Stepmoms: were you the AP who broke up the marriage?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:A stepmom who was the home wrecker would never come on here and admit to anything; they are amoral liars and make up a scenario to fit their fake narrative.

The "home wrecker" and the only person who "broke up the marriage" was the person in the marriage who decided to cheat.

Your anger is misplaced.

Um no? Anyone who commits adultery which results in divorce is a homewrecker.

Nope - only the person in the marriage who chose to break his/her vows and "wreck" that house.

Let’s compromise and say both are home wreckers.

Let's not, based on it not actually being correct. Cool?

It is correct. Don’t screw people you know are married. Very simple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband ex had the affair and had the AP. He never ever cheated.

This. And he has protected her to this day. I would have thrown her cheating A** under the bus.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:An affair partner who knowingly enters a relationship with a married person is a homewrecker. Period.

But there must have been other issues with the marriage before she even entered the relationship.
I know one couple. They are happy, still together.
He was married with kids, left that to be with her

NP. Who cares if the marriage had issues? Both are at fault, albeit the cheater is more at fault.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:An affair partner who knowingly enters a relationship with a married person is a homewrecker. Period.

But there must have been other issues with the marriage before she even entered the relationship.
I know one couple. They are happy, still together.
He was married with kids, left that to be with her

NP. Who cares if the marriage had issues? Both are at fault, albeit the cheater is more at fault.

So?
Time to end suffering for everyone's benefit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband ex had the affair and had the AP. He never ever cheated.

This. And he has protected her to this day. I would have thrown her cheating A** under the bus.

Why? What happens between the parents should stay that way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A good parent would do everything she could to smooth over the transition. Even if she was cheated on.

+100% Your feelings towards your cheating partner need to be separate from what’s in the best interest of your kids.

[Anonymous]

Men are designed for polygamy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are designed for polygamy

Actually, they aren't. They are designed for casual sex and serial monogamy. But polygamy implies actual relationships with the women, and it's not normal. In fact, there is great dysfunction in societies that condone polygamy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:A stepmom who was the home wrecker would never come on here and admit to anything; they are amoral liars and make up a scenario to fit their fake narrative.

The "home wrecker" and the only person who "broke up the marriage" was the person in the marriage who decided to cheat.

Your anger is misplaced.

Um no? Anyone who commits adultery which results in divorce is a homewrecker.

Nope - only the person in the marriage who chose to break his/her vows and "wreck" that house.

Let’s compromise and say both are home wreckers.

Let's not, based on it not actually being correct. Cool?

It is correct. Don’t screw people you know are married. Very simple.

And yet DCUM had a bunch of posts hating on a woman who wanted to verify independently that the man she was dating was actually divorced.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A stepmom who was the home wrecker would never come on here and admit to anything; they are amoral liars and make up a scenario to fit their fake narrative.

The "home wrecker" and the only person who "broke up the marriage" was the person in the marriage who decided to cheat.

Your anger is misplaced.

Um no? Anyone who commits adultery which results in divorce is a homewrecker.

Nope - only the person in the marriage who chose to break his/her vows and "wreck" that house.

Let’s compromise and say both are home wreckers.

Let's not, based on it not actually being correct. Cool?

It is correct. Don’t screw people you know are married. Very simple.

And yet DCUM had a bunch of posts hating on a woman who wanted to verify independently that the man she was dating was actually divorced.

+1000! Does not compute. Either it’s important to know or it’s not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men are designed for polygamy

Actually, they aren't. They are designed for casual sex and serial monogamy. But polygamy implies actual relationships with the women, and it's not normal. In fact, there is great dysfunction in societies that condone polygamy.

They are designed to protect their family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men are designed for polygamy

Actually, they aren't. They are designed for casual sex and serial monogamy. But polygamy implies actual relationships with the women, and it's not normal. In fact, there is great dysfunction in societies that condone polygamy.

They are designed to protect their family.

Ok
Men want marriage with rights to casual sex

[Anonymous]

^^this is true

[Anonymous]

I know a couple where the mom cheated on dad with a woman and the ladies now live together- happily. The dad left that marriage once he found out that the wife had been cheating and met a new woman, who in turn cheated on her husband, and she left that marriage. Kids are all happy and adjusted. All marriages ended amicably.

[Anonymous]

I am neither a step nor an ex, but I find your question offensive and misogynist.
Why is the other woman the one "breaking up the marriage?" Isn't the main question, husband doing the breaking?
Is the "other woman" is not previously in a relationship she has nothing to break.