How do men compliment their wives these days?

Anonymous
My husband often compliments me on how I look - cute, pretty. I never dress sexy so I don’t hear that. If I wear a sexy nightgown his actions say a lot.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Do they say they look pretty? Cute? Hot? Sexy? What do they say?


All of the above married over 40 years. Not everyday, and I am short middle aged chubby now he still sees me like I was in my 20's.

In our mid 60's.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I used to compliment my fat wife just to be polite saying she looks beautiful, good etc. Problem is she thought i was saying the truth and actually believed I found her beautiful. I stopped. Will complement her again when she loses weight


Wow, you are a loser.
Anonymous
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Fellow man here. I’m with you. Men are not attracted to fat women. We have to be honest about this. No reason to beat around the bush.


You're fat as well so....


Woman here -
Stupidest reply.
We owe an obligation to ourselves and our family to be in good healthy shape for so many reasons.


Sometime you can try and life gets you. Wife cukd be amazing this turd only sees superficial things
Anonymous
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Why? I am athletic and fir. Why would i find my fat wife attractive? What’s worse is she didn’t even realize how fat she got until i pointed it to her and asked her to lose weight


Geez. Have you shared that with her.

I didn’t tell her I don’t find her attractive anymore as I don’t wont to hurt her feelings. But i did tell her that she is overweight and she needs to lose some



Her response ?
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Why? I am athletic and fir. Why would i find my fat wife attractive? What’s worse is she didn’t even realize how fat she got until i pointed it to her and asked her to lose weight


Geez. Have you shared that with her.

I didn’t tell her I don’t find her attractive anymore as I don’t wont to hurt her feelings. But i did tell her that she is overweight and she needs to lose some




Her response ?

She started to lose weight and looks better now. She needs to some more though
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I used to compliment my fat wife just to be polite saying she looks beautiful, good etc. Problem is she thought i was saying the truth and actually believed I found her beautiful. I stopped. Will complement her again when she loses weight


Wow, you are a loser.

Why?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I used to compliment my fat wife just to be polite saying she looks beautiful, good etc. Problem is she thought i was saying the truth and actually believed I found her beautiful. I stopped. Will complement her again when she loses weight


You can help her lose weight. I enjoy working out with my wife. We have fun together. And when we go home we have great sex

Be proud of your wife sir. Also please understand that women tend to hold on to fat much more than men do.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DH compliments me all the time. Usually beautiful, gorgeous, pretty. If I'm dressing up to go somewhere he usually will say hot or sexy because he knows I like that too. He also compliments if I cook, compliments me if something goes well at work, tells me what a great mom I am. Thanks me for the stuff I do around the house and for the family. Granted, it works both ways. I compliment him and thank him for what he does.


I did all of that and more and she still cheated. Then I divorced her and she is now on her 3rd relationship.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I used to compliment my fat wife just to be polite saying she looks beautiful, good etc. Problem is she thought i was saying the truth and actually believed I found her beautiful. I stopped. Will complement her again when she loses weight


Why the hate.
A lot of women look better with some curves.


100%. If my wife's butt is faster than mine in jeans then we have a problem. If her hips are narrower than mine when we have even more problems. I want to see her ass moving in all directions when she wears leggings.
Anonymous
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Why? I am athletic and fir. Why would i find my fat wife attractive? What’s worse is she didn’t even realize how fat she got until i pointed it to her and asked her to lose weight


You don't call a person you love a fat wife. You say my wife who has weight issues. You don't ask her to loose weight, you ask her to eat healthy, workout and get annual medical check up.

I did try the bolded for over a year but she wasn’t getting the message. Finally I had to be more direct and it is working out much better


I hope she f**s someone hotter than you cause you don't deserve her.

Signed a man with a fat wife that I love
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I used to compliment my fat wife just to be polite saying she looks beautiful, good etc. Problem is she thought i was saying the truth and actually believed I found her beautiful. I stopped. Will complement her again when she loses weight


You can help her lose weight. I enjoy working out with my wife. We have fun together. And when we go home we have great sex

Be proud of your wife sir. Also please understand that women tend to hold on to fat much more than men do.


R u serious? If i look pregnant, should I expect my wife to help me lose weight? As a grown ass man i should know what to do. Regardless I did try to help her by making dietary suggestions, exercise etc in a polite manner and she wasn’t getting the message. I had it enough and told her point blank and she got the message. Life is better now
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:^ crawl back in your cave


Why? I am athletic and fir. Why would i find my fat wife attractive? What’s worse is she didn’t even realize how fat she got until i pointed it to her and asked her to lose weight


Do you make it possible for her to go to the gym? My friend has a DH like you and he always made comments about her weight and appearance. And yet he never could be bothered to watch their 2 little kids so she could actually go to the gym.


You cannot out run the fork. She should get on Ozempic and then leave him.
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Why? I am athletic and fir. Why would i find my fat wife attractive? What’s worse is she didn’t even realize how fat she got until i pointed it to her and asked her to lose weight


Geez. Have you shared that with her.

I didn’t tell her I don’t find her attractive anymore as I don’t wont to hurt her feelings. But i did tell her that she is overweight and she needs to lose some




Her response ?

She started to lose weight and looks better now. She needs to some more though


Was she offended?
Anonymous
A father at one of our kids parties commented that his wife needed to loose weight… After she reached for a cupcake.

I found it very rude for him to put her on blast.

Ugh ..
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