And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house

[Anonymous]

Glad you made your decision.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nobody walks in on me. I have a door stop that I wedge under the door before I undress, take a shower or go to sleep whenever I am away from home.

Yes, that makes sense, but that's been suggested to OP and she wasn't interested in that option. But, apparently it's bad to ask if she was just venting because she isn't actually interested in hearing solutions. That's fine, but would be good to know ahead of time.

Read the OP again. She didn't ask for solutions. She made it clear she had made the decision to use hotels moving forward. Yes, she came to vent and for commiseration, and last I checked, a significant percent of posts on DCUM do the same.

She came here to whine, rather than vent, since it's been happening for years. Her MIL is a jackass, but letting that go on for years and then coming here to "vent" seems kind of silly.

OP's MIL is a jackass, but staying in hotels won't solve OP's MIL problem, especially since MIL was allowed to do what she wanted for years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nobody walks in on me. I have a door stop that I wedge under the door before I undress, take a shower or go to sleep whenever I am away from home.

Yes, that makes sense, but that's been suggested to OP and she wasn't interested in that option. But, apparently it's bad to ask if she was just venting because she isn't actually interested in hearing solutions. That's fine, but would be good to know ahead of time.

Read the OP again. She didn't ask for solutions. She made it clear she had made the decision to use hotels moving forward. Yes, she came to vent and for commiseration, and last I checked, a significant percent of posts on DCUM do the same.

She came here to whine, rather than vent, since it's been happening for years. Her MIL is a jackass, but letting that go on for years and then coming here to "vent" seems kind of silly.

OP's MIL is a jackass, but staying in hotels won't solve OP's MIL problem, especially since MIL was allowed to do what she wanted for years.

No one cares for you, you smug bore. NP.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Yeah, I didn’t ask for solutions. Yeah, I pretty much was just venting, and maybe looking for a little commiseration.

And? So? I’m sorry, did I miss the “you must solicit solutions” directive from Jeff?

Yeah, thought not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yeah, I didn’t ask for solutions. Yeah, I pretty much was just venting, and maybe looking for a little commiseration.

And? So? I’m sorry, did I miss the “you must solicit solutions” directive from Jeff?

Yeah, thought not.

You are fine! I truly think it’s only one whacko poster who was bothered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is this weird shit about wanting to watch people sleep? is that a thing?

Yeah, I thought those kids books that had the moms doing that were weird. Had no idea people did that in real life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yeah, I didn’t ask for solutions. Yeah, I pretty much was just venting, and maybe looking for a little commiseration.

And? So? I’m sorry, did I miss the “you must solicit solutions” directive from Jeff?

Yeah, thought not.

You seem nice, lol.

MIL's making more sense with each of your posts and I was team OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nobody walks in on me. I have a door stop that I wedge under the door before I undress, take a shower or go to sleep whenever I am away from home.

Yes, that makes sense, but that's been suggested to OP and she wasn't interested in that option. But, apparently it's bad to ask if she was just venting because she isn't actually interested in hearing solutions. That's fine, but would be good to know ahead of time.

Read the OP again. She didn't ask for solutions. She made it clear she had made the decision to use hotels moving forward. Yes, she came to vent and for commiseration, and last I checked, a significant percent of posts on DCUM do the same.

She came here to whine, rather than vent, since it's been happening for years. Her MIL is a jackass, but letting that go on for years and then coming here to "vent" seems kind of silly.

OP's MIL is a jackass, but staying in hotels won't solve OP's MIL problem, especially since MIL was allowed to do what she wanted for years.

No one cares for you, you smug bore. NP.

Are you a bully IRL, or just on the internet where you're anonymous?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yeah, I didn’t ask for solutions. Yeah, I pretty much was just venting, and maybe looking for a little commiseration.

And? So? I’m sorry, did I miss the “you must solicit solutions” directive from Jeff?

Yeah, thought not.

You are fine! I truly think it’s only one whacko poster who was bothered.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yeah, I didn’t ask for solutions. Yeah, I pretty much was just venting, and maybe looking for a little commiseration.

And? So? I’m sorry, did I miss the “you must solicit solutions” directive from Jeff?

Yeah, thought not.

You seem nice, lol.

MIL's making more sense with each of your posts and I was team OP.

Wow, you really think any personality or behavior in the world warrants deliberately invading someone’s privacy, to the point of seeing naked and waking a baby?

We were raised differently.