What is one question you would like to ask your spouse out of curiosity but won't?

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you dress better? I buy you the clothes. I have sex with you when you wear them. I love it when you look nicer. Why can't you just do this to make me happy once in awhile? You look like an undergrad student and you are a physician.

Maybe he doesn't want to look like a physician. My husband's a lawyer and doesn't want random people knowing that.

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Anonymous wrote:For me, and this is probably ridiculous as we have been married over ten years, when we met he told me that he was getting over someone and didn't know how he would ever get past it. As far as I know, he has not had any communication with her for years (I do not even know her name). But for whatever reason, I am curious as to what happened and why he felt that way as he has always been a relatively confident guy.

omg, I have the same thought except I totally met her they claim to be good friends. I am curious why they broke up.

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How much does she enjoy getting attention from others when we go out. Does she want to leave me after the kids are gone

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What kind of porn are you watching while you are working from home?

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Not currently in a relationship, but I would ask my ex if he had sex with his gay friend he used to hang out with all the time.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you dress better? I buy you the clothes. I have sex with you when you wear them. I love it when you look nicer. Why can't you just do this to make me happy once in awhile? You look like an undergrad student and you are a physician.

Maybe he doesn't want to look like a physician. My husband's a lawyer and doesn't want random people knowing that.

I think the physician is a woman.

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I am shocked about some of these posts, as most seem like pretty standard questions that when you are MARRIED to the person, would have come up in conversation. I have to wonder how well you actually know your spouse, if you don't even know how and when they lost their virginity. I don't know, maybe my spouse and I are just pretty open about things. I can't really think of anything I would not ask my spouse, I ask anything I want to and I am pretty sure he does as well.

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Anonymous wrote:How sure are you that your sister is not really your mom?

DH's sister is 17 years older and was a wild child in high school. I think it's as plausible that they covered up her pregnancy by pretending it was their baby as it is that they had an oops at that age. Nothing else has led me to that conclusion but I feel like it's still a valid question.

I know someone this actually happened to. Her sister gave birth to her, but the parents (her actual grandparents) raised her as their own.