Gross. My husband doesn't wash his hands... EVER

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Anonymous wrote:Does he wash his hands before sex?

What would be the point of that? I would bet that 100% of the women grossed out by OP's DH have had sex with a man who did not wash his crotch immediately before sex. So the question is, why is it unhygienic for a man not to wash his hands after urinating but okay for him to but that same dirty private part inside you without washing it?

Because his private part may be sweaty, but it wasn't touching gross stuff all day, such as metro poles and escalator handrails and toilet flushing handles. That he would touch you down there with that hand without first washing it is disgusting. His manhood isn't touching all that stuff, presumably it's tucked into absorbent cotton boxers or briefs all day.

Very sensible. I take it you're okay with men not washing hands after urinating?

Huh?

Well the only thing men touch when they urinate is their (possibly sweaty but tucked into absorbent cotton) private parts, and their hands are no more likely to have urine on them than said private parts, and we've already established that it's okay to put those private parts, in that condition, inside you. So why would they need to wash their hands?

The focus of the question was about the dirty hands, not the dirty private parts. Men's hands get dirty from touching a lot more during the work day than their private parts.

Yes, we've established that men should wash their hands before sex because of all the nasty stuff they touch during the day (because we are accepting for these purposes that the world is a vile vile place and it's a wonder we even survive breathing the air that touches all that gross stuff). Now we're figuring out whether it's ok, hygienically, not to wash hand after urinating. Lots of people above don't think so, but my challenge is that if you let a guy have sex with you without washing his private parts, you're exposing YOUR private parts to exactly the same stuff that lead you to think it's gross for men not to wash their hands after urinating.

Thanks. You've got me confused with the person who cares about washing after you urinate. Since I generally don't pee all over my hands that wasn't my concern. I was focused on the fact that someone would work all day and take metro home and them eat with their hands. I think the dick is the least of the germ suppliers.

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Most guys are gross. Hands washing on a regular basis, especially after arriving home after being in a public place is crucial for your health and the health of your family living with you. Those that don't wash and touch you and other items in your home put you at risk for illness. Wash your hands people, otherwise stay away from me.

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There's a hand sanitizer product called "I may have just touched my genitals" that would be perfect for your husband. Seriously.

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One time I went on a date with a guy, he peed in the woods, came back to my place, and started touching our pizza we were about to eat (without washing his hands). Needless to say, the relationship didn't work out.

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That's really nasty. OP didn't you know how gross he was before you married him?

I have a question though. I have a coworker whose hands are always very sticky when she touches my hands. I find it repulsive because I think she either never washes her hands (they're always that way) or has a sweat gland problem. Is it polite to ask her if she washes them? I just get grossed out whenever her hands touch mine. It might be cultural though because she married an american white guy who happens to be an engineer and brought her to the US to marry him and work. She's brazilian.

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Come to think of it, my son used to pretend to wash his hands when he was around 6. He would claim he washed them when he didn't. I think he doesn't like the feel of soap. His hands often feel gross so I wonder if he is still pretending. If I were OP, I would try to get to the bottom of the issue of why he doesn't wash more. I tend to agree with a PP who said he might have a sensory issue.

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Okay, here's my perspective: I have pretended to wash my hands many times and I'll tell you why. Getting my hands wet results in an incredibly uncomfortable sensation on my skin. I have to immediately moisturize and most bathrooms don't have moisturizer. If I wash my hands as many times in the day as I pee, my skin would peel off. So, I use the restroom, but don't really touch anything. I open the doors with my shirt or elbow or use the toilet liner to lock the door. And if somebody else is in the bathroom, I feel like I need to pretend to wash my hands because they don't know that I don't touch anything. I wash after I poop, but that's about it.

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I 100% guarantee neither you, nor your husband nor your daughter will die because of this.

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odd thread to bump

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I can't imagine where his hands have been and the biofilm that's on them... and his hands on you during sex.... blaaaaaahhhh

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Anonymous wrote:I can't imagine where his hands have been and the biofilm that's on them... and his hands on you during sex.... blaaaaaahhhh

LOL! Do you make your DH wash his hands before you get it on? That's hilarious.

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My sister's husband not only doesn't wash his hands, he doesn't like to bathe. Didn't know this until they came for a visit. He went outside to tan, got all sweaty then laid on my sofa. I nearly exploded. My sister had to tell him to go bathe. While he was showering she said he only gets clean once a month. I had vomit come up.

I then sprayed my sofa with lysol and covered it with sheets. We have since replaced that sofa. Nasty ass.

He's a, as he calls himself, a Generation X liberal hippy from Washington state. My sister is dirty too but not her body, just her house. They make the perfect pair. He's an Ira Einhorn type.

They are no longer welcome at my house.

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day to day germs are ok, and does help build the immune system. Babies/kids pick up stuff on the playground, school, on the floor, etc.. But the germs on the metro, bathrooms, outside trash bins can contain things like ecoli. I am not ok with those types of germs.

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Anonymous wrote:My sister's husband not only doesn't wash his hands, he doesn't like to bathe. Didn't know this until they came for a visit. He went outside to tan, got all sweaty then laid on my sofa. I nearly exploded. My sister had to tell him to go bathe. While he was showering she said he only gets clean once a month. I had vomit come up.

I then sprayed my sofa with lysol and covered it with sheets. We have since replaced that sofa. Nasty ass.

He's a, as he calls himself, a Generation X liberal hippy from Washington state. My sister is dirty too but not her body, just her house. They make the perfect pair. He's an Ira Einhorn type.

They are no longer welcome at my house.

That is one of the most disgusting things I've ever read.

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Anonymous wrote:Does he wash his hands before sex?

What would be the point of that? I would bet that 100% of the women grossed out by OP's DH have had sex with a man who did not wash his crotch immediately before sex. So the question is, why is it unhygienic for a man not to wash his hands after urinating but okay for him to but that same dirty private part inside you without washing it?

Because his private part may be sweaty, but it wasn't touching gross stuff all day, such as metro poles and escalator handrails and toilet flushing handles. That he would touch you down there with that hand without first washing it is disgusting. His manhood isn't touching all that stuff, presumably it's tucked into absorbent cotton boxers or briefs all day.

Very sensible. I take it you're okay with men not washing hands after urinating?

Huh?

Well the only thing men touch when they urinate is their (possibly sweaty but tucked into absorbent cotton) private parts, and their hands are no more likely to have urine on them than said private parts, and we've already established that it's okay to put those private parts, in that condition, inside you. So why would they need to wash their hands?

The focus of the question was about the dirty hands, not the dirty private parts. Men's hands get dirty from touching a lot more during the work day than their private parts.

Yes, we've established that men should wash their hands before sex because of all the nasty stuff they touch during the day (because we are accepting for these purposes that the world is a vile vile place and it's a wonder we even survive breathing the air that touches all that gross stuff). Now we're figuring out whether it's ok, hygienically, not to wash hand after urinating. Lots of people above don't think so, but my challenge is that if you let a guy have sex with you without washing his private parts, you're exposing YOUR private parts to exactly the same stuff that lead you to think it's gross for men not to wash their hands after urinating.

Agreed. But my vag isn't going to then crawl into the kitchen and make itself a salad, touching other surfaces that others will unknowingly touch. Good to know that you keep your private areas and your hands equally (not) clean.