Do you think there is a perfect height ratio between men and women?

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Anonymous wrote:Any woman who admits to me that she cares about height is a deal-breaker for me. I'm 5'11" so it's not an issue for me on a personal level, but it usually signals both a lack of intelligence and boringly conventional thinking. The sort of thing a woman who'd wear pearls and J Crew would think.


I'm sorry to break it to you but it's not an intellectual decision. It's a physical and visceral preference. Taller men make me hot and shorter ones do not. I'm sorry if that hurts your fragile ego. I can't do anything about it and I'm not going to go against instinct to make you feel better.
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I'm 5'9" and my husband is 6'0" which is fine. But my ideal height difference was with a BF who was about 6'2" or 6'3".
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I'm 6'1" and my wife is 5'8". Works out fine. I suppose ideal for me is being able to rest my chin on top of her head when we hug. No idea why, but that always felt nice.
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Anonymous wrote:I have to admit that when super short women date super tall guys I wonder how things work in the headroom.( is he too endowed, etc). Juvenile, I know, but I always wonder.


Lol! I've wondered the same. Also, isn't it a little awkward getting everything lined up?


Maybe she kisses his nipples instead of his mouth.


He can lift her to meet him. Very hot!


But I'm assuming that taller guys are also well endowed, while smaller women are...smaller. Does't this cause issues?


A guy's height doesn't have anything to do with his size IME.


Well according to data it is the best way to produce dick size.


I thought it was the size of the feet that was a good indicator.


Nope! Scientists studied it an apparently height has the biggest correlation. The taller, the bigger...


This is definitely not true in my experience. My 6'5 college football playing bf was the smallest I'd seen.


Could it have been average and looked small against his large frame?


+1
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Anonymous wrote:Any woman who admits to me that she cares about height is a deal-breaker for me. I'm 5'11" so it's not an issue for me on a personal level, but it usually signals both a lack of intelligence and boringly conventional thinking. The sort of thing a woman who'd wear pearls and J Crew would think.


I'm sorry to break it to you but it's not an intellectual decision. It's a physical and visceral preference. Taller men make me hot and shorter ones do not. I'm sorry if that hurts your fragile ego. I can't do anything about it and I'm not going to go against instinct to make you feel better.


Exactly.
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Anonymous wrote:I have to admit that when super short women date super tall guys I wonder how things work in the headroom.( is he too endowed, etc). Juvenile, I know, but I always wonder.


Lol! I've wondered the same. Also, isn't it a little awkward getting everything lined up?


Maybe she kisses his nipples instead of his mouth.


He can lift her to meet him. Very hot!


But I'm assuming that taller guys are also well endowed, while smaller women are...smaller. Does't this cause issues?


A guy's height doesn't have anything to do with his size IME.


Well according to data it is the best way to produce dick size.


I thought it was the size of the feet that was a good indicator.


Nope! Scientists studied it an apparently height has the biggest correlation. The taller, the bigger...


This is definitely not true in my experience. My 6'5 college football playing bf was the smallest I'd seen.


Could it have been average and looked small against his large frame?


+1


Scrawny guy here - I completey believe this. I'm about 160 lb's and am about average (6.5-7") and my wife audibly gasped the first time I dropped my shorts and still comments about my size regularly. My gf before her used to breathe really fast lamaz style when I was working it in to "try and relax because I was really big". I think it just looked large against my Mr. Puniverse frame.
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6'1" to 6'3" is every woman's ideal!

But it's kind of near the bottom in terms of importance, even when it comes to raw attraction.
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Anonymous wrote:Any woman who admits to me that she cares about height is a deal-breaker for me. I'm 5'11" so it's not an issue for me on a personal level, but it usually signals both a lack of intelligence and boringly conventional thinking. The sort of thing a woman who'd wear pearls and J Crew would think.


As long as you don't care about her weight, fine.


I don't, as long as she's physically fit -- which is generally something within her control and indicative of her approach to life. Height has nothing to do with your approach to life and it's purely genetic.

Saying "I only date men of X height" would be like saying "I only date men of X race" or "I only date men with X hair color". It marks you as a vapid moron.

Not really.


+1

If you want tall offspring with all the social and health benefits that entails, a tall husband is a smart choice.


Right. Like a white husband. Can't get white privilege without a white father.

I haven't seen an argument in favor of height that doesn't track pretty much exactly with an argument in favor of being of the dominant race. Tall people, like white people, have unearned privileges. Short men, like non-whites, are the subject of discrimination. You are perfectly free to express that you only want to date tall men just as you are perfectly free to express that you don't want to date non-whites. But, people might think you are small minded in each situation.
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Anonymous wrote:I have to admit that when super short women date super tall guys I wonder how things work in the headroom.( is he too endowed, etc). Juvenile, I know, but I always wonder.


Lol! I've wondered the same. Also, isn't it a little awkward getting everything lined up?


Maybe she kisses his nipples instead of his mouth.


He can lift her to meet him. Very hot!


But I'm assuming that taller guys are also well endowed, while smaller women are...smaller. Does't this cause issues?


A guy's height doesn't have anything to do with his size IME.


Well according to data it is the best way to produce dick size.


I thought it was the size of the feet that was a good indicator.


Nope! Scientists studied it an apparently height has the biggest correlation. The taller, the bigger...


This is definitely not true in my experience. My 6'5 college football playing bf was the smallest I'd seen.


Could it have been average and looked small against his large frame?


+1


Scrawny guy here - I completey believe this. I'm about 160 lb's and am about average (6.5-7") and my wife audibly gasped the first time I dropped my shorts and still comments about my size regularly. My gf before her used to breathe really fast lamaz style when I was working it in to "try and relax because I was really big". I think it just looked large against my Mr. Puniverse frame.


If you're measuring correctly this would put you around the 98th percentile according to the British journal of urology. Average is actually around 5.25" measured properly.
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Anonymous wrote:Any woman who admits to me that she cares about height is a deal-breaker for me. I'm 5'11" so it's not an issue for me on a personal level, but it usually signals both a lack of intelligence and boringly conventional thinking. The sort of thing a woman who'd wear pearls and J Crew would think.


As long as you don't care about her weight, fine.


I don't, as long as she's physically fit -- which is generally something within her control and indicative of her approach to life. Height has nothing to do with your approach to life and it's purely genetic.

Saying "I only date men of X height" would be like saying "I only date men of X race" or "I only date men with X hair color". It marks you as a vapid moron.

Not really.


+1

If you want tall offspring with all the social and health benefits that entails, a tall husband is a smart choice.


Right. Like a white husband. Can't get white privilege without a white father.

I haven't seen an argument in favor of height that doesn't track pretty much exactly with an argument in favor of being of the dominant race. Tall people, like white people, have unearned privileges. Short men, like non-whites, are the subject of discrimination. You are perfectly free to express that you only want to date tall men just as you are perfectly free to express that you don't want to date non-whites. But, people might think you are small minded in each situation.


Oh please. Don't even try it.

Trying to lump in the inconveniences of being short (aka- women won't fuck me!) with having to worry about being beaten by police, with the systemic poverty and lack of education that black people have faced in the USA since it's start.... like I said, please don't try it. For your own sake.
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Anonymous wrote:I have to admit that when super short women date super tall guys I wonder how things work in the headroom.( is he too endowed, etc). Juvenile, I know, but I always wonder.


Lol! I've wondered the same. Also, isn't it a little awkward getting everything lined up?


Maybe she kisses his nipples instead of his mouth.


He can lift her to meet him. Very hot!


But I'm assuming that taller guys are also well endowed, while smaller women are...smaller. Does't this cause issues?


A guy's height doesn't have anything to do with his size IME.


Well according to data it is the best way to produce dick size.


I thought it was the size of the feet that was a good indicator.


Nope! Scientists studied it an apparently height has the biggest correlation. The taller, the bigger...


This is definitely not true in my experience. My 6'5 college football playing bf was the smallest I'd seen.


Could it have been average and looked small against his large frame?


+1


Scrawny guy here - I completey believe this. I'm about 160 lb's and am about average (6.5-7") and my wife audibly gasped the first time I dropped my shorts and still comments about my size regularly. My gf before her used to breathe really fast lamaz style when I was working it in to "try and relax because I was really big". I think it just looked large against my Mr. Puniverse frame.


Riiiight. I'm sure this happened. LOL!
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Anonymous wrote:6'1" to 6'3" is every woman's ideal!

But it's kind of near the bottom in terms of importance, even when it comes to raw attraction.


+1. I would say 6 feet even to 6'4. Anything bigger than 6'4 gets into Herman Munster territory. Shorter than 6'0 starts to seem...unmasculine.
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Anonymous wrote:I have to admit that when super short women date super tall guys I wonder how things work in the headroom.( is he too endowed, etc). Juvenile, I know, but I always wonder.


Lol! I've wondered the same. Also, isn't it a little awkward getting everything lined up?


Maybe she kisses his nipples instead of his mouth.


He can lift her to meet him. Very hot!


But I'm assuming that taller guys are also well endowed, while smaller women are...smaller. Does't this cause issues?


A guy's height doesn't have anything to do with his size IME.


Well according to data it is the best way to produce dick size.


I thought it was the size of the feet that was a good indicator.


Nope! Scientists studied it an apparently height has the biggest correlation. The taller, the bigger...


This is definitely not true in my experience. My 6'5 college football playing bf was the smallest I'd seen.


Could it have been average and looked small against his large frame?


+1


Scrawny guy here - I completey believe this. I'm about 160 lb's and am about average (6.5-7") and my wife audibly gasped the first time I dropped my shorts and still comments about my size regularly. My gf before her used to breathe really fast lamaz style when I was working it in to "try and relax because I was really big". I think it just looked large against my Mr. Puniverse frame.


Riiiight. I'm sure this happened. LOL!


LOL. IKR? Even if he were 7 inches, which i doubt highly because men tend to overestimate their dick size by a lot, and he did say he has average size. Dicks often look larger, especially on a shorter body. So unless you've measured it with a tape measure, I'm gonna take that measurement with a big grain of salt.

I regularly check r/creepyPMs, which posts the gross attempts at sexting that men send women. And some of the commentators will often joke about the disproportionate number of men who apparently have an 8 inch dick. Because almost every dude that offers up his dick size over text claims that it's 8 inches. It's absurd.
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Anonymous wrote:6'1" to 6'3" is every woman's ideal!

But it's kind of near the bottom in terms of importance, even when it comes to raw attraction.


+1. I would say 6 feet even to 6'4. Anything bigger than 6'4 gets into Herman Munster territory. Shorter than 6'0 starts to seem...unmasculine.


Please. Average male height is well under 6 ft. You think most men look un-masculine ?
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Anonymous wrote:6'1" to 6'3" is every woman's ideal!

But it's kind of near the bottom in terms of importance, even when it comes to raw attraction.


+1. I would say 6 feet even to 6'4. Anything bigger than 6'4 gets into Herman Munster territory. Shorter than 6'0 starts to seem...unmasculine.


Please. Average male height is well under 6 ft. You think most men look un-masculine ?


NP. Sorry, but yes.
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