Husband’s cousin thinks I upstaged her at wedding

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the dress is cute (49 yr old) here but if her colors were red and black, I would have avoided a black dress. I would have gone navy or purple instead (if I was looking for a darker dress.)

Oh for Christ's sake. You do not have to avoid the color of the bridesmaid dresses. That's ridiculous. White or anything resembling a wedding dress, sure.

Bride is just jealous you looked better than she did. Ignore.

No, sorry, a size 16 in a matronly dress with pearls did not “look better” than a size 4-6 wearing literally anything.

You seem to have some personal hang ups. Yes a bigger woman can look better than a thinner one. A classic, polished look is better than a revealing, bar scene outfit... regardless of size.

[Anonymous]

That’s a nice dress. I don’t understand what she wore, but you didn’t wear a ball gown or anything. I don’t get what her problem is! She sounds insecure and it makes me think you looked fabulous!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the dress is cute (49 yr old) here but if her colors were red and black, I would have avoided a black dress. I would have gone navy or purple instead (if I was looking for a darker dress.)

Oh for Christ's sake. You do not have to avoid the color of the bridesmaid dresses. That's ridiculous. White or anything resembling a wedding dress, sure.

Bride is just jealous you looked better than she did. Ignore.

No, sorry, a size 16 in a matronly dress with pearls did not “look better” than a size 4-6 wearing literally anything.

You seem to have some personal hang ups. Yes a bigger woman can look better than a thinner one. A classic, polished look is better than a revealing, bar scene outfit... regardless of size.

...no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the dress is cute (49 yr old) here but if her colors were red and black, I would have avoided a black dress. I would have gone navy or purple instead (if I was looking for a darker dress.)

Oh for Christ's sake. You do not have to avoid the color of the bridesmaid dresses. That's ridiculous. White or anything resembling a wedding dress, sure.

Bride is just jealous you looked better than she did. Ignore.

No, sorry, a size 16 in a matronly dress with pearls did not “look better” than a size 4-6 wearing literally anything.

You seem to have some personal hang ups. Yes a bigger woman can look better than a thinner one. A classic, polished look is better than a revealing, bar scene outfit... regardless of size.

A "bigger woman" as in a size 8 being bigger than a size 2? Yes. A size 16, 22 or beyond will not look better than a size 4 in any outfit.

[Anonymous]

This is fake.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the dress is cute (49 yr old) here but if her colors were red and black, I would have avoided a black dress. I would have gone navy or purple instead (if I was looking for a darker dress.)

Oh for Christ's sake. You do not have to avoid the color of the bridesmaid dresses. That's ridiculous. White or anything resembling a wedding dress, sure.

Bride is just jealous you looked better than she did. Ignore.

No, sorry, a size 16 in a matronly dress with pearls did not “look better” than a size 4-6 wearing literally anything.

You seem to have some personal hang ups. Yes a bigger woman can look better than a thinner one. A classic, polished look is better than a revealing, bar scene outfit... regardless of size.

A "bigger woman" as in a size 8 being bigger than a size 2? Yes. A size 16, 22 or beyond will not look better than a size 4 in any outfit.

I'm a guy, and I'd certainly prefer the first one to the second one... especially as my date to a wedding. (Not sure if I formatted right)

Bigger women aren't disqualified from being sexy, even if that's not your type. bonus points if they aren't trying to be sexy.The confidence is 75% of it.

[Anonymous]

1st pic: https://www.msn.com/en-sg/entertainment/story/ashley-graham-keeping-a-beauty-routine-is-important/ar-BB12dbRR?fullscreen=true#image=1

2nd pic: https://www.hocogirl.com/sexy-high-neck-rose-red-sequined-bodycon-club-dress-hd3298.html


I knew I didn't format right!

[Anonymous]

If that upstaged her wedding dress maybe she needed to make a better choice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is fake.

Agree

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1st pic: https://www.msn.com/en-sg/entertainment/story/ashley-graham-keeping-a-beauty-routine-is-important/ar-BB12dbRR?fullscreen=true#image=1

2nd pic: https://www.hocogirl.com/sexy-high-neck-rose-red-sequined-bodycon-club-dress-hd3298.html


I knew I didn't format right!

OK now dress the size 16 in a frumpy middle aged black dress with pearls. I didn't say a heavier girl couldn't look pretty. But she didn't "upstage" a size 6 wearing a matronly black dress and pearls. Point blank period.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would try to avoid wearing black to a wedding, but that dress is fine. It’s not revealing and it doesn’t look like a wedding dress.

Who avoids black at a wedding?!

Traditionally wearing black was your way of showing you didn't approve of the wedding. Indicated you were in mourning, not celebrating the event.

Hmmm