you should think about dating us. We are an awesome demographic.

TL;DR we have a long list of demands and nothing to offer you except periodic access to our aging, sagging bodies that were destroyed bearing some other dude's children. We are an awesome demographic if you like

And yet, the most popular type of porn used by American males is....MILF porn. Guess the saggy bodies aren’t all that bad.

the "stars" aren't really your typical moms....