Confessions

[Anonymous]

Why is it a mistake to be feminine ??

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I confess to judging people more on their communication skills than on their appearance. I think that someone who doesn't use correct capitalization and punctuation, or who doesn't know the difference between "it's" and "its" or "you're" and "your" is probably stupid, no matter how cute they look.

I also think that people who seek out certain brands and cast aspersions on other brands are shallow and are missing out on the important things in life.

Me too! I'll choose smart over "cute" anyday.

Good for you. English is my second language that does not make me stupid . So smart people can you write a perfect paragraph in another language ? Btw I did not even try to reread or check anything it was what it was. Girls showering is not a luxury hire some help if you can't do it all.


Cheers , Natalie ?

I hear you sister. These American women prefer to go out all trashy and stinky, stay ignorant about other languages and cultures. We shower and learn a 2nd, 3rd, 4th... language and look cute.
We make them so jealous!!!!

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I don't understand why "they" think that not caring about what you look like means you are a better person, it is just sad.

[Anonymous]

I confess I hate the last couple of posters. They kill every thread they contribute to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is it a mistake to be feminine ??

I think feminine mistake means mistakes women make, not saying it is a mistake to be feminine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I confess to judging people more on their communication skills than on their appearance. I think that someone who doesn't use correct capitalization and punctuation, or who doesn't know the difference between "it's" and "its" or "you're" and "your" is probably stupid, no matter how cute they look.

I also think that people who seek out certain brands and cast aspersions on other brands are shallow and are missing out on the important things in life.

Me too! I'll choose smart over "cute" anyday.

Good for you. English is my second language that does not make me stupid . So smart people can you write a perfect paragraph in another language ? Btw I did not even try to reread or check anything it was what it was. Girls showering is not a luxury hire some help if you can't do it all.


Cheers , Natalie ?

I hear you sister. These American women prefer to go out all trashy and stinky, stay ignorant about other languages and cultures. We shower and learn a 2nd, 3rd, 4th... language and look cute.
We make them so jealous!!!!

L
o
L

Right. You look really cute when you're cleaning my toilets honey! Don't forget to scrub the floor when you're done.

[Anonymous]

I confess that I think mothers who can't get a shower are totally ridiculous. Use vibrating seat, bouncy seat, exersaucer, jumper, carseat even for a smaller baby. For a toddler, childproof the bathroom and close him/her in there with you with some toys. My bathroom is teeny and I can do this. Or shower during naptime. After your baby is older than a couple weeks it should not be that hard. God.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think moms who don't dye their hair look sloppy and ugly. I think moms who don't try to look cute are sad and are missing out and that life is too short you should atleast try to look pretty no matter what your weight is or what you look like. also trying to look nice does not mean your shallow FYI. it means i love myself and my husband and my kids . Ugly moms: you can be smart loving caring kind and pretty too ! its not that hard . So ladies please shower blow dry your hair colour it if you have grey hairs , use tweezers and don't cut your hair short if you can't pull the look off, buy fashion magazines for some ideas on how to dress in style use lip gloss some makeup and please no vera bradley bags !

Ok, I'll bite. I am a new mom and can tell you that I'm not able to shower every single day before I go out with DS. I don't always fix my hair or put make up on. It is not because I am slovenly or lazy. It is because that getting my kid out in the sunshine takes precedence over spending an hour in front of the mirror. It has become quite a luxury for me to shower AND wash, dry and straighten my hair everyday. And yes, this does take time. Time that I don't have right now. I do my best to look presentable but would never slam another mom for her appearance. Don't be so quick to judge others if you've only seen them once on the street. You don't know if they're having a tough day or what's on their plate. My god. You would think that women who share such a beautiful gift such as motherhood wouldn't be so quick to jump on one another.

Wow. The first PP is quite shallow. Second PP, I also believe kids being out takes precedence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think moms who don't dye their hair look sloppy and ugly. I think moms who don't try to look cute are sad and are missing out and that life is too short you should atleast try to look pretty no matter what your weight is or what you look like. also trying to look nice does not mean your shallow FYI. it means i love myself and my husband and my kids . Ugly moms: you can be smart loving caring kind and pretty too ! its not that hard . So ladies please shower blow dry your hair colour it if you have grey hairs , use tweezers and don't cut your hair short if you can't pull the look off, buy fashion magazines for some ideas on how to dress in style use lip gloss some makeup and please no vera bradley bags !

Ok, I'll bite. I am a new mom and can tell you that I'm not able to shower every single day before I go out with DS. I don't always fix my hair or put make up on. It is not because I am slovenly or lazy. It is because that getting my kid out in the sunshine takes precedence over spending an hour in front of the mirror. It has become quite a luxury for me to shower AND wash, dry and straighten my hair everyday. And yes, this does take time. Time that I don't have right now. I do my best to look presentable but would never slam another mom for her appearance. Don't be so quick to judge others if you've only seen them once on the street. You don't know if they're having a tough day or what's on their plate. My god. You would think that women who share such a beautiful gift such as motherhood wouldn't be so quick to jump on one another.

Actually I am not a new mom and I could make time if I want to but I choose not to. I'd rather spend my time with my family, working out at the gym, tutoring a neighborhood kid, writing music, and studying a third language (on top of my job)! But that's okay, I'd just as soon you didn't waste your time trying to be my friend and improve me. I think we'll do fine going our separate ways.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I confess to judging people more on their communication skills than on their appearance. I think that someone who doesn't use correct capitalization and punctuation, or who doesn't know the difference between "it's" and "its" or "you're" and "your" is probably stupid, no matter how cute they look.

I also think that people who seek out certain brands and cast aspersions on other brands are shallow and are missing out on the important things in life.

Me too! I'll choose smart over "cute" anyday.

Good for you. English is my second language that does not make me stupid . So smart people can you write a perfect paragraph in another language ? Btw I did not even try to reread or check anything it was what it was. Girls showering is not a luxury hire some help if you can't do it all.


Cheers , Natalie ?

Nope, and neither can you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I confess that I think mothers who can't get a shower are totally ridiculous. Use vibrating seat, bouncy seat, exersaucer, jumper, carseat even for a smaller baby. For a toddler, childproof the bathroom and close him/her in there with you with some toys. My bathroom is teeny and I can do this. Or shower during naptime. After your baby is older than a couple weeks it should not be that hard. God.

I confess that I agree.

[Anonymous]

Worst case scenario, I just bring the toddler in the shower with me. It's not the most leisurely shower for me, but it gets the job done. I wash my hair and he sits at the other end playing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think moms who don't dye their hair look sloppy and ugly. I think moms who don't try to look cute are sad and are missing out and that life is too short you should atleast try to look pretty no matter what your weight is or what you look like. also trying to look nice does not mean your shallow FYI. it means i love myself and my husband and my kids . Ugly moms: you can be smart loving caring kind and pretty too ! its not that hard . So ladies please shower blow dry your hair colour it if you have grey hairs , use tweezers and don't cut your hair short if you can't pull the look off, buy fashion magazines for some ideas on how to dress in style use lip gloss some makeup and please no vera bradley bags !

Ok, I'll bite. I am a new mom and can tell you that I'm not able to shower every single day before I go out with DS. I don't always fix my hair or put make up on. It is not because I am slovenly or lazy. It is because that getting my kid out in the sunshine takes precedence over spending an hour in front of the mirror. It has become quite a luxury for me to shower AND wash, dry and straighten my hair everyday. And yes, this does take time. Time that I don't have right now. I do my best to look presentable but would never slam another mom for her appearance. Don't be so quick to judge others if you've only seen them once on the street. You don't know if they're having a tough day or what's on their plate. My god. You would think that women who share such a beautiful gift such as motherhood wouldn't be so quick to jump on one another.

Actually I am not a new mom and I could make time if I want to but I choose not to. I'd rather spend my time with my family, working out at the gym, tutoring a neighborhood kid, writing music, and studying a third language (on top of my job)! But that's okay, I'd just as soon you didn't waste your time trying to be my friend and improve me. I think we'll do fine going our separate ways.

Well congrats Superwoman! I didn't say that I don't shower you bunch of morons. I said it is a luxury if I can wash, dry and straighten my hair every day when I do take a shower. I also said I cannot always shower BEFORE going outside. My god you bunch of vultures! It is much easier to hand DS over to DH when he gets home and to shower then. And btw, I'm so sorry that all of you have to work so hard at looking good. I don't. Three weeks after delivery and I'm back to a size zero so BITE IT. The difference is that I have a brain and know that there's more to a person than how often they get their legs waxed. Do you also teach your children to be this shallow?

[Anonymous]

I confess that I find it distasteful to bash new moms that may be overwhelmed. Ladies, enough with the bullying already!

[Anonymous]

I confess that I married a moron and that my DH cannot seem to find the damn dishwasher. I'm going to draw him a map when I get home. If I find another dirty dish in the sink when the dishwasher isn't even clean.......

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Worst case scenario, I just bring the toddler in the shower with me. It's not the most leisurely shower for me, but it gets the job done. I wash my hair and he sits at the other end playing.

And if you have more than one kid??