Dating etiquete - what next?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I use women like OP for pump and dump. Vulnerable clueless and conceited! But if you pick the right one, you get serviced very well.

Thank you for reminding me why I'm generally turned off by dating now that I'm divorced. I'm healthy, attractive, friendly, smart and have a ton to offer. But this is the kind of attitude that makes me want to just hang with my girlfriends.

And pray tell what do you have to offer? Your youth was sucked dry by the first guy you married. Your body is a bag of botox and expensive make up. You are relatively fit for a middle aged hag, I will give you that. You come with baggage- children. You are a mess emotionally. You are high maintenance financially and emotionally. You are a waste of time in the dating world! And you feel "hurt" the moment I bring up a pre-nup.

We get it. You hate, hate, hate women. Your anger and bitterness is palpable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I use women like OP for pump and dump. Vulnerable clueless and conceited! But if you pick the right one, you get serviced very well.

Thank you for reminding me why I'm generally turned off by dating now that I'm divorced. I'm healthy, attractive, friendly, smart and have a ton to offer. But this is the kind of attitude that makes me want to just hang with my girlfriends.

And pray tell what do you have to offer? Your youth was sucked dry by the first guy you married. Your body is a bag of botox and expensive make up. You are relatively fit for a middle aged hag, I will give you that. You come with baggage- children. You are a mess emotionally. You are high maintenance financially and emotionally. You are a waste of time in the dating world! And you feel "hurt" the moment I bring up a pre-nup.

We get it. You hate, hate, hate women. Your anger and bitterness is palpable.

I think the poster is spot on in his assessment. Middle aged conceited delusional braggadocios compete with younger more pleasant available women in the dating pool. So middle aged women, you are not winning on the body or sex, if you dont have a pleasant personality, you are bound to be rejected. Case closed. Life is Darwinian. Accept it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I use women like OP for pump and dump. Vulnerable clueless and conceited! But if you pick the right one, you get serviced very well.

Thank you for reminding me why I'm generally turned off by dating now that I'm divorced. I'm healthy, attractive, friendly, smart and have a ton to offer. But this is the kind of attitude that makes me want to just hang with my girlfriends.

And pray tell what do you have to offer? Your youth was sucked dry by the first guy you married. Your body is a bag of botox and expensive make up. You are relatively fit for a middle aged hag, I will give you that. You come with baggage- children. You are a mess emotionally. You are high maintenance financially and emotionally. You are a waste of time in the dating world! And you feel "hurt" the moment I bring up a pre-nup.

We get it. You hate, hate, hate women. Your anger and bitterness is palpable.

I think the poster is spot on in his assessment. Middle aged conceited delusional braggadocios compete with younger more pleasant available women in the dating pool. So middle aged women, you are not winning on the body or sex, if you dont have a pleasant personality, you are bound to be rejected. Case closed. Life is Darwinian. Accept it.

I don't think the PP hates women. I think he's someone who has reflected back on how women treated him when he was younger. For the women, there's a lesson here. Women in their 20's have the phones blowing up with white knights looking to wine and dine them. I'm sure it must be quite intoxicating to get all of that attention. However, over time, the available pool of men shrinks until at some point, men are the same position later in life that women were in their 20's. How do men react when the tables are turned? They react the same way as women do in their 20's. Karma's a bitch, ladies.

[Anonymous]

lol, OP is clearly showing that her texting game is off - and she's getting harassed b/c her posting game is off??

IRL she might be a decent enough person, but...maybe a creative writing class would do you the most good, OP. If there really is that much of a disconnect between your written game and your facetime game...

[Anonymous]

OP here. I haven't read or posted since I wrote about the basis for my high self-confidence so the posts that PP is referring to weren't mine.

Pump and dump guy: I can spot your type from a mile. A woman with high self-esteem, high self-confidence who doesn't care whether or not she has a man in her life is not vulnerable or easily seduced. Dream on.

Several comments said I'm conceited because I said I'm attractive. But I didn't say anything about my physical features in any of my posts. That's because I believe it's mostly my personality and positive energy that make me attractive, rather than physical appearance alone. That is not conceit.
Some PPs criticized my comment that maybe my date is falling in love with me. If you read my initial post properly, he is not a stranger to me, I stated that we have socialized together many times as part of a group and he is a friend of a friend. We know each other better than many women know men they have sex with after 3 dates. Not judging, just a fact. After our first date he said he would stop dating other women because he never felt about another woman the way he feels about me. He said that he hoped I would develop the same feelings for him. He made other comments too, which are his very private thoughts so I'm not writing about those here. It was all of these together that made me wonder if he was falling in love with me, not a few texts from a stranger.

We've been on four dates, he calls every day and everything is going very well. Thanks to the posters who gave me helpful advice! I'm age early 50s, he is early 40s. I told him my age before our first date. He had thought I was younger than him but the truth didn't bother him. We like each other a lot, we haven't had sex after 4 dates and he still wants to date me. I guess some men are genuinely attracted to women over 40.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I haven't read or posted since I wrote about the basis for my high self-confidence so the posts that PP is referring to weren't mine.

Pump and dump guy: I can spot your type from a mile. A woman with high self-esteem, high self-confidence who doesn't care whether or not she has a man in her life is not vulnerable or easily seduced. Dream on.

Several comments said I'm conceited because I said I'm attractive. But I didn't say anything about my physical features in any of my posts. That's because I believe it's mostly my personality and positive energy that make me attractive, rather than physical appearance alone. That is not conceit.
Some PPs criticized my comment that maybe my date is falling in love with me. If you read my initial post properly, he is not a stranger to me, I stated that we have socialized together many times as part of a group and he is a friend of a friend. We know each other better than many women know men they have sex with after 3 dates. Not judging, just a fact. After our first date he said he would stop dating other women because he never felt about another woman the way he feels about me. He said that he hoped I would develop the same feelings for him. He made other comments too, which are his very private thoughts so I'm not writing about those here. It was all of these together that made me wonder if he was falling in love with me, not a few texts from a stranger.

We've been on four dates, he calls every day and everything is going very well. Thanks to the posters who gave me helpful advice! I'm age early 50s, he is early 40s. I told him my age before our first date. He had thought I was younger than him but the truth didn't bother him. We like each other a lot, we haven't had sex after 4 dates and he still wants to date me. I guess some men are genuinely attracted to women over 40.

Middle aged self-proclaimed attractive personality posting about miserable dating life on an anonymous thread. Right! We are all rooting for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I haven't read or posted since I wrote about the basis for my high self-confidence so the posts that PP is referring to weren't mine.

Pump and dump guy: I can spot your type from a mile. A woman with high self-esteem, high self-confidence who doesn't care whether or not she has a man in her life is not vulnerable or easily seduced. Dream on.

Several comments said I'm conceited because I said I'm attractive. But I didn't say anything about my physical features in any of my posts. That's because I believe it's mostly my personality and positive energy that make me attractive, rather than physical appearance alone. That is not conceit.
Some PPs criticized my comment that maybe my date is falling in love with me. If you read my initial post properly, he is not a stranger to me, I stated that we have socialized together many times as part of a group and he is a friend of a friend. We know each other better than many women know men they have sex with after 3 dates. Not judging, just a fact. After our first date he said he would stop dating other women because he never felt about another woman the way he feels about me. He said that he hoped I would develop the same feelings for him. He made other comments too, which are his very private thoughts so I'm not writing about those here. It was all of these together that made me wonder if he was falling in love with me, not a few texts from a stranger.

We've been on four dates, he calls every day and everything is going very well. Thanks to the posters who gave me helpful advice! I'm age early 50s, he is early 40s. I told him my age before our first date. He had thought I was younger than him but the truth didn't bother him. We like each other a lot, we haven't had sex after 4 dates and he still wants to date me. I guess some men are genuinely attracted to women over 40.

Humble brag! What a gentleman you have landed! He WILL pump and dump you. All such guys appear to be your knight in shining armor after 4 dates and a " slimy bastard" when viewed in the rear view mirror. Come back to us in August with your fairytale. Let's see if this lasts a summer....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:hopefully he's moved on ... I know I would.

Remember: you're a dime a dozen.

Women are like buses: you miss one, there's another coming in 10 minutes.

Another similarity is that sometimes it's fun to let your friends ride too.

[Anonymous]

????. Haters are gonna hate.

Who said anything about wanting a fairytale? Only some women under 40 look at men with rose-tinted glasses. Grown women know that men women are all flawed. That is where age is a plus, btdt, we don't believe in Prince Charming. Anyway, maybe I just want a man to satisfy my sexual needs then dump him?

We're having lunch with his mother next week, his idea. I'm having fun with him. What happens in time will happen and life will still be beautiful.

I hope you feel better about yourself in 2017.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you on some sort of feel good drugs? Most of your comments seem unrealistic.

That must be it.

She said she was depressed for a long time, then she's been in counseling.

OP actually sounds kind of delusional to me, not conceited.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I haven't read or posted since I wrote about the basis for my high self-confidence so the posts that PP is referring to weren't mine.

Pump and dump guy: I can spot your type from a mile. A woman with high self-esteem, high self-confidence who doesn't care whether or not she has a man in her life is not vulnerable or easily seduced. Dream on.

Several comments said I'm conceited because I said I'm attractive. But I didn't say anything about my physical features in any of my posts. That's because I believe it's mostly my personality and positive energy that make me attractive, rather than physical appearance alone. That is not conceit.
Some PPs criticized my comment that maybe my date is falling in love with me. If you read my initial post properly, he is not a stranger to me, I stated that we have socialized together many times as part of a group and he is a friend of a friend. We know each other better than many women know men they have sex with after 3 dates. Not judging, just a fact. After our first date he said he would stop dating other women because he never felt about another woman the way he feels about me. He said that he hoped I would develop the same feelings for him. He made other comments too, which are his very private thoughts so I'm not writing about those here. It was all of these together that made me wonder if he was falling in love with me, not a few texts from a stranger.

We've been on four dates, he calls every day and everything is going very well. Thanks to the posters who gave me helpful advice! I'm age early 50s, he is early 40s. I told him my age before our first date. He had thought I was younger than him but the truth didn't bother him. We like each other a lot, we haven't had sex after 4 dates and he still wants to date me. I guess some men are genuinely attracted to women over 40.

OP, he kind of sounds like a loser/beta orbiter with oneitis towards you. No other options or he thinks he has no other options. You've got him wrapped around your little finger, you know it, and you're basically teasing him. You're not sexually attracted to him but you enjoy the attention and the fact that he is emotionally focused on you, but you can never actually feel attracted to or respect him because women don't get turned on by men like him. You don't want to just cut him off since you don't have any other better options at the moment. So you want to keep playing this game, keep him dangling, because you're on a huge ego trip, and you're cruel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:????. Haters are gonna hate.

Who said anything about wanting a fairytale? Only some women under 40 look at men with rose-tinted glasses. Grown women know that men women are all flawed. That is where age is a plus, btdt, we don't believe in Prince Charming. Anyway, maybe I just want a man to satisfy my sexual needs then dump him?

We're having lunch with his mother next week, his idea. I'm having fun with him. What happens in time will happen and life will still be beautiful.

I hope you feel better about yourself in 2017.

He's introducing you to his MOTHER already? LOL, this guy isn't a player, he sounds like Steve Carrell from 40 year old virgin.

Sounds like both you and he have some screws loose, OP. Why are you wasting his time and your time if you're not really interested?

I'll be he's well off financially. Is that it, OP?

[Anonymous]

Ok so after what OP just posted. She is a loser. Her date is a bigger loser. They both deserve to be with each other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:????. Haters are gonna hate.

Who said anything about wanting a fairytale? Only some women under 40 look at men with rose-tinted glasses. Grown women know that men women are all flawed. That is where age is a plus, btdt, we don't believe in Prince Charming. Anyway, maybe I just want a man to satisfy my sexual needs then dump him?

We're having lunch with his mother next week, his idea. I'm having fun with him. What happens in time will happen and life will still be beautiful.

I hope you feel better about yourself in 2017.

He's introducing you to his MOTHER already? LOL, this guy isn't a player, he sounds like Steve Carrell from 40 year old virgin.

Sounds like both you and he have some screws loose, OP. Why are you wasting his time and your time if you're not really interested?

I'll be he's well off financially. Is that it, OP?

Ah, dont you OP has a great personality! How can she be a gold digger?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:????. Haters are gonna hate.

Who said anything about wanting a fairytale? Only some women under 40 look at men with rose-tinted glasses. Grown women know that men women are all flawed. That is where age is a plus, btdt, we don't believe in Prince Charming. Anyway, maybe I just want a man to satisfy my sexual needs then dump him?

We're having lunch with his mother next week, his idea. I'm having fun with him. What happens in time will happen and life will still be beautiful.

I hope you feel better about yourself in 2017.

He is "hiring" a mother (i work part time in a group of professionally trained actors who get gigs like this). This is a classic pump and dump