Famous last words: I would NEVER cheat!

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. I'd never cheat. Never. It's not okay. If you are miserable and want to end your marriage, then be honest about it. Cheaters are the biggest losers.

Yeah. We are. But, there it is. It makes you feel better about yourself.

Chester are so sensitive.

Isis is a bunch of crazy m'fers. Does that make me feel better? No.

Cheaters are a bunch of pathetic, selfish losers with huge self esteem issues. Does that make me feel better? No.

The problem here is belittling others doesn't elevate you one bit. Talk about self-esteem issues...

People with self esteem issue are always pointing to self esteem. I am not belittling people. ISIS supporters are crazy, you think I am saying that because I have self esteem issues.

It is known that when somebody goes to therapy and tells their therapist they had an affair the 1st thing the therapist does is try to figure out what is wrong with that person. They don't try to blame the marriage. They try to figure out if they are depressed, have anxieties, have a personality disorder, addiction issues, were abused as a child, was a victim of assault. Cheaters blame others for their issues. That is pathetic and selfish. That is a fact. Not something that make me feel better since I see my kid's friend's parents blowing up their lives for their own selfish pursuits and they refuse to get help.

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It's obvious to most "normal" functioning people. Cheaters are like alcoholics, druggies, abusers, etc. they are in denial and will deflect blame onto their victim or others. Not worth wasting oxygen on those people.

I'm still trying to figure out who Chester is and why he's so sensitive.

He is the guy that said he loved you and his wife was a cold fish, then begged his wife to stay with him and threw you under the bus to save his a$$.

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. I'd never cheat. Never. It's not okay. If you are miserable and want to end your marriage, then be honest about it. Cheaters are the biggest losers.

Yeah. We are. But, there it is. It makes you feel better about yourself.

Chester are so sensitive.

Isis is a bunch of crazy m'fers. Does that make me feel better? No.

Cheaters are a bunch of pathetic, selfish losers with huge self esteem issues. Does that make me feel better? No.

The problem here is belittling others doesn't elevate you one bit. Talk about self-esteem issues...

People with self esteem issue are always pointing to self esteem. I am not belittling people. ISIS supporters are crazy, you think I am saying that because I have self esteem issues.

It is known that when somebody goes to therapy and tells their therapist they had an affair the 1st thing the therapist does is try to figure out what is wrong with that person. They don't try to blame the marriage. They try to figure out if they are depressed, have anxieties, have a personality disorder, addiction issues, were abused as a child, was a victim of assault. Cheaters blame others for their issues. That is pathetic and selfish. That is a fact. Not something that make me feel better since I see my kid's friend's parents blowing up their lives for their own selfish pursuits and they refuse to get help.

Case closed

Unless you are personally familiar with medical diagnoses of ISIS supporters, saying they are crazy is literally saying nothing. Your views on cheating are determined by your personality and the lens through which you were conditioned to see the world. They are not indicative of the objective reality. Get out of DC, or better US altogether, and you'll hear a range of attitudes about cheating you could not possibly imagine. The self-help psychobabble you're reciting is not universally accepted or even known. When you label cheaters as "pathetic" or "selfish," you pass unnecessary judgement and reveal your own insecurities about adult relations.

Yep denial, aside from common sense cheating is another form of abuse.

Translation, anyone?

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. I'd never cheat. Never. It's not okay. If you are miserable and want to end your marriage, then be honest about it. Cheaters are the biggest losers.

Yeah. We are. But, there it is. It makes you feel better about yourself.

Chester are so sensitive.

Isis is a bunch of crazy m'fers. Does that make me feel better? No.

Cheaters are a bunch of pathetic, selfish losers with huge self esteem issues. Does that make me feel better? No.

The problem here is belittling others doesn't elevate you one bit. Talk about self-esteem issues...

People with self esteem issue are always pointing to self esteem. I am not belittling people. ISIS supporters are crazy, you think I am saying that because I have self esteem issues.

It is known that when somebody goes to therapy and tells their therapist they had an affair the 1st thing the therapist does is try to figure out what is wrong with that person. They don't try to blame the marriage. They try to figure out if they are depressed, have anxieties, have a personality disorder, addiction issues, were abused as a child, was a victim of assault. Cheaters blame others for their issues. That is pathetic and selfish. That is a fact. Not something that make me feel better since I see my kid's friend's parents blowing up their lives for their own selfish pursuits and they refuse to get help.

#1

It's obvious to most "normal" functioning people. Cheaters are like alcoholics, druggies, abusers, etc. they are in denial and will deflect blame onto their victim or others. Not worth wasting oxygen on those people.

I'm still trying to figure out who Chester is and why he's so sensitive.

He is the guy that said he loved you and his wife was a cold fish, then begged his wife to stay with him and threw you under the bus to save his a$$.

Well, I'm a guy, so you're saying Chester is my gay lover? That's weird because I don't have an AP, much less a gay one.

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. I'd never cheat. Never. It's not okay. If you are miserable and want to end your marriage, then be honest about it. Cheaters are the biggest losers.

Yeah. We are. But, there it is. It makes you feel better about yourself.

Chester are so sensitive.

Isis is a bunch of crazy m'fers. Does that make me feel better? No.

Cheaters are a bunch of pathetic, selfish losers with huge self esteem issues. Does that make me feel better? No.

The problem here is belittling others doesn't elevate you one bit. Talk about self-esteem issues...

People with self esteem issue are always pointing to self esteem. I am not belittling people. ISIS supporters are crazy, you think I am saying that because I have self esteem issues.

It is known that when somebody goes to therapy and tells their therapist they had an affair the 1st thing the therapist does is try to figure out what is wrong with that person. They don't try to blame the marriage. They try to figure out if they are depressed, have anxieties, have a personality disorder, addiction issues, were abused as a child, was a victim of assault. Cheaters blame others for their issues. That is pathetic and selfish. That is a fact. Not something that make me feel better since I see my kid's friend's parents blowing up their lives for their own selfish pursuits and they refuse to get help.

#1

It's obvious to most "normal" functioning people. Cheaters are like alcoholics, druggies, abusers, etc. they are in denial and will deflect blame onto their victim or others. Not worth wasting oxygen on those people.

I'm still trying to figure out who Chester is and why he's so sensitive.

He is the guy that said he loved you and his wife was a cold fish, then begged his wife to stay with him and threw you under the bus to save his a$$.

Well, I'm a guy, so you're saying Chester is my gay lover? That's weird because I don't have an AP, much less a gay one.

Never say Never.

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I said I would NEVER take back a cheater and that I wold NEVER cheat... both were untrue....*sigh*

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Anonymous wrote:The low self esteem is so pathetic. I was a geek, never f'd properly when I was in my 20's because I was a cold fish and now I will screw my spouse over so I can feel like I am not a cold fish geek. Okay... that is so pathetic... the self esteem issues make sense.

These women are highly neurotic and incapable of being happy. In their own minds, only, they perceived themselves as non sexual. This self image preceded their marriage. They rejected the notion of a happy sex life with their husbands not because the husband was deficient, but because they are. Later in life, they seek to create even more unhappiness by deciding to focus their repressed sexuality on someone outside the marriage-because they insist on neurotically placing the blame for their own frigidity on their spouse rather than on themselves.

This isn't about orgasms because you can get a vibrator for that if you really need to. These women are very self destructive and cheating on their spouse is a passive aggressive way of punishing their husband for being fool enough to fall in love and marry them.

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Anonymous wrote:The low self esteem is so pathetic. I was a geek, never f'd properly when I was in my 20's because I was a cold fish and now I will screw my spouse over so I can feel like I am not a cold fish geek. Okay... that is so pathetic... the self esteem issues make sense.

These women are highly neurotic and incapable of being happy. In their own minds, only, they perceived themselves as non sexual. This self image preceded their marriage. They rejected the notion of a happy sex life with their husbands not because the husband was deficient, but because they are. Later in life, they seek to create even more unhappiness by deciding to focus their repressed sexuality on someone outside the marriage-because they insist on neurotically placing the blame for their own frigidity on their spouse rather than on themselves.

This isn't about orgasms because you can get a vibrator for that if you really need to. These women are very self destructive and cheating on their spouse is a passive aggressive way of punishing their husband for being fool enough to fall in love and marry them.

Actually, it was aggressive aggressive.
Signed, one of "these women" ...

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I have never had the opportunity. I am sure if I did I would have cheated. But looks and age, women are just no interested.

I do think that cheating is much more prevalent among the beautiful people or women. Women have the ability to have sex anytime so it really boils down to attractive men or females cheating.

Mostly just the super attractive men.
Women have constant opportunity but usually don't have enough sex drive to deal with the hassle of cheating.

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No thanks, not worth the health consequences or losing what I've worked for in my life. I see people become financially strapped, lose their home and kids over garbage.

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Urge to cheat happens. We're all human. I think it's foolish to say, "I would never ______________." The most you can know is whether you probably would or would not. When I was younger, I was very attractive and was approached constantly. I married right out of college, and even when I felt very attracted to someone, I didn't cheat. It wasn't easy at times. I learned that there are certain situations to avoid, if you want to make it easier to stay faithful. So any time I see people putting themselves in these situations, while scoffing that they're immune to temptation, I think they're either naive morons or really do want to cheat, and not willing to be conscious about it, so they don't have to feel bad. The old, "it just happened!" set up.

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Anonymous wrote:I said I would NEVER take back a cheater and that I wold NEVER cheat... both were untrue....*sigh*

Sorry. How'd it happen that you changed your stance from pearl clutching never! too cheater and somebody who took back a cheating spouse?

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I have never had the opportunity. I am sure if I did I would have cheated. But looks and age, women are just no interested.

I do think that cheating is much more prevalent among the beautiful people or women. Women have the ability to have sex anytime so it really boils down to attractive men or females cheating.

Mostly just the super attractive men.
Women have constant opportunity but usually don't have enough sex drive to deal with the hassle of cheating.

This is untrue.

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Anonymous wrote:I said I would NEVER take back a cheater and that I wold NEVER cheat... both were untrue....*sigh*

Sorry. How'd it happen that you changed your stance from pearl clutching "never!" to cheater and somebody who took back a cheating spouse? Really curious. And wondering what you might say to your former self ..

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I have never had the opportunity. I am sure if I did I would have cheated. But looks and age, women are just no interested.

I do think that cheating is much more prevalent among the beautiful people or women. Women have the ability to have sex anytime so it really boils down to attractive men or females cheating.

Mostly just the super attractive men.
Women have constant opportunity but usually don't have enough sex drive to deal with the hassle of cheating.

This is untrue.

Totally untrue. I'm not super attractive and I did have the drive to overcome the "hassle" of cheating.

Who calls cheating a hassle? It was a compulsion, a drive, a desire.

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I pride myself on being a man of integrity, but a few years ago my nurse was obviously ready to go (my partners in the group saw it and even my wife noticed her interest). I am sorry to say that I even thought about it (she was a definite 10) and was close to making it happen. My wife and I had multiple young kids and our sex life was taking a beating. Luckily I never did anything, my relationship with my wife is as strong as ever and my friends would all be jealous if they knew how often my wife and I have sex and how enthusiastic she is now and all the things she will do in bed to take care of me.