So what do women think of men in sexless marriages?

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Anonymous wrote:Last year my DH was moaning about us having a sexless marriage when in fact we had sex at least once a week. This went on for awhile and then I told him OK, we are going to have sex every night. This lasted about one week until he said one night that he was too tired. So we went back to our 1+ a week and there have been no complaints since then. I'm glad he called it quits because I was sore and tired.

I learned that I didn't want to have sex every day when my wife & I were trying to conceive. Daily sex just because it's on the to do list gets old fast. On the other hand, the once every six weeks we slipped into during the first few years after having kids was pretty awful too. Lots of numbers between 1 and 42. We're striving for something between feast and famine.

Oh, I do remember conception sex, neither of us enjoyed it after awhile except it did produce results. We never had feast or famine as we were lucky to get into a 1-2 times a week pattern after our kids arrived and we've been able to maintain it for many years although now its closer to one time but we're "seniors"! Try some hotel sex as its always worked on me!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Men who claim to be in sexless marriages are just losers in general.

If they were good earners, were well endowed, knew how to please their wives and weren't insisting she look like a Barbie doll instead of an actual woman, they wouldn't be in sexless marriages.

A sexless marriage is 100% the husbands fault. Period. End of thread.

Wrong! I'm in a sexless marriage and it's my fault because that's the way I want it.

I highly doubt your husband is sexless. Congrats on getting what you wanted.