Women are "Damaged Goods" after 30..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:41 year old woman here. Late twenties and early thirties are great dating years in my opinion. Go online several different sites.

I am 41 and still have decent dating options, though most are divorced with kids. Don't freak out or feel pressured but I do encourage you to prioritize dating over the next few years if your goal is marriage with kids. And don't waste time dating guys who you can't see marrying - I wasted too much time in my twenties and thirties in monogamous relationships that didn't go anywhere.

This is very good advice from pp. Your guy friends are right that you need to be aggressively looking, online dating, etc, not least because you might want kids and want all options open to you fertility-wise, and 35 is approaching fast, which is an important fertility milestone for women. Plenty of women have responded saying 'just don't get married at all-it sucks.' Well okay but your question wasn't 'should I get married?' If you want to get married in this area at your age you need to put some effort into finding a mate. I married at 35 out of sheer luck but by then I was already considering I might be enjoying the single beloved aunt life forever. D.C. Is a tough city for single women. You also shouldn't waste time on guys who aren't looking to settle down (no matter how fun they are!)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:LOL, most men are getting divorced by their 30s so your friend needs to STFU.

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Umm...wouldn't this mean the guys are right, that most men are already married by her age, making it harder for her to find single guys (although she could marry a divorcee.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women are like a good whiskey. They get better and stronger with age.

No idiot that's men, women are like milk

They turn into the most delicious and addicting substance on earth?

Mmmmm, gonna go dig into my bleu right now.....

Milk spoils

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I didn't really think about marriage until 30 or so. I met my DH at 32, married at 35, had a kid at 36, considering #2 at 39. I did have to focus on dating "seriously," but I had a blast doing it, met many nice people (just no chemistry), had a couple of short relationships and finally met my DH.

You really lucked out. I know a lot of women who did the same thing - not focus on marriage until 30. The problem is, you meet a guy at 31, then date for 2 years, and finally realize he's not the one. Now you're 33, start process again, and find out at 35 the same issue. Soon the biological clock is really ticking. It's a real gamble.. but what can you do?

+1 this happened in our group with a few people. The key is not to waste two years on a guy. Give it six months, max. Just Move on, don't try to 'work on' things and/or expect to change him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women are like a good whiskey. They get better and stronger with age.

No idiot that's men, women are like milk

They turn into the most delicious and addicting substance on earth?

Mmmmm, gonna go dig into my bleu right now.....

+1

Cheese is the best.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women are like a good whiskey. They get better and stronger with age.

No idiot that's men, women are like milk

They turn into the most delicious and addicting substance on earth?

Mmmmm, gonna go dig into my bleu right now.....

+1

Cheese is the best.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Aaron Rodgers traded in some actress gf in her mid/late 30s for a Harvard soccer player who is 24

Ronaldo is with a 23 year old

Jeter married his wife when she was 24

Men who have the ability to do so will target the 18-26 set

Aaron Rodgers is gay, and Ronaldo very well might be as well. Those are paid beards, idiot.

Most straight dudes marry women their own age.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is strange. As a married woman, I can assure you marriage and men in general are overrated. If my husband dropped dead tomorrow I would enjoy the life insurance payout and never entertain marriage ever again. Most men are terrible in bed so not sure I'd entertain sex either unless I found a unicorn man. While men tend to live their entire lives focused on sex and female approval, most women do not. Many of us really just don't.l care.

Definitely.

I am a young woman and i see this dynamic all the time. My parents are divorced and my dad would do anything to get back with my mom. He "could" easily be dating 20 year olds, by DCUM logic, as he's wealthy, in good shape, etc. But my mom is it for him. And he, being a functionally healthy human being, has no interest in dating people a fraction of his age anyway.

By contrast, my mom has zero interest in him or really dating at all, though she does read romance novels and stuff, but I think that's partly because it's one of the only genres targeted and written by women, and less about her actually hoping for a man.

I think most women can take or leave men. The reverse is not true in the least. Men spend their time obsessively plotting how to get women.

As a young woman, marriage is looking more and more like a racket and trap for women.

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39 year old divorcee, I am always taken aback when I see women clamoring to find a husband and get married. I want to yell from a mountain top that marriage is designed to benefit men. Period. Why would you want to enter into an arrangement that isn't designed with your best interest in mind?? I did all of the heavy lifting in my marriage and my husband still had the audacity to cheat. I left at 37, never looked back and my life couldn't be better. Meanwhile, my ex would do anything to get back what he had and has been trying to find my replacement with no success.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is strange. As a married woman, I can assure you marriage and men in general are overrated. If my husband dropped dead tomorrow I would enjoy the life insurance payout and never entertain marriage ever again. Most men are terrible in bed so not sure I'd entertain sex either unless I found a unicorn man. While men tend to live their entire lives focused on sex and female approval, most women do not. Many of us really just don't.l care.

Definitely.

I am a young woman and i see this dynamic all the time. My parents are divorced and my dad would do anything to get back with my mom. He "could" easily be dating 20 year olds, by DCUM logic, as he's wealthy, in good shape, etc. But my mom is it for him. And he, being a functionally healthy human being, has no interest in dating people a fraction of his age anyway.

By contrast, my mom has zero interest in him or really dating at all, though she does read romance novels and stuff, but I think that's partly because it's one of the only genres targeted and written by women, and less about her actually hoping for a man.

I think most women can take or leave men. The reverse is not true in the least. Men spend their time obsessively plotting how to get women.

As a young woman, marriage is looking more and more like a racket and trap for women.

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39 year old divorcee, I am always taken aback when I see women clamoring to find a husband and get married. I want to yell from a mountain top that marriage is designed to benefit men. Period. Why would you want to enter into an arrangement that isn't designed with your best interest in mind?? I did all of the heavy lifting in my marriage and my husband still had the audacity to cheat. I left at 37, never looked back and my life couldn't be better. Meanwhile, my ex would do anything to get back what he had and has been trying to find my replacement with no success.

You need a do not touch warning label

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is strange. As a married woman, I can assure you marriage and men in general are overrated. If my husband dropped dead tomorrow I would enjoy the life insurance payout and never entertain marriage ever again. Most men are terrible in bed so not sure I'd entertain sex either unless I found a unicorn man. While men tend to live their entire lives focused on sex and female approval, most women do not. Many of us really just don't.l care.

Definitely.

I am a young woman and i see this dynamic all the time. My parents are divorced and my dad would do anything to get back with my mom. He "could" easily be dating 20 year olds, by DCUM logic, as he's wealthy, in good shape, etc. But my mom is it for him. And he, being a functionally healthy human being, has no interest in dating people a fraction of his age anyway.

By contrast, my mom has zero interest in him or really dating at all, though she does read romance novels and stuff, but I think that's partly because it's one of the only genres targeted and written by women, and less about her actually hoping for a man.

I think most women can take or leave men. The reverse is not true in the least. Men spend their time obsessively plotting how to get women.

As a young woman, marriage is looking more and more like a racket and trap for women.

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39 year old divorcee, I am always taken aback when I see women clamoring to find a husband and get married. I want to yell from a mountain top that marriage is designed to benefit men. Period. Why would you want to enter into an arrangement that isn't designed with your best interest in mind?? I did all of the heavy lifting in my marriage and my husband still had the audacity to cheat. I left at 37, never looked back and my life couldn't be better. Meanwhile, my ex would do anything to get back what he had and has been trying to find my replacement with no success.

You need a do not touch warning label

So she doesn't break men's hearts? You'd like that, wouldn't you? You know she could break yours

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women think they can slut around in their late 20s and start finding a mate in their early 30s. Not a good combination for ticking clocks.

Do your shutting around 18-23, then seek a husband in your mid to late 20s.

Some men would prefer women who aren’t sluts in the first place

No we don't.

You’d be happy going to dinner or drinks with your wife and run into guys she slept with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women think they can slut around in their late 20s and start finding a mate in their early 30s. Not a good combination for ticking clocks.

Do your shutting around 18-23, then seek a husband in your mid to late 20s.

Some men would prefer women who aren’t sluts in the first place

No we don't.

You’d be happy going to dinner or drinks with your wife and run into guys she slept with?

Guys? What, an entire team? That would be awkward.

[Anonymous]

Marriage is a trap for both sexes. Women only want it so they can have kids and men only want it for daily sex.

The divorce rate in my city is so bad that I don’t even entertain a man who is nor do I want to befriend a woman who is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is a trap for both sexes. Women only want it so they can have kids and men only want it for daily sex.

The divorce rate in my city is so bad that I don’t even entertain a man who is nor do I want to befriend a woman who is.

A lie. But keep up the hyperbole.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is strange. As a married woman, I can assure you marriage and men in general are overrated. If my husband dropped dead tomorrow I would enjoy the life insurance payout and never entertain marriage ever again. Most men are terrible in bed so not sure I'd entertain sex either unless I found a unicorn man. While men tend to live their entire lives focused on sex and female approval, most women do not. Many of us really just don't.l care.

Definitely.

I am a young woman and i see this dynamic all the time. My parents are divorced and my dad would do anything to get back with my mom. He "could" easily be dating 20 year olds, by DCUM logic, as he's wealthy, in good shape, etc. But my mom is it for him. And he, being a functionally healthy human being, has no interest in dating people a fraction of his age anyway.

By contrast, my mom has zero interest in him or really dating at all, though she does read romance novels and stuff, but I think that's partly because it's one of the only genres targeted and written by women, and less about her actually hoping for a man.

I think most women can take or leave men. The reverse is not true in the least. Men spend their time obsessively plotting how to get women.

As a young woman, marriage is looking more and more like a racket and trap for women.

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39 year old divorcee, I am always taken aback when I see women clamoring to find a husband and get married. I want to yell from a mountain top that marriage is designed to benefit men. Period. Why would you want to enter into an arrangement that isn't designed with your best interest in mind?? I did all of the heavy lifting in my marriage and my husband still had the audacity to cheat. I left at 37, never looked back and my life couldn't be better. Meanwhile, my ex would do anything to get back what he had and has been trying to find my replacement with no success.

LOL sure being a SAHM is bad. You are crazy. I hope one day you will realize that you are to blame for you life not others(or those evil men). Take some responsibility for yourself princess.