How do men compliment their wives these days?

[Anonymous]

Mine tells me when he thinks I look nice but more it's saying he's proud of me, he's impressed with me, he thinks I'm smart or funny, etc. So sometimes it's related to looks but I'd say at least half the time, likely more, it's related to other attributes of mine.

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Anonymous wrote:Something I've always found extremely classy is when men (or women) give their spouse a genuine compliment within earshot but TO someone else. Like telling guests how good a dish they made is, or noting how nice the look, or saying how great they were with the kids earlier in the day. When people do this, I always think "wow, they must really love their spouse, that's great." Something about bragging on your spouse in that way just feels extra nice.

I agree! I was out of town back in November and there was a party with our neighborhood friends that my husbanded attended solo and multiple people told me that he was saying kind things about me all night, which was really nice to hear. He does say those things to my face as well, so it didn't feel performative or disingenuous or anything, it was just nice that he was thinking about me while I was gone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women can never win. Either we’re too fat or too skinny. Our boobs are too big or too small. I have as close to the perfect body as you can get (apart from a B cup chest) and I think the best compliment I got from DH was “your hair looks nice”. I just tried on a bikini because we’re going on vacation and his response was “that’s a little too risqué. It’s a family resort”. I barely have any boobs. How tf can it be too risqué?

You have a husband problem, not a societal problem.

[Anonymous]

I get compliments on my looks once in a blue moon, despite being fit and taking care of myself. I could do without if DH actually had any interest in me as a person.

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Anonymous wrote: I work at home (not by my preference.) We really try to avoid each other during the week. But on Fridays, she wears something sexy before dinner and we have a little happy hour. I grad her ass and cup her breasts while we drink cocktails. Later, we have aggressive sex that bleeds into the next morning. That’s how we deal with work from home.

How do you juggle the cocktail and the breasts? Mash the breasts with one hand, leaving the other free for your drink? Some kind of foam dome situation? Either way, sounds sexy player!

[Anonymous]

Mine looks at me and says "i'm so lucky" a lot.

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Anonymous wrote:^ crawl back in your cave

Why? I am athletic and fir. Why would i find my fat wife attractive? What’s worse is she didn’t even realize how fat she got until i pointed it to her and asked her to lose weight

Geez. Have you shared that with her.

I didn’t tell her I don’t find her attractive anymore as I don’t wont to hurt her feelings. But i did tell her that she is overweight and she needs to lose some

Her response ?

She started to lose weight and looks better now. She needs to some more though

Was she offended?

Not sure about offended but she was very surprised. I didnt say in a disrespectful way; just in a straightforward manner. She is a good wife and understood my point and started working on it right away

She’s working on it for her second husband. You’ve never heard of the revenge body? You showed your real personality and she’s got one foot out the door.

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Anonymous wrote:Mine looks at me and says "i'm so lucky" a lot.

That is so sweet.

My DH has always been bad at compliments. He makes random statements and "means" them as compliments. "You look really tanned today" This one's old because I no longer try to tan lol. "Your hair is really curly today" after I curled it. I try to find the compliment in what he says but even those have gotten fewer.

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Anonymous wrote:Do they say they look pretty? Cute? Hot? Sexy? What do they say?

They don’t say anything. Don’t you see the divorce rate these days? Men are useless.

This. Such a sad state of affairs. It's so easy but so hard for men. SMH.

[Anonymous]

My husband is out of town with one of our four kids. He just sent me a text message:

“I miss you so much! You would love it here. I want to tell you about it and have some quality time when I get back (winky face). Do you want to go on a date Saturday night?”

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“Ima tap dat azz!”

[Anonymous]

Mine thinks putting his hard stick against my back when I am sleeping counts. LOL.

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Anonymous wrote:Mine thinks putting his hard stick against my back when I am sleeping counts. LOL.

It’s hard to grow into the woman you want to be with his Staff Of Unreasoning and Hyperbole pressed up against your coccyx while you’re trying to go to sleep.

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Anonymous wrote:Mine thinks putting his hard stick against my back when I am sleeping counts. LOL.

It’s hard to grow into the woman you want to be with his Staff Of Unreasoning and Hyperbole pressed up against your coccyx while you’re trying to go to sleep.

“Massivus throbbinus”!

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Anonymous wrote:Mine thinks putting his hard stick against my back when I am sleeping counts. LOL.

It’s hard to grow into the woman you want to be with his Staff Of Unreasoning and Hyperbole pressed up against your coccyx while you’re trying to go to sleep.

“Massivus throbbinus”!

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