I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.

[Anonymous]

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Bitter isn’t a good look

Truth hurts

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got my heart excruciatingly ripped out of my chest with 3 different guys in my 20s. Two were long term relationships and the other I was in love with but it was unrequited (other than one time he used me for sex, but that’s another story). Anyway, it was a blessing in disguise. Two of them were selfish arrogant trust fund brats were treated me like a piece of trash. The other was a spineless wishy washy man child. So why was I in love with them? I now realize that it was just lust/physical attraction and that they had certain accoutrements that I wanted in my life. It certainly wasn’t their sparkling personalities! Anyway, they all married plain homely woman who couldn’t hold a candle to me on terms of attractiveness and I found a great DH who appreciates me and treats me the way I deserve to be treated. Once you get past the longing and the physical attraction and you have enough distance from the relationship, you will hopefully realize that he was wrong for you.

So the moral of the story here is....you dated rich brats who treated you like shit and a spineless wishy washy man child. I guess the old saying is true: treat 'em like shit and they'll love you forever.

What, exactly, is "using me for sex?" This is my favorite female phrase.

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

You don’t know for certain he was cheating. I’ve been in a position where someone else caught my eye and I broke things off with my so before starting up with the new person. All we have is OP’s version of events which is heavily biased. She’s heartbroken everyone looks happy and in love when you’re heartbroken. As for kissing he’s allowed to kiss his girlfriend. I’m sure op would have mentioned over the top pda, so I’m inclined to believe it didn’t happen. It’s okay for op to be hurt and jealous now because things are still raw, but in the long run being mad at the new girl and calling her names is a waste of time. It doesn’t get her ex back and it makes op bitter and prevents her from moving on and finding her mr. right.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

You sound like you’ve been the other woman before. Boyfriend stealer. Is that better? I don’t know the situation, but I doubt that Little Miss Thing is so innocent in this one.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

You don’t know for certain he was cheating. I’ve been in a position where someone else caught my eye and I broke things off with my so before starting up with the new person. All we have is OP’s version of events which is heavily biased. She’s heartbroken everyone looks happy and in love when you’re heartbroken. As for kissing he’s allowed to kiss his girlfriend. I’m sure op would have mentioned over the top pda, so I’m inclined to believe it didn’t happen. It’s okay for op to be hurt and jealous now because things are still raw, but in the long run being mad at the new girl and calling her names is a waste of time. It doesn’t get her ex back and it makes op bitter and prevents her from moving on and finding her mr. right.

I don't think op even saw them kissing. She said that all that she can think about. But otherwise, I totally agree with you. I think it is a good time and a good age for op to evaluate why she was not able to keep the men she loves.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

You don’t know for certain he was cheating. I’ve been in a position where someone else caught my eye and I broke things off with my so before starting up with the new person. All we have is OP’s version of events which is heavily biased. She’s heartbroken everyone looks happy and in love when you’re heartbroken. As for kissing he’s allowed to kiss his girlfriend. I’m sure op would have mentioned over the top pda, so I’m inclined to believe it didn’t happen. It’s okay for op to be hurt and jealous now because things are still raw, but in the long run being mad at the new girl and calling her names is a waste of time. It doesn’t get her ex back and it makes op bitter and prevents her from moving on and finding her mr. right.

I don't think op even saw them kissing. She said that all that she can think about. But otherwise, I totally agree with you. I think it is a good time and a good age for op to evaluate why she was not able to keep the men she loves.

No this is flawed think. Women don’t keep men . I do agree op is young and will find love again.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did he cheat on you, leave you for her, or break up with you then start dating her?

I don’t know when he met her. I honestly don’t believe he was cheating on me with her. AllI know is one minute we were happy and the next thing I know he wanted to end things. That was a little over 2 weeks ago and now he’s with her. I assume she’s the reason we broke up.

Trust me, you dodged a bullet.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

You sound like you’ve been the other woman before. Boyfriend stealer. Is that better? I don’t know the situation, but I doubt that Little Miss Thing is so innocent in this one.

I’ve been the girlfriend who realized she was spending a lot of time thinking about a guy who wasn’t her boyfriend and maybe she needed to end things with her boyfriend. Never cheated. Name calling calling is just childish. Unless you married the first person you dated, we have all had our hearts broken and broken hearts. Heck’s op has dated since 16 I’m sure she’s broken hearts too.Boyfriends cannot be stolen. Her ex is a grown man with a mind of his own. He’s decided to be with someone else. We’ll bever know why. Op will likely never know why either. She shouldn’t waste her time hoping and counting on them breaking up and being unhappy and “ karma”. Because all she’s doing is hurting herself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

You sound like you’ve been the other woman before. Boyfriend stealer. Is that better? I don’t know the situation, but I doubt that Little Miss Thing is so innocent in this one.

Riiight, OP's ex gets a date within a couple weeks, so she must be a cheating skank. Got it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

You sound like you’ve been the other woman before. Boyfriend stealer. Is that better? I don’t know the situation, but I doubt that Little Miss Thing is so innocent in this one.

Riiight, OP's ex gets a date within a couple weeks, so she must be a cheating skank. Got it.

“A date?” It sounds like they are in a full blown relationship and “in love.” That probably doesn’t happen in only two weeks. The girl was probably a party to cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry OP. Been there. All I can say is that the universe has your back. I’m 45 and all romantic relationships that ended that I didn’t want at the time to end we’re blessings in disguise because they Les me to my husband who I wouldn’t trade for the world. The pain will get easier. In the meantime hugs

+1. Hang in there op.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know the goal is to make op feel better, but why assume the guy is a jerk or that she will do better? None of us know how their relationship was or the future. Op I’m sincerely sorry you are sad and I hope things brighten for you soon. Take what lessons you may need from this situation and move forward in the direction you feel is best. Also kudos to you for blocking is number and social media.

Oh please, he is kissy facing the new chick right in front of OP. He’s a jerk. And what people are trying to tell her is that he is not right for her, which is obviously the case or they would still be together.

^^^
And he was probably cheating on her with the new chick too since they broke up suddenly two weeks ago and he is already in a full blown relationship with new chick. So new chick is kind of a skank too.

+1. And the chances that this one sticks are also slim.

Kind of pathetic grown woman using skank to put down another woman. Do better pp.

You sound like you’ve been the other woman before. Boyfriend stealer. Is that better? I don’t know the situation, but I doubt that Little Miss Thing is so innocent in this one.

Riiight, OP's ex gets a date within a couple weeks, so she must be a cheating skank. Got it.

“A date?” It sounds like they are in a full blown relationship and “in love.” That probably doesn’t happen in only two weeks. The girl was probably a party to cheating.

1. Op says they are in love . We have no idea how new girl and ex feel about each other. Op is assuming she’s the reason things ended, but she doesn’t know that. But you have a pathological need to demonize another woman so who cares about sticking to the facts.

2. People can fall for each other quickly . I knew my husband was the one the day I met him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry OP. Been there. All I can say is that the universe has your back. I’m 45 and all romantic relationships that ended that I didn’t want at the time to end we’re blessings in disguise because they Les me to my husband who I wouldn’t trade for the world. The pain will get easier. In the meantime hugs

+1. Hang in there op.

Maybe this is Op’s karma.