I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

New poster. Skank is a great word. It's certainly evocative!

[Anonymous]

I think the idea they are in love and in a new relationship is a bit extreme. No one knows that. OP saw them briefly at a bar/wherever and through the eyes of someone who had just been dumped.

It could have been a first date. Do we even know it was a date and not just a friend?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

New poster. Skank is a great word. It's certainly evocative!

+1. Way too many defenders of “the other woman.”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

New poster. Skank is a great word. It's certainly evocative!

+1. Way too many defenders of “the other woman.”

Way to much projection by immature girls. Seriously pps you need to grow up! Op is no longer dating the guy. They have been single for 2 weeks. He’s free to go out on dates. Perhaps op should do the same instead of having a pity party.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the idea they are in love and in a new relationship is a bit extreme. No one knows that. OP saw them briefly at a bar/wherever and through the eyes of someone who had just been dumped.

It could have been a first date. Do we even know it was a date and not just a friend?

It seems he kissed her so likely a date, but you are spot on. We don’t know any facts other than what op has shared and op admits she doesn’t know if she’s the reason they broke up. She and some posters here have constructed a fairytale in which she’s the wronged princess whose prince is waiting for her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

My friend and I love to call people who are bad drivers 'skanks' while we carpool. Very funny and freeing. LOL

New poster. Skank is a great word. It's certainly evocative!

[Anonymous]

Don't hate her, feel sorry for her, for when he does exactly same thing to her. That is all. Imagine if you got your wish and he came back to you. Would you want him back? I sure wouldn't. So forget him. Forget them both, you're better off. It wasn't real, you're lucky you're still young and haven't wasted years on this loser.

[Anonymous]

Wish them all the best in your mind and move on. It's probably a good thing you're no longer dating him, as he is not a good match for you. There is someone out there waiting to meet you, but you will not find out unless you start dating. I've been there and this is the best advice I can give you.