Ugh. Not sure what to do. We (family of 3, 2 adults, one 13 year old, all healthy) have booked a trip to St. John April 7 for 7 nights. Last day to cancel VRBO for full refund is midnight tonight. We have flights departing Chicago, change planes in Miami on to St. Thomas, ferry to St. John. Return flight through Charlotte. Honestly, the airports are scarier to me than the planes for some reason. Husband and son think I'm being too cautious. |
*slow clap* Been saying this for weeks now. Next thing you know we'll finally get travel advisories for France and Germany. Of course that person who already flew out on their vacation is screwed though. |
Assess your risk tolerance. Healthcare there is pretty good, government is sane, and there have fewer cases than us I think. If you got stuck there for a couple weeks, would you lose your jobs? Would it bankrupt you? What about if Ireland closes national heritage sites—would you feel like your vacation was wasted or be happy just wandering around? We are in a similar situation and I’m thinking about going but can’t decide—we ae past our cancellation windows so at this point might as well defer decision. |
Quick getaway with DD to Florida over Easter — April 9th thru 13th. Flying in and out of Tampa and staying at the beach. I have until March 27th to cancel VRBO for full refund — can’t cancel the flight.
She is 16, I am 50, and we are both very healthy with no underlying issues. Thoughts? |
Plus CDC officially put out what it wanted to say yesterday: Older adults and travelers with underlying health issues should avoid situations that put them at increased risk for more severe disease. This entails avoiding crowded places, avoiding non-essential travel such as long plane trips, and especially avoiding embarking on cruise ships. So hopefully people listen and no cruises for anyone + no travel or conferences or whatever at all for age 60+ or any age if you have other health conditions. But IDK Americans tend not to be good at listening and it's all about MY vacation, MY money etc. |
People keep coming back sick and DCUM rich people keep asking "should I go? should I?" As someone with a compromised child and two elderly parents that would die if they caught this? Please don't. Larla and Larlo will get over it. And so will you. Tell them there is a dangerous virus circulating and it's not safe for others. End of. |
That you had to answer this poster? UGH! |
Really everyone should be reassessing. They are potential carriers and spreaders even if they are young and have not health problems. It's about having some sort of personal sense of responsibility for your community and your fellow citizens. Just being a good neighbor. You don't know if your coworker has a child, spouse or parent with health issues. Though we know this behavior is because as a society we are individually minded not community minded. In some ways this can be good, but in times like this really bad. |
You to camp if this still continues into May: "I am canceling and want my money back. If you don't you will be hearing from my lawyer, every news agency, etc." |
Put sanitizer outside the door most used to the house. Husband separates himself in the house from both of you and uses a private bathroom if possible, for two weeks. You make DH meals and put a bunch of snack foods in that room. Buy a dorm-size fridge if necessary. |
I would wear a mask and gloves and socially distance from others (keep 6 feet away). Nothing screams "I'm sick" like a mask - they will keep their distance from YOU I bet. |
Nope. They will consider you an infected paraiah. |
Question to ask yourselves: "If I don't get a full refund or refund at all, how will it affect my life 5 years from now?" My guess is not at all. |
THIS. And I love that everyone here is normally sooo rich that they scoff on those with merely a 300k HHI but God forbid they lose $500 or $1500 on a trip . . . let's just put the rest of us at risk bc American won't refund your tix or you've anticipated your trip for a year but like a child you cannot bear a little disappointment for safety -- yours but also people around you, coworkers, etc. |
Exactly. But lets be real Americans don't have that sense of responsibility. I have friends who are already talking about -- hmm flights are getting cheap, I may go on a vacation, what's the big deal, it would only be a cold if I even got it or so what if I got stuck in Aruba for a few extra days if flights were grounded. So I take it you have no coworkers, neighbors, or friends or relatives in any risk group -- no one over 60 and no younger friends with underlying conditions that may not be tattooed on their foreheads? You don't intend to come back and take Ubers and grab dinner - thus exposing people who may have conditions you can't see and/or have jobs where they have no sick time/can't telework etc. People are selfish and we need these types of blanket statements from CDC and/or actual cancellations of events like concerts etc. or else ppl will just say -- shrug, I paid, I'm not canceling bc I could get a cold. |