I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.

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[Post New]12/15/2018 09:33
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He looked happy. They looked happy and in love which sucked. That shouldn’t have been a surprise to me. I guess I just hoped he would change his mind.

She’s pretty and nice too which also stung. I wanted her to be a monster so I could go on justify hating her. We could probably have been friends in an alternate universe where she wasn’t my ex’s new girlfriend.

I hate that I’m thinking about him/ then. I be been good the last 2 weeks not looking at his social media. Deleted his number so I didn’t do anything stupid. Now all I can think about is them kissing and how he used to kiss me.
Ugh!

This isn’t my first break up. I’ve been dating since I was 16 and I’ll be 26 in a few weeks. I thought he was the one.
[Post New]12/15/2018 09:34
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Anonymous
Uh why are you hanging out with your ex?
[Post New]12/15/2018 09:42
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Anonymous wrote:Uh why are you hanging out with your ex?

I’m not. I went out last night with friends and he was there with her.
[Post New]12/15/2018 09:51
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Anonymous
That sucks, I'm sorry OP. Try to keep busy so you don't think about it.
[Post New]12/15/2018 09:52
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Anonymous
Go on a lot of dates.
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:08
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Anonymous
Get a threesome going.
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:11
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Anonymous
How long were you dating, OP?
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:13
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How long were you dating, OP?


A little over a year.
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:14
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Anonymous
You are feeling misdirected anger: you hate her because you are not ready yet to hate him. Give it time and you will see that he is not the man for you
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:14
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Anonymous
Up your game and chin up! Give yourself a literal mantra that you repeat constantly- like “a better match is coming my way.” “I’m a great catch!” ...
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:16
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You are feeling misdirected anger: you hate her because you are not ready yet to hate him. Give it time and you will see that he is not the man for you


+1.
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:18
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Uh why are you hanging out with your ex?

I’m not. I went out last night with friends and he was there with her.


A bad coincidence. Try not to go to places where you have a high chance of seeing him.
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:34
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Anonymous
Hugs op. That sucks, I’m sorry. How long ago did you break up?
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:37
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Anonymous
Did he break up with you for her, or did you break up and he subsequently started dating her?
[Post New]12/15/2018 10:42
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Anonymous
I’m sorry OP. Been there. All I can say is that the universe has your back. I’m 45 and all romantic relationships that ended that I didn’t want at the time to end we’re blessings in disguise because they Les me to my husband who I wouldn’t trade for the world. The pain will get easier. In the meantime hugs
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