Another friend refused to be my divorce witness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok OP, what you seem to be missing is that by being YOUR witness, it is being on a side. Which is incredibly awkward for your husband's sister's live in boyfriend. Or any family member of your husband.

Are there really 32 questions to be answered?

If we are talking an uncontested divorce, you are probably wrong. There is not necessarily a "side" to be taken. So stop acting so superior. It's unbecoming and doesn't impress anyone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I get that it sucks for YOU OP, but it boggles me that you can't understand why people might not want to get involved in what is clearly a not-very-neat divorce. Your last friend was within her rights to refuse, and so is the SIL's boyfriend (even moreso, actually since he is currently living with your ex). People do NOT want to get dragged into other people's divorces. I said this in your last thread and I repeat it again here: this is the kind of thing I would do for my sister and probably no one else. I'm sorry that you're having a hard time getting anyone on board, but you really can't be surprised or hold it against them. Your divorce isn't their problem.

If you would only do it for your sister, then I am so glad I have never made the mistake of being your friend. Geez. Some of you people have no loyalty. Some of you are just the dumbest of fucks. Either way, it's pretty sad.