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Anonymous wrote:Don't underestimate how great it will be when your middle-schooler can get himself/herself to some after-school activities, orthodontist appts., etc., via bus/Metro, without relying on someone driving them there.
I really don't think NW DC is generally more walkable or urban than inner MoCo. Sure there are are areas in either that are more or less walkable but it's no more likely that an orthodontist requires a car for kid going to BCC than one going to Wilson.
OP here. If an area doesn't have sidewalks in my book it isn't walkable. 95% of NW DC has sidewalks. Cross western venue and maybe it's 50% depending on how you define inner suburbs. Our neighborhood thankfully has sidewalks even Edgemoor is 50/50 and E. Bethesda is like 20%. Being close to downtown Bethesda has more advantages than NW DC with activities like 2 movie theatres, Roundhouse theatre, Imagination Stge, Art Works, and we have a Y very close by. But, right now I just don't feel like the trade offs between that, the pace of development, and over crowded schools seems like it's worth it.
And to answer some other PPs, I actually grew up in a city going to inner city schools during the 80s. I saw a kid get stabbed first hand in the 6th grade. In HS we had crips that sold crack cocaine. I saw many kids make bad choices, myself included on occasion. But thankfully we still had tracking back then so the kids that were motivated to learn could and the ones that weren't didn't have to.
I would also like to say in case anyone has any ideas, that my family is interracial and DH is black. For me it is not about race but about having a stable community and a quality school. Diversity was actually one of the reasons we picked our ES. Moving to a NW DC ES would actually be a step down in diversity for us. But at some point it just feels like basic physics and common sense need to take over.
OP, have you considered what it might be like for your child at a school like Janney where he's one of the few black kids in his cohort (of course, he is biracial, but biracial kids are often perceived as AA)? Janney is undoubtedly an excellent school in many respects, but there are other really good schools that that also feed to Deal and Wilson that have a bit more diversity and where your son won't be a "lonely only."
Of course, this is not to say that issues related to be an only at Janney are inevitable--but perhaps before moving forward, it may not hurt to consider and visit some other schools.
-a biracial parent at another Deal/Wilson feeder
Our black kids go to Janney and have never complained of impostor syndrome or anything. They have made great friends and are happy.
OP here. I have to admit that it is a concern. There are actually very few WASP families at our MCPS. Probably half of the "white" students are jewish, which I think is an advantage and makes the school culturally more diverse for us than if there were more WASPs. Hopefully this doesn't offend anyone, but I have seen groups of Janney kids on the Metro for field trips and it just surprises me how white they are, both in terms of numbers but also culturally. If I could estimate, it will be like 16 WASPs, perhaps 4 jewish students (I don't know), and 2 black students. Why are so many of them blond?
I am sure if I looked up the school data it would be similar to this, with probably surprisingly very few asian families as opposed to what we have at our MCPS ES. The potential alienation does cause a bit of a concern for me and to me this is a big benefit of the BCC cluster: there is no one dominant race/culture. There is just lots of everybody. The problem is that there is also too much of everybody, along with the other issues.
Reading all of the comments, I feel my suspicions are confirmed that DCPS can be just as good if not better, but there are also potentially higher risks of bad outcomes which is true of any urban school system. Socially and diversity wise it would also be a disadvantage, which I already know.
We need to fix up our house and landscaping anyway, so we'll proceed with that. In the meantime, I need to do a bit more research and hopefully I can tour Janney or other NWDC ESs at some point. I'm not sure how much they allow that, as they don't allow any visitors at our ES but who knows.