Are you all cheating with ugly people?

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Anonymous wrote:My wife was prettier than my AP when she was 25, but my AP is 25 now.

So you can no longer pull a woman the way you could when your wife was young. Not surprising.

You stretched really far to insult him, but it failed. He's pulling a 25 year old now. That's another thing that amazed me when I started down that road. That I could get with women a lot younger than me.

They may be younger, but usually a lot uglier. As someone else explained, the pretty 20 somethings are not interested in middle aged married men. They have their pick of handsome men in their own age bracket they are looking to find a stable relationship in the future with. 20 somethings having affairs with married men have issues, be it poor looks, daddy issues, or looking for money.

Not my AP, but I'm divorced at 40 and my GF is 26. None of the issues above apply to her and she is adamant that I treat her better than men her own age have. We both know this is probably not forever, but have been together for 18 months, my daughter really likes her and my former wife and she are friendly enough when it comes to coordinating activities.

Not a dis to you but I would hope that my daughter never dated someone that much older than her. I would definitely have a talk with her if she did date someone that much older.

I hope things go well with you but not sure how much this is not the norm for women in 20’s.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife was prettier than my AP when she was 25, but my AP is 25 now.

So you can no longer pull a woman the way you could when your wife was young. Not surprising.

You stretched really far to insult him, but it failed. He's pulling a 25 year old now. That's another thing that amazed me when I started down that road. That I could get with women a lot younger than me.

They may be younger, but usually a lot uglier. As someone else explained, the pretty 20 somethings are not interested in middle aged married men. They have their pick of handsome men in their own age bracket they are looking to find a stable relationship in the future with. 20 somethings having affairs with married men have issues, be it poor looks, daddy issues, or looking for money.

The problem is that handsome men in their 20s are complete tools.

Not all. I met my husband in college, dated while we were in grad school, married, and started having kids in our 30s, which is very typical. 20 years later, all the couples like us in our class are still married. I'm reading my alumni magazine's class announcements and it seems that this path continues up to this day. Don't forget that the vast majority of people in broken marriages are uneducated and/or unemployed. The divorce rate for people with advanced degrees is less than 13%, and this figure is not even broken down by race. I think divorces in Asian households with advanced degrees are not significant enough to even create a sample size.

I don't have girls but I'm raising my boys to be respectful of women, hardworking, successful, and pull their weight in their future household. If you want to avoid the tools, look at their family dynamics. Even when I was young and stupid, I knew to avoid dating guys with family drama and crazy moms.

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My wife was prettier than my AP when she was 25, but my AP is 25 now.


So you can no longer pull a woman the way you could when your wife was young. Not surprising.


You stretched really far to insult him, but it failed. He's pulling a 25 year old now. That's another thing that amazed me when I started down that road. That I could get with women a lot younger than me.


Same here. Man in mid-40s and recent APs have been 22 and 25.


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The upside of sexual abuse.

You are not kidding. The poster should be in therapy to figure out his issues. The APs will end up in therapy because in hindsight they will realize the age/power dynamic is such that these “relationships” don’t involve the kind of “consent“ anyone should be comfortable with. Curious how the guy who posted this would feel about his daughter doing the same thing. Gross.

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My wife was prettier than my AP when she was 25, but my AP is 25 now.


So you can no longer pull a woman the way you could when your wife was young. Not surprising.


You stretched really far to insult him, but it failed. He's pulling a 25 year old now. That's another thing that amazed me when I started down that road. That I could get with women a lot younger than me.


Same here. Man in mid-40s and recent APs have been 22 and 25.


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The upside of sexual abuse.

You are not kidding. The poster should be in therapy to figure out his issues. The APs will end up in therapy because in hindsight they will realize the age/power dynamic is such that these “relationships” don’t involve the kind of “consent“ anyone should be comfortable with. Curious how the guy who posted this would feel about his daughter doing the same thing. Gross.

+1. I myself was in a “relationship" like this. I didn’t have daddy issues and was very attractive, but extremely messed up in the head.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife was prettier than my AP when she was 25, but my AP is 25 now.

So you can no longer pull a woman the way you could when your wife was young. Not surprising.

You stretched really far to insult him, but it failed. He's pulling a 25 year old now. That's another thing that amazed me when I started down that road. That I could get with women a lot younger than me.

They may be younger, but usually a lot uglier. As someone else explained, the pretty 20 somethings are not interested in middle aged married men. They have their pick of handsome men in their own age bracket they are looking to find a stable relationship in the future with. 20 somethings having affairs with married men have issues, be it poor looks, daddy issues, or looking for money.

Not my AP, but I'm divorced at 40 and my GF is 26. None of the issues above apply to her and she is adamant that I treat her better than men her own age have. We both know this is probably not forever, but have been together for 18 months, my daughter really likes her and my former wife and she are friendly enough when it comes to coordinating activities.

Not a dis to you but I would hope that my daughter never dated someone that much older than her. I would definitely have a talk with her if she did date someone that much older.

I hope things go well with you but not sure how much this is not the norm for women in 20’s.

I'm sure it's not the norm. We do treat each other well and with respect. In my first two years after divorce I dated from 31 to 37 (my age at the time) and don't see any difference in how I interacted with those women than with my current partner other than that we have grown closer/more supportive over time.

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My wife was prettier than my AP when she was 25, but my AP is 25 now.


So you can no longer pull a woman the way you could when your wife was young. Not surprising.


You stretched really far to insult him, but it failed. He's pulling a 25 year old now. That's another thing that amazed me when I started down that road. That I could get with women a lot younger than me.


Same here. Man in mid-40s and recent APs have been 22 and 25.


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The upside of sexual abuse.

You are not kidding. The poster should be in therapy to figure out his issues. The APs will end up in therapy because in hindsight they will realize the age/power dynamic is such that these “relationships” don’t involve the kind of “consent“ anyone should be comfortable with. Curious how the guy who posted this would feel about his daughter doing the same thing. Gross.

Life can be funny sometimes. My FIL had lots of affairs and my MIL left him. My SIL has self esteem issues, was in several messy relationships and the mistress of a married guy. My FIL suffered a lot when his little precious girl was treated like this. She ended up marring a loser who left her and now my FIL supports her kids too.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife was prettier than my AP when she was 25, but my AP is 25 now.

So you can no longer pull a woman the way you could when your wife was young. Not surprising.

You stretched really far to insult him, but it failed. He's pulling a 25 year old now. That's another thing that amazed me when I started down that road. That I could get with women a lot younger than me.

They may be younger, but usually a lot uglier. As someone else explained, the pretty 20 somethings are not interested in middle aged married men. They have their pick of handsome men in their own age bracket they are looking to find a stable relationship in the future with. 20 somethings having affairs with married men have issues, be it poor looks, daddy issues, or looking for money.

Not my AP, but I'm divorced at 40 and my GF is 26. None of the issues above apply to her and she is adamant that I treat her better than men her own age have. We both know this is probably not forever, but have been together for 18 months, my daughter really likes her and my former wife and she are friendly enough when it comes to coordinating activities.

Not a dis to you but I would hope that my daughter never dated someone that much older than her. I would definitely have a talk with her if she did date someone that much older.

I hope things go well with you but not sure how much this is not the norm for women in 20’s.

I'm sure it's not the norm. We do treat each other well and with respect. In my first two years after divorce I dated from 31 to 37 (my age at the time) and don't see any difference in how I interacted with those women than with my current partner other than that we have grown closer/more supportive over time.

It’s not about you, it’s about her and her thought process on this.

[Anonymous]

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My wife was prettier than my AP when she was 25, but my AP is 25 now.


So you can no longer pull a woman the way you could when your wife was young. Not surprising.


You stretched really far to insult him, but it failed. He's pulling a 25 year old now. That's another thing that amazed me when I started down that road. That I could get with women a lot younger than me.


Same here. Man in mid-40s and recent APs have been 22 and 25.


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The upside of sexual abuse.

You are not kidding. The poster should be in therapy to figure out his issues. The APs will end up in therapy because in hindsight they will realize the age/power dynamic is such that these “relationships” don’t involve the kind of “consent“ anyone should be comfortable with. Curious how the guy who posted this would feel about his daughter doing the same thing. Gross.

Life can be funny sometimes. My FIL had lots of affairs and my MIL left him. My SIL has self esteem issues, was in several messy relationships and the mistress of a married guy. My FIL suffered a lot when his little precious girl was treated like this. She ended up marring a loser who left her and now my FIL supports her kids too.

It's too bad because the daughter probably suffered because of all the cheating. Kids always find out at some point in their life from the other spouse, relative, sibling or from their own observation. My fil did the same, but then when he got old his wife was long done with him. The hores were long gone, and he was very much alone. The mil catered to her kids and grand-kids. He ended up sick and depressed.

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Anonymous wrote:I only have 2 data points, one is the woman my ex cheated on me for and two is the man that cheated on my friend. I'm not as impartial for mine. But in both cases yes. For my friend the woman is downright homely and a bitch (when I first met her I had no idea who she was and vice versa. She was so cold and unfriendly. They get what they deserve!

3 data points. My ex cheated with a real uggo.

4th data point. That woman had 50 lbs and a decade on me. But she gave him tons of attention and made him feel like he was the sexiest, smartest, most amazing man on earth. At home he had to compete with our toddler and baby for attention.

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My twice divorced, 70 year old family friend is incredibly rich and sleeps with ugly women in their 30s.

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Anonymous wrote:I am objectively not as good looking as my APs wife. But I'm definitely in better shape. I'm not insecure. I'm good in bed. AP got tired of being rejected by his wife and now he's rejecting her. I'm fun and funny. Even before AP & I connected, I knew his wife was good looking but ... Not the kind of person I want to hang out with (fake-y, plastic-y, insecure).

My DH is slightly better looking than my AP. But. AP is bigger. Taller. Fitter. Funnier. Not insecure at all. And sexy as hell. And not my husband, who I no longer want to hang out with (and is somewhat insecure).

LOL. Soo fun and funny! YOU'RE not the kind of person I want to hang out with

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Anonymous wrote:I only have 2 data points, one is the woman my ex cheated on me for and two is the man that cheated on my friend. I'm not as impartial for mine. But in both cases yes. For my friend the woman is downright homely and a bitch (when I first met her I had no idea who she was and vice versa. She was so cold and unfriendly. They get what they deserve!

3 data points. My ex cheated with a real uggo.

4th data point. That woman had 50 lbs and a decade on me. But she gave him tons of attention and made him feel like he was the sexiest, smartest, most amazing man on earth. At home he had to compete with our toddler and baby for attention.

Why keep a idiot around like that who is so insecure he has to cheat. I bet he was jealous of the dog as well!

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Thank you to all those fathers who created all those daddy issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My twice divorced, 70 year old family friend is incredibly rich and sleeps with ugly women in their 30s.

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Donald Trump?