Husbands, what little things do you wish your wives would stop/change?

[Anonymous]

We all have annoying/unattractive habits and behaviors. No one is perfect, and that's fine.

But I'm curious, and this question is for husbands: What little things do you wish your wives would change/stop?

And if someone wants to flip this around and ask wives what they want their husbands to change, they are welcome to start another thread.

[Anonymous]

What a sexist question! Why would one gender lay claim to a certain set of annoying behaviors that the other gender doesn’t also do!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What a sexist question! Why would one gender lay claim to a certain set of annoying behaviors that the other gender doesn’t also do!

Op said “your”.

You dumbass.

[Anonymous]

I wish she would stop not having sex with me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What a sexist question! Why would one gender lay claim to a certain set of annoying behaviors that the other gender doesn’t also do!

Take your feminism somewhere else please .... this is a harmless question that could possibly give insight from a male perspective on how to make a marriage stronger. Some of us (obviously not YOU) care about fostering as much positivity in our relationships as possible. It is very healthy to have that lifetime relationship if one can make it happen, sorry it will never happen for you. Not Op.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What a sexist question! Why would one gender lay claim to a certain set of annoying behaviors that the other gender doesn’t also do!

OP here. No, a sexist premise would be "men, what do you wish ALL WOMEN would stop/change". I'm asking husbands specifically what they wish *their own wives* would change.

Like, just because one husband wishes his wife would stop wearing boxers and ratty T-shirts to bed doesn't mean all men would notice or care about that kind of thing. But if I see one husband make that comment, I'll think about it, and consider whether that's something I want to change for a while, and see if I get a positive result.

NBD.

[Anonymous]

I wish my wife would not leave her open diet Coke cans or glasses of water laying around. If you're done, toss them or put them in the sink. If they aren't done...just put them in the fridge or something. There is a half full can of diet Coke in one of the recliners cup holders. It's been there for 4 days. She will eventually get it. At least she doesn't leave dirty dishes laying around anymore.

Its a small thing, not even worth bringing up. But it drives me nuts sometimes.

[Anonymous]

That she wouldn't use our first moments together when kids are asleep to unload and emotionally vomit on me about her day, what went wrong, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That she wouldn't use our first moments together when kids are asleep to unload and emotionally vomit on me about her day, what went wrong, etc.

Amen to that!!!

[Anonymous]

I’d love a hug when I get home from work. It’d just be nice to start to the evening. Currently, just the dogs come to say hello and if I try to hug her I’ll get an elbow.

The other thing is that if our son or I try to talk to her - please listen to what we’re saying instead of just cutting us off and mowing over us with a loud/aggressive/unpleasant opinion. It creates resentment from both of us.

I’m sure I’ve got some things to work on too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wish my wife would not leave her open diet Coke cans or glasses of water laying around. If you're done, toss them or put them in the sink. If they aren't done...just put them in the fridge or something. There is a half full can of diet Coke in one of the recliners cup holders. It's been there for 4 days. She will eventually get it. At least she doesn't leave dirty dishes laying around anymore.

Its a small thing, not even worth bringing up. But it drives me nuts sometimes.

ugh, this is my husband! But to catch myself, I do nag about it so I should probably be like you and just let it go

[Anonymous]

I asked her to wear thongs more often, which she now does.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wish my wife would not leave her open diet Coke cans or glasses of water laying around. If you're done, toss them or put them in the sink. If they aren't done...just put them in the fridge or something. There is a half full can of diet Coke in one of the recliners cup holders. It's been there for 4 days. She will eventually get it. At least she doesn't leave dirty dishes laying around anymore.

Its a small thing, not even worth bringing up. But it drives me nuts sometimes.

ugh, this is my husband! But to catch myself, I do nag about it so I should probably be like you and just let it go

My dh too but with beer bottles. It smells like yeast infections and grass clippings in my living room.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wish she would stop not having sex with me.

That's not a "little thing".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That she wouldn't use our first moments together when kids are asleep to unload and emotionally vomit on me about her day, what went wrong, etc.

This is a common method of sex-avoidance. That or unleashing a whole list of boner-killing complaints about you.