Wives, how often is perfect for you in terms of sex frequency?

[Anonymous]

Is there a match or mismatch between you and your DH?

My DH and I have sex about 6 times a month, I would say. I know that is not a lot for a lot of people apparently, but we are both really happy with this. I know this because I never turn him down for sex and he never turns me down for sex.

Others?

[Anonymous]

1x per week. We went through a few droughts with pregnancies, but this seems to be where we settle in.

With a 1 & 3 year old, I’m chalking it up as a win.

[Anonymous]

Once a week is what we do, too. If we can fit another time in, great, but often it doesn’t work out. We’re both happy with it, though.

[Anonymous]

Daily, unless I'm totally exhausted or sick.

[Anonymous]

Quearterly

[Anonymous]

Never

[Anonymous]

Reality - more please
Fantasy - everyday

[Anonymous]

3x a week at 10am

[Anonymous]

I'd be happy with once per month.
However, I love my spouse very, very much and he would really like it 2-3 times per week. So I make sure we have sex once a week with a few blow jobs thrown in there in between. He's so absolutely dedicated to me in every way and always puts my needs above his. I try hard to reciprocate by putting his needs in this area above my own because I know it matters so much to him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Never

+1. With my husband, anyway. With the right man, I’m insatiable.

[Anonymous]

4-5 times per week. It refreshes me; the best stress relief ever.

[Anonymous]

Once a month but I try to do it weekly to stay married and keep my DH sane.

[Anonymous]

I like it in increasing frequency as ovulation approaches. Zero desire after ovulation, or when I'm on any form of hormonal birth control.

[Anonymous]

Until perimenopause hit me, daily was ideal. I was insatiable.

Hormones are killing me. It’s not exactly that I’m uninterested. It’s just not the same. I’m okay with once or maybe even twice a week, but I really only want it about once every 4-6 weeks. I never thought this would be me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Once a week is what we do, too. If we can fit another time in, great, but often it doesn’t work out. We’re both happy with it, though.

Same.