Stepmoms: were you the AP who broke up the marriage?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t know any women who married their AP after divorcing. The guys always dump them once the marriage is over. My takeaway is that there are more women sleeping with married people because they think they love them and hope to have a future with hem than there are men that do this. I think there are more men who do it precisely because they think it won’t have a future!

100% true

I'm a woman and married my AP. Have a kid together, too. We're very happy.

Was he married though when he met you? I think that’s the scenario they’re referring to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t know any women who married their AP after divorcing. The guys always dump them once the marriage is over. My takeaway is that there are more women sleeping with married people because they think they love them and hope to have a future with hem than there are men that do this. I think there are more men who do it precisely because they think it won’t have a future!

Not true, my FIL married his 6 months after the divorce was finalized and they've been married for decades. However he and my MIL were a horrible fit, married too young, and he left as soon as my H finished college.