"What are the most important factors a 13-15 year old player should be looking at when choosing what club/coach to play for to maximize their development as a player? The experience and ability of the coach to develop players and people is a massive factor. Usually word of mouth means reputations become known over time. Choose a bad coach and everything else doesn't really matter. Pick the coach who is going to really push your kid and hold them accountable but love them at the same time. Quality of teammates is next. If you are not being pushed by teammates in training, you're not maximizing your development. Then it's quality of opponents. If you play too many easy games, again you're not being tested and this impacts your development. Quality of coach Quality of teammates Quality of opponents" https://www.reddit.com/r/youthsoccer/comments/1r2znnw/youth_prodigy_semipro_player_referee_and_coach_ama/ |
This is a Q&A with a lot of wisdom ... "Hi Paul. Specifically for SoCal: What are the biggest myths about club soccer in SoCal? What are some cold realities that most parents (or new club players) don't understand? There are so many clubs and leagues here, it's honestly just kind of confusing to know where there is value, and where there isn't. Footnote: through the lens of a parent of a competitive player, with no illusions nor aspirations of a pro or even D1 path. The number of leagues is ridiculous. It waters down talent, confuses parents and does nothing to serve development. Myth: You have to play in a top league (MLS/ECNL/GA) if you want good competition and if you want to play in college. Reality: For most families with no pro/D1 dream, it's overpriced college prep theater. There are good players and teams everywhere. If you are a strong player on a strong MLS/ECNL team, it makes sense to get the exposure. Too many players/families chase the dream and sit on the bench on a team that is too good for them, realistically. College coaches do not care about you if you are not playing. Myth: You need private training to stay competitive. Reality: Most of the best local kids have zero private trainers. Good club training plus pickup/futsal/street soccer is way better than $100/hr Instagram trainers. SoCal is one of the most competitive soccer hotbeds in the nation. If we got our act together and structured leagues properly, 95% of players and families would not need to travel more than 60 minutes every weekend for a competitive game against similar level opponents. It's crazy how much we travel, especially going to other states! Cold realities: - Coaches do not make a lot of money and clubs do not make a lot of money either, aside from the huge juggernauts. - Big % of your monthly or annual fee is subsidizing the top teams that the club uses for marketing. - Most big clubs have 1β2 good teams and 3-4 mediocre ones. I think most people know that." |
When I coached prior to the BY switch (started in 2012), we never considered grade. It was a huge club, with kids from 20 different schools, the only thing that mattered was what bracket your birth date fell in. That's it. No one questioned it, no one complained about grade stuff, it just was what it was. We never even asked what grade kids were in. I didn't know of any clubs that did it any different. There were outlier players who played up of course, but that had nothing to do with what grade they were in and was completely based on physical/technical aspects. Currently, under BY, no one cares about grade. You play by your age bracket, just like before BY. I can't imagine that will change now all of a sudden. We will obviously have to wait and see what the clubs actually do (not just what they say) of course. My bet is that for 99% of them, tryouts will be by strict age bracket with nary a mention of grade to be found. |
You talked your way into a corner on this. You say when it was SY last their weren't any August kids playing on age but below their grade and then you turn around and say that these kids that didn't exist didn't get recruited for college. Also the last time SY was being used colleges didn't have most of their teams from transfers and foreign players. Any insights from that period wouldn't be relevant to today. College coaches take the best players that are interested in their program. They said they don't care about your age or age group as posted by clubs. You have no proof of what will happen and keep nonsensically barfing it out with more than a trust me bro, I'm a random parent when it goes against what those in the business actually say. |
So now you're impersonating coaches π€£ π π π So desperate to encourage parents to play down grade. Clubs 100% group top teams by grade. I was around before 2017 and I never saw or heard of Aug brirthday players playing down in SY. All anyone discussed was playing up. |
Theres no talking into a corner. Aug birthdays playing down a grade didn't exist so they were never recruited. Pretty simple. You really should just enroll your kid in a private school so you can play them down without any restrictions. If you're going to go through all the effort to be a square peg in club soccer and do all the outreach to college coaches yourself play where that is the norm dont push your nonsense where its not wanted. |
With you are saying all August births all played on grade under the old SY, essentially almost all playing up an age group then you would have zero insight into whether they could be recruited for college if they played on age back then or now. |
LMAO. You just got owned as your own narrative was destroyed. |
I agree it's a challenging decision. But perhaps we're lucky we have options. |
All of the kids (with just rare exceptions) were playing with their age bracket and grade. No one cared. Most August kids started school late (where I was at) so they were with their actual grade! Were there kids that were mis-aligned with their grade? Sure, but no one cared or even knew about it! You are making a big deal out of something that is not going to be thought of at all by this time next year. If it (somehow) hurts their college recruitment well that is on them then. Who cares? These mis-aligned kids being 'un-recruitable' should actually help your daughter's recruitment chances I would think. Heck, using your logic, you should want more of them! We all know it is just you, this one Delusional August Guy on all of these boards (and this one). You may have existed before 2017 but your daughter and soccer involvement were at the very u-little stage. Again, we all know this. You only started using this "I was around before 2017" nonsense once people who actually were called you out on what the environment was actually like back then. |
Is it really that challenging compared to right now? Teams are full of mis-aligned players, we have tons of players 'trapped' and I never see/saw 100s of pages of discussion screaming and yelling about what certain birth months should do under the BY system. And, after the switch to SY, you still have MLSN1 with BY teams that are (and will continue to be) full of mis-aligned players. Seriously, this is not hard. The age brackets were 1/1 - 12/31. For 26/27 they will be 8/1 - 7/31. How hard is that? Every parent/player should look after their own best interest (whatever that may be) do what they think is in the best interest of their player and within the rules. Simple. |
It's difficult to figure out where to play an August misaligned player because right now you probably have the majority of players on a team within the same grade and a few players from a lower grade playing with them. So while yes, there is a mix of grades, you have a few players playing with majority older grade. Next year it will be the opposite, where a few players may play with majority lower grade if they choose not to play up. |
You realize people can have more than one kid don't you? |
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Already talked with one of the big ECNL girls clubs directors. ECNL has given guidance on how they want clubs to handle the transition.
If youβre an Aug-Dec 2010 born player but will be in the same grade as the Jan to July 2010 players you will be allowed to tryout and potentially stay with that group if youβre good enough to make it. Otherwise you will either find another club or play on the RL team 2009/2010 or play the new age group 2010/2011 and be a grade above. However I was told this is not ideal as showcases will be split and ran differently. |
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This thread is fully certified asylum worthy
The guy talking about August players playing on school grade against the established age rules of the league knows he's just poking you sane people in the eyes Yet you all keep arguing with the lunacy |