| Stats show that more people cheat, than not, so if you think you're significant other isn't cheating, you never really know |
Can you provide a link to those stats? |
| You can probably Google it pp. With all the apps out there, I'm sure it's true. |
| My Blackberry betrayed me. |
1 in 6 are the victim of rape or attempted rape, so the number of 1/3 being raped is way far off from the truth https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence |
But Human =/= Humane. It is part of a human experience to be raped. Does it suck? Yes. Is it inhumane? Yes. But dealing with shit and also being a shit is part of the human experience. |
| ^ equating an affair to rape is insane. It's not even as bad as a DWI these days. |
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A coworker got caught when her texts to AP were found by the other woman. The AP and OW were friends of coworker and her DH. The OW went to coworker's house and beat the tar out of her. Put her in the hospital. Another time, the same coworker got caught when the guy she was sending nude pics to showed his DW. I'm sure they weren't sent out of the blue, but apparently he had a crisis of conscience. Again, it was a couple they WERE friends with until the OW found out. Coworker is a beautiful, but deeply troubled Narcissist. |
| I assume that is because though the list is obviously written by a woman, she clearly wants to keep the genders of both their spouse and the affair partner a secret. This being 2018, she may be in an LGBTQQ relationship. |
By "OW" do you mean her affair partner's wife? Because you are either getting your terminology all wrong, or this story is much more interesting than described. |
Because I might be able to identify her somehow? Honestly, the genders are helpful when reading this stuff. Her situation doesn't seem so very unique that I'll be able to say, oh, that's Mildred! And her wife Genevieve! Plus, I kept reading DS as Dear Son, not Dear Spouse. |
I'm game for the much more interesting option. Please, please, please. |
The poster clearly kept it purposely vague to open all possibilities -- a heterosexual, gay, or lesbian married/co-habitating couple, and/or a heterosexual, gay, or lesbian affair. That way the principles are not identifiable. |
I know, right? We need another Golf Guy. |
I don't think I know Mildred, her spouse, and his/her paramour. They could be anybody. Her story isn't particularly unique. |