Is it right to cheat if you get cheated on?
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Anonymous
| If some of you are saying it’s ‘just sex,’ what are your thoughts to a husband who used craigslist for casual sex and never had any attachment to the women? |
Anonymous
I would think he is dumber thanks box of rocks for picking up trash on Craigslist and promptly get tested |
Anonymous
But your actions are impacted by others, you aren’t in a vacuum. You can say you have integrity values etc, but what if someone does something unethical at work? You have to make a decision to say nothing and continue to work there, say nothing and leave, say something and risk whatever sh#tstorm comes your way, try to report it anonymously etc. The good behavior of others would have avoided this predicament but once there you have to deal. You can have 4 people say they would not engage in x behavior themselves and all 4 choose a different path when someone they know engages in that behavior. I remember asking one of my close friends why would someone respond to a cheating situation a certain way and she said, understand whatever the response, they are getting something out of it. It may not be the same choice I would make but we have different back stories and different things we prioritize. |
Anonymous
| Totally! The cheater broke a moral contract so you're no longer bound by it either... |
Anonymous
| My ex-wife suggested that to me when I found out she'd been cheating. That suggestion was the nail in the coffin for me. |
Anonymous
| No. If my wife cheated on me, not saying the marriage would definitely end, but I have only had sex in committed situations so the thought of looking for something to get even is outside of how I operate. |
Anonymous
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Is it right? No.
Is it understandable? Yes. |