What is the probable cause of my symptoms?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thanks to the ER nurse. My dad is closer, and gets off work before my husband. My husband is not a part of the post. I used his measurements on here to help explain to everyone here what is going on with me. I have no idea what ED means.

I have to get my stuff up now. I am guilty of posting a serious question, nothing else. I am sorry that I don't run off to the doctor with every sneeze. Again, it's embarrassing, but I honestly thought worms.

ED means Emergency Department.

OP, if you have learned anything from this thread, I hope it's that what you've been experiencing isn't "every sneeze" or anything run of the mill. Losing 20 pounds in a month is a huge deal, particularly in conjunction with the other symptoms you mentioned. I can see how your every day experience might normalize these symptoms to you, but they are NOT normal. I hope you are on the way to the ED now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thanks to the ER nurse. My dad is closer, and gets off work before my husband. My husband is not a part of the post. I used his measurements on here to help explain to everyone here what is going on with me. I have no idea what ED means.

I have to get my stuff up now. I am guilty of posting a serious question, nothing else. I am sorry that I don't run off to the doctor with every sneeze. Again, it's embarrassing, but I honestly thought worms.

ED is what most hospitals call their ERs now.

And I'm guessing most people find it odd that you're relying on your dad rather than your husband to take you to the doctor if you're old enough to be married...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thanks to the ER nurse. My dad is closer, and gets off work before my husband. My husband is not a part of the post. I used his measurements on here to help explain to everyone here what is going on with me. I have no idea what ED means.

I have to get my stuff up now. I am guilty of posting a serious question, nothing else. I am sorry that I don't run off to the doctor with every sneeze. Again, it's embarrassing, but I honestly thought worms.

ED is what most hospitals call their ERs now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thanks to the ER nurse. My dad is closer, and gets off work before my husband. My husband is not a part of the post. I used his measurements on here to help explain to everyone here what is going on with me. I have no idea what ED means.

I have to get my stuff up now. I am guilty of posting a serious question, nothing else. I am sorry that I don't run off to the doctor with every sneeze. Again, it's embarrassing, but I honestly thought worms.

ER nurse here. ED is Emergency Department. This isn't about running off to the hospital for a sneeze. This is serious. You could very well be dying and your attitude is certainly not helping. Do you know how many people I saw receive a terminal diagnose because they waited too damn long? I'm sorry you're not taking it seriously. I'm sorry you have the attitude you do. I sincerely hope you have something easily treatable instead of aggressive cancer. I am likely done with this post because of your attitude to people genuinely trying to give you advice. I wish you luck in getting healthier.

[Anonymous]

I urge compassion for OP. I know people who would act just like she is acting. They are not bad people, but they do tend to be either inflexible or very aversive to possible bad news.

OP, I am glad you are going to the ER. I see no problem in waiting a few hours to make sure you have a supportive person with you.

Please report back on what happens. Like many on this board, I like to hear the end of the story because it helps us with others who may face similar situations. It's great cheering when it's minor and it's helpful to the OPs if we end up having to encourage when it's not so minor.

[Anonymous]

Op, serious question...Are you SN? Are you competent in making your own medical decisions? Something is very off about your posts and I'm wondering if you have the mental capacity to make informed medical decisions. Please get your dad on board to help you. It's nothing to be embarrassed about but it is far better to have someone who can make informed decisions take over your medical care than to be stubborn and die because you can't understand things and make decisions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thanks to the ER nurse. My dad is closer, and gets off work before my husband. My husband is not a part of the post. I used his measurements on here to help explain to everyone here what is going on with me. I have no idea what ED means.

I have to get my stuff up now. I am guilty of posting a serious question, nothing else. I am sorry that I don't run off to the doctor with every sneeze. Again, it's embarrassing, but I honestly thought worms.

ED is what most hospitals call their ERs now.

And I'm guessing most people find it odd that you're relying on your dad rather than your husband to take you to the doctor if you're old enough to be married...

Let's stop with that. Some people are bricks and helpful in a medical situation and others are not. My DH is hopeless, my teenage DD is great. I'd rather have the latter with me if I had to go to the ER.

[Anonymous]

Good luck, OP. I'm really glad to hear you're going to get some help today. I really hope it's not cancer. Please let us know what you find out. Posting back may help someone else who has similar symptoms. Will be thinking of you.

[Anonymous]

No, I have not left yet. My dad just got off work. To the ER nurse, I truly did not mean to offend you. Sometimes when we write things it comes across as having an attitude. When in fact I am not upset with you at all. You actually helped me to not feel like an idiot for going to the emergency room. I hope my explanation made a little bit of sense here as to what I thought the most likely scenario is, being embarrassed that it could be worms. Seriously, cancer never once crossed my mind and as mentioned by some other posters that doesn't necessarily mean that is going to be my outcome. In my mind that's the least likely. It doesn't mean that I'm right , because I am not a doctor. I don't hold grudges, and no I am not senile. Yes I am perfectly capable of making my own medical decisions. I wasn't insinuating that everybody runs off to the doctor when they sneeze. I was saying that I felt like I was being criticized for not going to the doctor thus far. That is all. By now, hopefully I'm sure the admin has assured everyone that I'm not a troll. Anyway, thank you for all advice. again, I am honestly one of the nicest people you will ever meet and I truly apologize if I offended anyone by sounding as though I was dismissing this. If that were the case I would not have even asked the question on the internet. To those who would like an update I will give one. To those who do not I apologize in advance for giving an update.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Used to be an ER nurse. We admit people for symptoms far less severe than yours. Despite your denial or whatever it is, your symptoms necessitate an emergency. Cancer in the abdominal area can spread very quickly and without prompt treatment it is very easy to go from "treatable " to "poor prognosis". You'll immediately have a CT scan of the abd and to rule out some things. I'm sorry that you haven't liked the advice here and I'm sorry that you don't like to deal with medical issues. But going to the ER is critical. I've seen patients with less severe symptoms than you and they've had colon cancer with mets to other organs

Not all ERs are equal though. Hopefully they don't just send her home to follow up with her doc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thanks to the ER nurse. My dad is closer, and gets off work before my husband. My husband is not a part of the post. I used his measurements on here to help explain to everyone here what is going on with me. I have no idea what ED means.

I have to get my stuff up now. I am guilty of posting a serious question, nothing else. I am sorry that I don't run off to the doctor with every sneeze. Again, it's embarrassing, but I honestly thought worms.

ED is what most hospitals call their ERs now.

And I'm guessing most people find it odd that you're relying on your dad rather than your husband to take you to the doctor if you're old enough to be married...

Geez! She said her dad can bring her earlier than her DH. Cut her some slack, she's going to the hospital.

Keep in mind, PPs, that DCUM is a highly educated crowd with easy access to health care. Not everyone is so tuned in.
That's what makes it a great place for "diagnose me" threads.

OP, please be proactive in the ER - you need to do more than just answer their questions. You need to tell them everything, and stress the severity of your symptoms, and that you want to rule out cancer.

Best of luck to you - hopefully they'll get to the bottom of this quickly and get you the treatment you need to feel better.

[Anonymous]

Good luck, OP. Let us know how it goes. There are lots of supportive people here.

[Anonymous]

Please remember to ask for a CA-125 test. I would also add CEA. Don't take no for an answer. Ask to see the results.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, I have not left yet. My dad just got off work. To the ER nurse, I truly did not mean to offend you. Sometimes when we write things it comes across as having an attitude. When in fact I am not upset with you at all. You actually helped me to not feel like an idiot for going to the emergency room. I hope my explanation made a little bit of sense here as to what I thought the most likely scenario is, being embarrassed that it could be worms. Seriously, cancer never once crossed my mind and as mentioned by some other posters that doesn't necessarily mean that is going to be my outcome. In my mind that's the least likely. It doesn't mean that I'm right , because I am not a doctor. I don't hold grudges, and no I am not senile. Yes I am perfectly capable of making my own medical decisions. I wasn't insinuating that everybody runs off to the doctor when they sneeze. I was saying that I felt like I was being criticized for not going to the doctor thus far. That is all. By now, hopefully I'm sure the admin has assured everyone that I'm not a troll. Anyway, thank you for all advice. again, I am honestly one of the nicest people you will ever meet and I truly apologize if I offended anyone by sounding as though I was dismissing this. If that were the case I would not have even asked the question on the internet. To those who would like an update I will give one. To those who do not I apologize in advance for giving an update.

You may be nice but you probably irritate the shit out of anyone you meet.

[Anonymous]

As I'm sitting here nervous as heck now I'm reading the post, and that last one actually made me cry. Believe it or not I volunteer for the Red Cross. I have a lot of friends, but unfortunately I have shut them all out recently because of my medical condition. I think it's better if I just stay away from here until I can get answers period maybe even after then comma because that was really harsh, and seriously I don't think that was necessary especially given why I came here for help.