All you Mom’s can’t wait to deny custody exchange to Dad’s

[Anonymous]

They would have been better off if she stayed?

But she was smart enough to NOT stay and you aren’t. Hence digging your heels in and trashing your current husbands first choice. She was smart enough to split and you were there as a plan b fallback. Of course you call her a BITCH you probably can’t stand that she was able to have enough self respect to leave a lousy every other weekend type dude and you don’t.

Have some kids of your own and leave her alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They would have been better off if she stayed?

But she was smart enough to NOT stay and you aren’t. Hence digging your heels in and trashing your current husbands first choice. She was smart enough to split and you were there as a plan b fallback. Of course you call her a BITCH you probably can’t stand that she was able to have enough self respect to leave a lousy every other weekend type dude and you don’t.

Have some kids of your own and leave her alone.

That was another pp, not me...two different posters in here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You really went out of your way to research and copy/paste Toni lyrics I know we’re all shut in but I’d hope you’d spend your efforts on more important things in your own life lol

You think 10 seconds to copy paste is the equivalent of all the posts made by one crazy second wife? Hilarious!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You really went out of your way to research and copy/paste Toni lyrics I know we’re all shut in but I’d hope you’d spend your efforts on more important things in your own life lol

You think 10 seconds to copy paste is the equivalent of all the posts made by one crazy second wife? Hilarious!

Ummm the difference is I’m actually invested in my own situation, so it’d make sense I spend more time talking about it and defending it. Strangers googling songs they haven’t heard in decades to prove their point about something they don’t know anything about and have no investment in is weird af. There are also apparently two “crazy second wife” posters here

Some of you get too bent out of shape about things that don’t concern you.

[Anonymous]

I’m sure there’s tons of second wives here. They just aren’t desperately defensive. Like you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m sure there’s tons of second wives here. They just aren’t desperately defensive. Like you.

Likely because they aren’t in my situation you don’t know what it’s like until you’ve been there and I pray that you never have to experience or watch your husband go through such anxiety producing, mind crippling, shameful, criminalistic, modern day slavery in your life. Good day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You really went out of your way to research and copy/paste Toni lyrics I know we’re all shut in but I’d hope you’d spend your efforts on more important things in your own life lol

You think 10 seconds to copy paste is the equivalent of all the posts made by one crazy second wife? Hilarious!

Ummm the difference is I’m actually invested in my own situation, so it’d make sense I spend more time talking about it and defending it. Strangers googling songs they haven’t heard in decades to prove their point about something they don’t know anything about and have no investment in is weird af. There are also apparently two “crazy second wife” posters here

Some of you get too bent out of shape about things that don’t concern you.

Why post about your situation if you don’t want people to “waste” their time responding?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bet you wouldn’t be okay if the shoe were on the other foot.

Neighbor dad, has poisoned boys against their mother. Kept her in court for over 10 years. His parents added to the mess. Yeah, this is only Mom's, LOL NO!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You really went out of your way to research and copy/paste Toni lyrics I know we’re all shut in but I’d hope you’d spend your efforts on more important things in your own life lol

Touched a nerve there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m sure there’s tons of second wives here. They just aren’t desperately defensive. Like you.

Likely because they aren’t in my situation you don’t know what it’s like until you’ve been there and I pray that you never have to experience or watch your husband go through such anxiety producing, mind crippling, shameful, criminalistic, modern day slavery in your life. Good day.

I do indeed pray I’m never at my boyfriends custody trial. Or on a springer show.


Yet you- having NEVER been through what your current husbands precious partner- and the mother of his child- has been through. So you want to not be judged for judging her? That’s not how any of this works.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They would have been better off if she stayed?

But she was smart enough to NOT stay and you aren’t. Hence digging your heels in and trashing your current husbands first choice. She was smart enough to split and you were there as a plan b fallback. Of course you call her a BITCH you probably can’t stand that she was able to have enough self respect to leave a lousy every other weekend type dude and you don’t.

Have some kids of your own and leave her alone.

Yes, she would have been much better off given how things turned out for her and her AP and us. She isn't happy and forced to stay with him over money. The sad part is they never married so she doesn't have his retirement benefits, health insurance (desperately needed) and more. We do have our own kids, and after blocking contact for years, now that her kids are grown, she suddenly turned nice and calls/texts every so often, especially seeing how ours are. Why can't she leave us alone?

I wasn't there as plan B. I wasn't around at the time of the divorce or many years after. Good try. You can make every dad and wife the evil ones but I can only feel bad for your kids given how you speak to others and assume the worst. You probably really did a number on your kids. Many men would love to have full custody and would have done far more parenting.

[Anonymous]

Wasn’t talking to you or your situation. Was walking to woman at custody trial. Defending another “amazing” dad ruled to deserve every other weekend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They would have been better off if she stayed?

But she was smart enough to NOT stay and you aren’t. Hence digging your heels in and trashing your current husbands first choice. She was smart enough to split and you were there as a plan b fallback. Of course you call her a BITCH you probably can’t stand that she was able to have enough self respect to leave a lousy every other weekend type dude and you don’t.

Have some kids of your own and leave her alone.

Yes, she would have been much better off given how things turned out for her and her AP and us. She isn't happy and forced to stay with him over money. The sad part is they never married so she doesn't have his retirement benefits, health insurance (desperately needed) and more. We do have our own kids, and after blocking contact for years, now that her kids are grown, she suddenly turned nice and calls/texts every so often, especially seeing how ours are. Why can't she leave us alone?

I wasn't there as plan B. I wasn't around at the time of the divorce or many years after. Good try. You can make every dad and wife the evil ones but I can only feel bad for your kids given how you speak to others and assume the worst. You probably really did a number on your kids. Many men would love to have full custody and would have done far more parenting.

You are entirely too emotionally invested in the first wife —especially now that her kids are grown. WTF is wrong with all three of you. I think I’ve talked to my DH’s XW less than 10 times and I have no idea who she is sleeping with or why.

[Anonymous]

This thread has really gone off track but chiming in to say that those of you who don’t believe the family courts still favor Mothers have no idea what you’re talking about. I’ve been through it myself as a Mom, I’ve been through it with my second Husband as a Dad, my brother, my boss, I could go on. Men seriously get treated like babysitters and money trees, it’s disgusting. The moms call the shots, the courts back them up. When my DH’s ex keeps the kids, he’s told there’s nothing he can do and to take it up with the court. The police told us that if he were the one who kept the kids, he’d probably have kidnapping charges. Family Law is literal crazy town.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wasn’t talking to you or your situation. Was walking to woman at custody trial. Defending another “amazing” dad ruled to deserve every other weekend.

You are so beyond confused as to who you’re talking to and about. Just stop talking. You’re taking it out on the wrong people.