For Cheaters Who Were Caught Red Handed.

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Anonymous wrote:Golf guy here. I just opened the door and told her. At the time I didn't think AP and her knew each other but we later found out they share a hairdresser and a cleaning lady. You never know how small your world is until the explodes. We actually went golfing (ex and i) the next day and just had a long 10 hour convo. We decided that day to end it. We didn't do the "i think I can get over this" dance.

Holy crap, your ex must be some kind of a saint. I would have beat you to death with a golf club right then.

It's really a sad story, and he's still worried his daughter may find out. I'm sure at some point the ex wife has told her, or someday when she wants to know more. While no marriage is perfect it's really a horrific thing when a family breaks up, and lives are altered over garbage. I'm sure this AP wasn't worth all the problems that ensued. If anything it's bewildering and sad to see how many couples allow strangers to steal what's really important.

It sounds like golfer stepped over a dollar to pick up a nickel. A slug nickel at that...

When I was in college my mom told me about what my father did. It was her weird way of giving me some sort of coming of age lesson since I had started dating my first love. My father had been dead for several years at that time, so I was irritated that I could not confront him about it. My mother said that she then had a retaliatory affair, then abortion, and regretted it. I think it gave me a jaded (perhaps necessary reality call?) view of life, humans and trust. But I am 10 + years into my marriage, so I am not that jaded.

Your mom is a terrible woman to have told you those things ( your father was dead and she wanted to ruin your memory of him? ) and to have done those things - retaliatory affair and abortion? And she told you these things while you were in college enjoying your first love? I hope that you don’t spend much with with that bitter destructive woman.

No - this was not a necessary ‘reality call’. You should get some counseling before you absorb more of this sewage as being ‘normal life’.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wife got into my phone. Managed to print stuff out too, not sure how.

No exposing anything away on that one. She knew for a little while before she finally confronted me, not sure why she waited.

I felt terrible - and I’m honestly sorry. I’ll never do anything like that again. Ever. I felt like the worst person plus the pain I put her through. I cannot imagine.

Ha ha- you’re too dumb to cheat so cut it out.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife surprised me on a business trip! I was almost my birthday and she drove 7 hours to drop the kids off at her moms then flew out of that airport another 4 hours to my work location. She booked a day of golf for us (which is my thing, not hers) and literally had 5k worth of brand new golf clubs next to her when she was knocking on my hotel room door. I felt like the worst person alive. I mean Hitler had grace over me at that moment. I could see her through the peep hole and the bow on the clubs and her smile. And there was NOTHING I could do. I couldn't stuff AP in the closet. Although I wanted to.

I really hope she dumped you.

I hope she used the clubs on him.