They don't get 30 years, that's what's with that. |
What the fuck does this even mean? She's a worthless piece of shit rapist who has never accomplished anything in her pathetic life other than bagging rich men. Fuck her, I hope she rots in prison and hell. |
I was 21 at my first job out of college when I started having an affair with a woman who worked there who was 43. It lasted for about a year. Awesome sex. Sometimes we would do it twice a day (lunch - my apartment was within walking distance from work) and after work. A 15 year old that's not getting any or barely any and gets hard just from the wind blowing would most definitely not be running away from a 48 year old ex cheerleader who still had a decent body |
I'm reminded of a DCUM thread a while ago about date rape in which a man responded that he had been seduced by a much older woman as an adolescent. He talked about how the experience had warped his notion of "normal" sexuality. i.e. he had no notion of making out or teenage foreplay -- he thought all sexuality was a quick cut-to-the-chase fuck. In the thread, he talked about how this messed him up as a teenager and young man and, in fact, led to a situation in which he had date raped a woman in college. I think about his story when I hear people on this thread minimizing the rape of a 15 year old boy by an older woman. |
Yup. He's still a kid. It's not a normal sexual relationship, even if you somehow don't classify it as rape. It is often very psychologically damaging. But nobody seems to care about that. |
PP here - I'm not condoning it, and I agree it is rape. However, i'm just trying to say that most 15 year old boys if given it to them, would go to town. |
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It wasn't that long ago when it was acceptable to get married and have children shortly after puberty. This practice was accepted and condoned by governments and religions. Somehow over the years this practice migrated from being morally acceptable to being one of the most reprehensible crimes possible. Age of Consent was also much lower years ago. Delaware for example, where this incident occurred, the Age of Consent was 7 in 1895. Yes, only 7.
Strange how quickly morals can change. |
| 7 year old kids were not marrying 47 year old women or 60 year old men. |
I think that I was the poster you are referring to. There is a big difference between someone experienced (e.g., 21 years old), and a 13 year old (me) or 15 yo. It took me years to realize what happened to me was rape -- at the time, I did not realize it was abnormal. I thought I got lucky. But, I never dated in HS -- I did not know how. I had problems in college with women (that I did not know) -- they were vaginas only. |
It changes with intelligence and education. It use to be okay to own black people and beat women. |
I have a buddy who also was a virgin in his early twenties and was seduced by an older woman. It was a fond experience for him. However, there is a HUGE difference between a 15 year old and a 21 year old. I read a first-hand account of a teenager who was seduced in high school by a woman over twice his age and it totally warped how he related to girls his age. |
It still happens in many parts of the world. Doesn't mean it's right. http://www.foreignpolicy.com/articles/2011/05/19/the_young_and_the_betrothed |
Agreed. At 15, I wanted to f%^k anything as long as it didn't smell bad. The kid missed out. |
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Being seduced by predator might be exciting in the moment, but it can truly destroy a person's chance of a healthy sex life or warp one's sense of self going forward. I treat individuals with sex addiction, most of them abuse survivors and no one brags about getting bagged by a MILF.
Molly Shattuck was probsably seduced by someone predatory and used her resources: her looks and athleticism to get herself out of a crappy lower middle class upbringing. Add 150 pounds and and take away the money, and she is Mama June and Honey Boo Boo. Just another trauma survivor who continues to get exploited by sexual predators or becomes one. |
+1000 |