Shook by friends new baby at 44

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm speechless...my friends have 3 kids, all 20+ and out of the house. Out of nowhere, new baby! Scares the crap out of me. I have so many questions, but also just fears about the circumstances and if it could happen to me. Has anyone else gotten really scared or shocked by something similar?

You need to get a life. You’re acting like a child died. Calm down.

No, I haven't. Worry about bigger things in the world, please. I'm more shocked that you have 44 year old friends with 20+ kids.

You need to get treatment for your anxiety.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d rather have a kid at 40 than one at 20

Assuming these were the only two options, then yes. 40 over 20 for sure.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They had THREE kids before age 24????

That’s the weirdest thing about this story by far.

Nobody does that in this day and age.

People thought I was young having my first at 27! You’d have thought I was a teenager by their reactions.

Oh pipe down. I had two at 24. I was happily married, educated and a home owner. Some of us mature faster I guess.

Having unprotected sex does not make you mature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm speechless...my friends have 3 kids, all 20+ and out of the house. Out of nowhere, new baby! Scares the crap out of me. I have so many questions, but also just fears about the circumstances and if it could happen to me. Has anyone else gotten really scared or shocked by something similar?

You need to get a life. You’re acting like a child died. Calm down.

No, I haven't. Worry about bigger things in the world, please. I'm more shocked that you have 44 year old friends with 20+ kids.

20+ children?! I feel for that woman’s uterus.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh to be that close to the finish line and then have to go all the way back. No way. I knew a mom once who had “oops” twins at 50. She was exhausted. Had them in full time day care even though she was at home.

Lol. Were they wealthy?

[Anonymous]

I had my first at 23 and my last....surprise....at 42 when my oldest was a sophomore in college. When she was a senior her two year old brother stayed with her in her dorm room parents weekend and the two of them had a blast. You simply deal with life’s surprises and make the best of it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Shaken, not shook. Jeez.

It's shook.... if you're 20.

I'm PP. It's shook if you're ignorant, at any age.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Oop, here comes all the old mommies to talk about SES, and energy levels.

Here come the young moms to justify the fact that they spent the best years of their lives chasing kids and changing diapers while the rest of us traveled and lived it up. Awww.

And now I'm 43 and both kids are in college while you have kids in diapers! I win. We travel a ton.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Oop, here comes all the old mommies to talk about SES, and energy levels.

Here come the young moms to justify the fact that they spent the best years of their lives chasing kids and changing diapers while the rest of us traveled and lived it up. Awww.

And now I'm 43 and both kids are in college while you have kids in diapers! I win. We travel a ton.

Traveling as a middle aged married couple is never going to be the same as the experiences you have traveling when you’re younger. I don’t know if it’s winning or losing. Just completely different experiences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oop, here comes all the old mommies to talk about SES, and energy levels.

Here come the young moms to justify the fact that they spent the best years of their lives chasing kids and changing diapers while the rest of us traveled and lived it up. Awww.

And now I'm 43 and both kids are in college while you have kids in diapers! I win. We travel a ton.

You hated that all your friends were having a blast in their 20s while you sat there feeding a baby. And it still clearly bothers you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oop, here comes all the old mommies to talk about SES, and energy levels.

Here come the young moms to justify the fact that they spent the best years of their lives chasing kids and changing diapers while the rest of us traveled and lived it up. Awww.

And now I'm 43 and both kids are in college while you have kids in diapers! I win. We travel a ton.

You hated that all your friends were having a blast in their 20s while you sat there feeding a baby. And it still clearly bothers you.

I planned my kids. I nabbed a hot millionaire. I was the lucky one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oop, here comes all the old mommies to talk about SES, and energy levels.

Here come the young moms to justify the fact that they spent the best years of their lives chasing kids and changing diapers while the rest of us traveled and lived it up. Awww.

And now I'm 43 and both kids are in college while you have kids in diapers! I win. We travel a ton.

Traveling as a middle aged married couple is never going to be the same as the experiences you have traveling when you’re younger. I don’t know if it’s winning or losing. Just completely different experiences.

I travelled when young. It sucks when you are not rich. Now, I travel in luxury.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oop, here comes all the old mommies to talk about SES, and energy levels.

Here come the young moms to justify the fact that they spent the best years of their lives chasing kids and changing diapers while the rest of us traveled and lived it up. Awww.

And now I'm 43 and both kids are in college while you have kids in diapers! I win. We travel a ton.

You hated that all your friends were having a blast in their 20s while you sat there feeding a baby. And it still clearly bothers you.

I planned my kids. I nabbed a hot millionaire. I was the lucky one.

So you're a gold digger? Nice admission and classy.

[Anonymous]

Shaken, not stirred LOL
you have a choice, don’t act like an impressionable starlet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oop, here comes all the old mommies to talk about SES, and energy levels.

Here come the young moms to justify the fact that they spent the best years of their lives chasing kids and changing diapers while the rest of us traveled and lived it up. Awww.

And now I'm 43 and both kids are in college while you have kids in diapers! I win. We travel a ton.

You hated that all your friends were having a blast in their 20s while you sat there feeding a baby. And it still clearly bothers you.

I planned my kids. I nabbed a hot millionaire. I was the lucky one.

So you're a gold digger? Nice admission and classy.

Lol that's not why I chose him, just a nice perk.