Tell Me I'm Shallow

[Anonymous]

Roosevelt Island is closed this weekend so I am hoping he is stringing you along and will stand you up. Totally shallow, OP. Did you get therapy after your divorce? Butterflies count for a lot and you are looking a gift horse in the mouth?

[Anonymous]

Is an alpha in other ways?

[Anonymous]

Your short too, I dont see the issue. It's not like you are supermodel height.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Since OP is so tall herself I "totally get" why its a put off that this guy is "short".

If you decide to go out with him, make him earn it and have him take you our on an expensive dinner. Short guys always try to get away with taking women out for coffee.

I'm sure OP is capable of paying for her own food or coffee.

What? Are you being sarcastic that OP is tall?

Anyway OP you are shallow and dumb. I'm 5'8 and so is DH. He's perfect for me physically, is a tiger in the sack, and just has the kindest most loving heart.

Sorry for you PP. that must get really old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I never understood the aversion to short guys. Maybe its because I have two short brothers (both 5'6") who are wonderful men who have never had even the slightest problem dating beautiful, intelligent, confident women. My oldest brother literally turns heads on the sidewalk he's so handsome.

Or maybe he turns heads because he’s so short?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your short too, I dont see the issue. It's not like you are supermodel height.

You must know that OP is not short for a woman, so don't be malicious. She is above average height and this guy is much bellow average height for a man.
It is actually natural if she's above average height to want an above average height man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your short too, I dont see the issue. It's not like you are supermodel height.

You must know that OP is not short for a woman, so don't be malicious. She is above average height and this guy is much bellow average height for a man.
It is actually natural if she's above average height to want an above average height man.

OP is 5'5. The average height of an American woman is 5'4. So, she's pretty average. Above average height for women is 5'7+.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your short too, I dont see the issue. It's not like you are supermodel height.

You must know that OP is not short for a woman, so don't be malicious. She is above average height and this guy is much bellow average height for a man.
It is actually natural if she's above average height to want an above average height man.

OP is 5'5. The average height of an American woman is 5'4. So, she's pretty average. Above average height for women is 5'7+.

Hey, I'm below average (5'2") and I still like having a man >6'

But if he was giving me butterflies? I'd go with it! So so worth it!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Since OP is so tall herself I "totally get" why its a put off that this guy is "short".

If you decide to go out with him, make him earn it and have him take you our on an expensive dinner. Short guys always try to get away with taking women out for coffee.

I'm sure OP is capable of paying for her own food or coffee.

What? Are you being sarcastic that OP is tall?

Anyway OP you are shallow and dumb. I'm 5'8 and so is DH. He's perfect for me physically, is a tiger in the sack, and just has the kindest most loving heart.

its called sarcasm. stop losing your mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 5'11" and my husband is 5'8", married for 38 years. There are so many more important things than height. As long as your height doesn't make him feel insecure, I say go for it.

+1. My husband is 5’7” and I’m 5’8.5”. We have been very happily married for almost 13 years. He is the most amazing man I’ve ever met, and our heights have never been an issue whatsoever!!!

[Anonymous]

Eh. I like tall guys but wouldn’t pass up a shorter guy who’s successful, good-looking and with whom I share a connection. He’s taller than you. Go grab a coffee and see what happens.

[Anonymous]

I see a very lonely future for you OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your short too, I dont see the issue. It's not like you are supermodel height.

You must know that OP is not short for a woman, so don't be malicious. She is above average height and this guy is much bellow average height for a man.
It is actually natural if she's above average height to want an above average height man.

OP is 5'5. The average height of an American woman is 5'4. So, she's pretty average. Above average height for women is 5'7+.

What ever makes you feel better! It still remains that the guy in question is short, and OP is not short by any standards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I never understood the aversion to short guys. Maybe its because I have two short brothers (both 5'6") who are wonderful men who have never had even the slightest problem dating beautiful, intelligent, confident women. My oldest brother literally turns heads on the sidewalk he's so handsome.

Or maybe he turns heads because he’s so short?

Or maybe youre a fat ugly cow lashing out at attractive people?

[Anonymous]

What is the average height of American men? And is 5’4 still average for women? I feel like most women seem taller than that now, 5’5-5’6.