Wives, how often is perfect for you in terms of sex frequency?
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Anonymous
| 6 times a month |
Anonymous
For me, 1-2 times a week would be ideal (unless sick, etc.). For DH, probably every other day. We average 2-3 times a week. 
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Anonymous
| Aim for 2-3/week, happy with 1-2/week |
Anonymous
| For me, pretty close to never would be fine. But he needs it every day so we average 1-2 times a week most weeks. |
Anonymous
| I’m happy with the current amount: we have “real” sex 2-3 times over the weekend (usually Friday night, Saturday and Sunday during nap/quiet time) and mainenance sex at some point during the week. We had kids early in the relationship so we were still having sex like daily before pregnancy/kids and may end up with more sex once the kids (5, 3, 1) are all people again. |
Anonymous
| Once per child. |
Anonymous
| Post-menopausal, and somewhere between monthly and quarterly would be just fine with me. We average probably 3x a month. |
Anonymous
Why never? And why stay? |
Anonymous
I have no drive, once we get started its between fine and good but I don't need it. I stay because I love him and we have kids. Reading these responses, my situation seems common, women want far less sex than we end up having. This is called common knowledge, men have higher sex drives. |
Anonymous
| I would say once a week, sometimes twice. Also varies with my cycle and how well rested I am. We are actually probably at like 3 times a month. |
Anonymous
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Usually, 5-10 times per month.
Some months, it's more like 12-15 times per month. |
Anonymous
| 3-4 times a week would be my preference, but it ends up being once a quarter. (he has low drive and seems content sexless) |
Anonymous
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I would like once a day so of course my DH is low drive LOL.
Sigh. |
Anonymous
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Once a week
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Anonymous
With AP? |