Do you think there is a perfect height ratio between men and women?

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Anonymous wrote:I have to admit that when super short women date super tall guys I wonder how things work in the headroom.( is he too endowed, etc). Juvenile, I know, but I always wonder.

Lol! I've wondered the same. Also, isn't it a little awkward getting everything lined up?

Maybe she kisses his nipples instead of his mouth.

He can lift her to meet him. Very hot!

But I'm assuming that taller guys are also well endowed, while smaller women are...smaller. Does't this cause issues?

A guy's height doesn't have anything to do with his size IME.

Well according to data it is the best way to produce dick size.

I thought it was the size of the feet that was a good indicator.

Nope! Scientists studied it an apparently height has the biggest correlation. The taller, the bigger...

This is definitely not true in my experience. My 6'5 college football playing bf was the smallest I'd seen.

Could it have been average and looked small against his large frame?

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Scrawny guy here - I completey believe this. I'm about 160 lb's and am about average (6.5-7") and my wife audibly gasped the first time I dropped my shorts and still comments about my size regularly. My gf before her used to breathe really fast lamaz style when I was working it in to "try and relax because I was really big". I think it just looked large against my Mr. Puniverse frame.

Riiiight. I'm sure this happened. LOL!

LOL. IKR? Even if he were 7 inches, which i doubt highly because men tend to overestimate their dick size by a lot, and he did say he has average size. Dicks often look larger, especially on a shorter body. So unless you've measured it with a tape measure, I'm gonna take that measurement with a big grain of salt.

I regularly check r/creepyPMs, which posts the gross attempts at sexting that men send women. And some of the commentators will often joke about the disproportionate number of men who apparently have an 8 inch dick. Because almost every dude that offers up his dick size over text claims that it's 8 inches. It's absurd.

Yes, I actually have measured it - with a ruler along the top. Those aren't "internet inches". I don't understand why 6.5-7" is so unbelievable.

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^Is this where we're all supposed to act impressed because you have a slightly larger than average dick?

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Anonymous wrote:^Is this where we're all supposed to act impressed because you have a slightly larger than average dick?

I wasn't trying to impress anyone. I even commented on my scrawny build. My point is that the woman commented above about the 6'6" guy with the small pecker was probably larger than average. It just looked small on his physique.

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Anonymous wrote:Any woman who admits to me that she cares about height is a deal-breaker for me. I'm 5'11" so it's not an issue for me on a personal level, but it usually signals both a lack of intelligence and boringly conventional thinking. The sort of thing a woman who'd wear pearls and J Crew would think.

As long as you don't care about her weight, fine.

I don't, as long as she's physically fit -- which is generally something within her control and indicative of her approach to life. Height has nothing to do with your approach to life and it's purely genetic.

Saying "I only date men of X height" would be like saying "I only date men of X race" or "I only date men with X hair color". It marks you as a vapid moron.

Not really.

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If you want tall offspring with all the social and health benefits that entails, a tall husband is a smart choice.

Right. Like a white husband. Can't get white privilege without a white father.

I haven't seen an argument in favor of height that doesn't track pretty much exactly with an argument in favor of being of the dominant race. Tall people, like white people, have unearned privileges. Short men, like non-whites, are the subject of discrimination. You are perfectly free to express that you only want to date tall men just as you are perfectly free to express that you don't want to date non-whites. But, people might think you are small minded in each situation.

I don't think anyone who wants to date people of a certain height or race is small minded, and especially not if its people of their own race. A woman's vagina doesn't need to be equal opportunity just to prove something to you.

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I am 5'3". My bf is 6'4".

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Wow, shallowest thread ever.

What's important is how well you match physically when in the HORIZONTAL position. Seriously - see sexless marriages threads for what life is like if that is not right.

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I'm 5'3". My first dh was 6'3", my second dh was 6'0".

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Anonymous wrote:6'1" to 6'3" is every woman's ideal!

But it's kind of near the bottom in terms of importance, even when it comes to raw attraction.

+1. I would say 6 feet even to 6'4. Anything bigger than 6'4 gets into Herman Munster territory. Shorter than 6'0 starts to seem...unmasculine.

Please. Average male height is well under 6 ft. You think most men look un-masculine ?

Yes. Maybe 5'10 or 5'11 s look masculine enough if they have amazing, muscular bodies. But those are sadly few and far between.
It's just evolutionary biological preference.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow, shallowest thread ever.

What's important is how well you match physically when in the HORIZONTAL position. Seriously - see sexless marriages threads for what life is like if that is not right.

Nope. If I am not attracted to you physically, we will never get to
the horizontal part.

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Anonymous wrote:Any woman who admits to me that she cares about height is a deal-breaker for me. I'm 5'11" so it's not an issue for me on a personal level, but it usually signals both a lack of intelligence and boringly conventional thinking. The sort of thing a woman who'd wear pearls and J Crew would think.

I'm sorry to break it to you but it's not an intellectual decision. It's a physical and visceral preference. Taller men make me hot and shorter ones do not. I'm sorry if that hurts your fragile ego. I can't do anything about it and I'm not going to go against instinct to make you feel better.

Guy here. I agree with this 100%. There are widely varying degrees of winners and losers in the genetic lottery. As a person, you can choose to make the best of what you've got or you can choose not to play at all. For every woman that feels whistled and catcalled to death there are probably eight more that feel invisible. I still think there's someone out there for everyone.

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Anonymous wrote:Any woman who admits to me that she cares about height is a deal-breaker for me. I'm 5'11" so it's not an issue for me on a personal level, but it usually signals both a lack of intelligence and boringly conventional thinking. The sort of thing a woman who'd wear pearls and J Crew would think.

I'm sorry to break it to you but it's not an intellectual decision. It's a physical and visceral preference. Taller men make me hot and shorter ones do not. I'm sorry if that hurts your fragile ego. I can't do anything about it and I'm not going to go against instinct to make you feel better.

Guy here. I agree with this 100%. There are widely varying degrees of winners and losers in the genetic lottery. As a person, you can choose to make the best of what you've got or you can choose not to play at all. For every woman that feels whistled and catcalled to death there are probably eight more that feel invisible. I still think there's someone out there for everyone.

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I am naturally ugly (woman). This is not a sought-after trait in the dating market. Its not my fault, I have no control over it, I just have to make the best of all my other assets and accept the fact that life is unfair and I will never be sought-after by men who are highly sought-after themselves.

Short or shorter men need to realize that they will find some compatible people, but they need to set their sights lower to take into account the unappeal of their immutable shortness.

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Anonymous wrote:I am naturally ugly (woman). This is not a sought-after trait in the dating market. Its not my fault, I have no control over it, I just have to make the best of all my other assets and accept the fact that life is unfair and I will never be sought-after by men who are highly sought-after themselves.

Short or shorter men need to realize that they will find some compatible people, but they need to set their sights lower to take into account the unappeal of their immutable shortness.

It seems like even ugly women who are fit can have guys lined up to date them. Lots of guys (even the sought after ones) seem to like women whether they're pretty or not as long as they are reasonably fit. I think it comes back to the previous posters comments on making the best of what you got in the genetic lottery.

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Anonymous wrote:Any woman who admits to me that she cares about height is a deal-breaker for me. I'm 5'11" so it's not an issue for me on a personal level, but it usually signals both a lack of intelligence and boringly conventional thinking. The sort of thing a woman who'd wear pearls and J Crew would think.

As long as you don't care about her weight, fine.

I don't, as long as she's physically fit -- which is generally something within her control and indicative of her approach to life. Height has nothing to do with your approach to life and it's purely genetic.

Saying "I only date men of X height" would be like saying "I only date men of X race" or "I only date men with X hair color". It marks you as a vapid moron.

Not really.

+1

If you want tall offspring with all the social and health benefits that entails, a tall husband is a smart choice.

Right. Like a white husband. Can't get white privilege without a white father.

I haven't seen an argument in favor of height that doesn't track pretty much exactly with an argument in favor of being of the dominant race. Tall people, like white people, have unearned privileges. Short men, like non-whites, are the subject of discrimination. You are perfectly free to express that you only want to date tall men just as you are perfectly free to express that you don't want to date non-whites. But, people might think you are small minded in each situation.

I don't think anyone who wants to date people of a certain height or race is small minded, and especially not if its people of their own race. A woman's vagina doesn't need to be equal opportunity just to prove something to you.

Sure, as a black female, when I think of an oppressed minority, short white men spring to mind.

That chip on the shoulder thing is making more and more sense.

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Anonymous wrote:I have to admit that when super short women date super tall guys I wonder how things work in the headroom.( is he too endowed, etc). Juvenile, I know, but I always wonder.

Lol! I've wondered the same. Also, isn't it a little awkward getting everything lined up?

Maybe she kisses his nipples instead of his mouth.

He can lift her to meet him. Very hot!

But I'm assuming that taller guys are also well endowed, while smaller women are...smaller. Does't this cause issues?

My tallest boyfriend was 6'6" and his endowment was on the good side of average. My 5'10" boyfriend was the largest I've had.

This has been my experience too. Height is not a good predictor of size. I've dated really tall guys who were average and the largest was a guy who was 5'9". He was shockingly large, like something you would see in porn. There are no infallible indicators of size, you just never know.