Should I stay in the marriage or should I divorce him?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Honestly, now at this late stage I feel that I can hardly hold him to monogamy if I myself don't wish to sleep with him anymore. Of course, this situation could have been prevented at an earlier stage. I believe now that he started sleeping around during my pregnancy (I saw condoms that he couldn't explain).

OP it just keeps getting worse. Please don't sleep with him, no doubt he's been sleeping around. Not worth a std. It's not a woman's job to supply any man with endless sex. If that's why men get married then they should have stayed single and date. It's part of a healthy marriage which means a healthy balance. He's cheated obviously, of course you don't want to sleep with him!

There you have it. Don't get married, men, because women think it's not their job to have sex with you.

LOL I feel for OP, because she's obviously in a bind. But I can't even begin to imagine the women who seriously expect married men to stop being men. Where are you coming from, crazy ladies?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Honestly, now at this late stage I feel that I can hardly hold him to monogamy if I myself don't wish to sleep with him anymore. Of course, this situation could have been prevented at an earlier stage. I believe now that he started sleeping around during my pregnancy (I saw condoms that he couldn't explain).

OP it just keeps getting worse. Please don't sleep with him, no doubt he's been sleeping around. Not worth a std. It's not a woman's job to supply any man with endless sex. If that's why men get married then they should have stayed single and date. It's part of a healthy marriage which means a healthy balance. He's cheated obviously, of course you don't want to sleep with him!

There you have it. Don't get married, men, because women think it's not their job to have sex with you.

The only people whose job is to have sex are prostitutes. I know OP works PT but I don't think that's what she does.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Honestly, now at this late stage I feel that I can hardly hold him to monogamy if I myself don't wish to sleep with him anymore. Of course, this situation could have been prevented at an earlier stage. I believe now that he started sleeping around during my pregnancy (I saw condoms that he couldn't explain).

OP it just keeps getting worse. Please don't sleep with him, no doubt he's been sleeping around. Not worth a std. It's not a woman's job to supply any man with endless sex. If that's why men get married then they should have stayed single and date. It's part of a healthy marriage which means a healthy balance. He's cheated obviously, of course you don't want to sleep with him!

There you have it. Don't get married, men, because women think it's not their job to have sex with you.

The only people whose job is to have sex are prostitutes. I know OP works PT but I don't think that's what she does.

And whose job is it to support a homemaker/nanny again? I forget

[Anonymous]

why are you so afraid he won't be involved in your child's life? right now, he is only able to travel etc because of you. his career goals will have to change when he shares custody-- which is the only sensible thing for you to do here if you want to have a decent financial picture going forward. how much did you get conned by the contractor?