Wives, how often is perfect for you in terms of sex frequency?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is there a match or mismatch between you and your DH?

My DH and I have sex about 6 times a month, I would say. I know that is not a lot for a lot of people apparently, but we are both really happy with this. I know this because I never turn him down for sex and he never turns me down for sex.

Others?

I prefer 1-2 ties a week with more 2x weeks. But my back is the biggest determining factor and it has other ideas. It isn’t all about libido.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't think my wife baited and switched on me. We had a great sex life at the start, it dwindled when the kids came and never really returned. She feels bad about it, and judging from the answers here, her drive (e likes it about 1x a month) is not that far from normal.

For now I stay. She has said that if I cheat she doesn't want to know, so she doesn't know. It's not what I want over the long term. Perhaps my drive will fall off similarly as I age and we will be on the same plane again.

What I truly don't get is why she doesn't make an effort to get in the mood. But I can't complain as she at least has given me somewhat of a hall pass.

You’re still a cheater.

He sounds like a partner who is compromising to save is marriage. What other option is there really?

. The option to not cheat is always there.

[Anonymous]

If love to have some strange and if that were the case, 7 days a week.

However with the same person I've been having sex with for 20 years? Once a month? It is just so so tedious screwing the same man for decades. Sex drive is great, what is not so great are the chains of sexual monogamy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Twice a month three hour sessions are fine with me. But I’m in my 40s.

That sounds truly awful. Fo you watch TV over his shoulder? So boring. There is nothing I like doing for 3 hours. Your vagina must be rubbed raw.