| Do they say they look pretty? Cute? Hot? Sexy? What do they say? |
They don’t say anything. Don’t you see the divorce rate these days? Men are useless. |
| I used to compliment my fat wife just to be polite saying she looks beautiful, good etc. Problem is she thought i was saying the truth and actually believed I found her beautiful. I stopped. Will complement her again when she loses weight |
| ^ crawl back in your cave |
Why? I am athletic and fir. Why would i find my fat wife attractive? What’s worse is she didn’t even realize how fat she got until i pointed it to her and asked her to lose weight |
| *fit |
Fellow man here. I’m with you. Men are not attracted to fat women. We have to be honest about this. No reason to beat around the bush. |
Geez. Have you shared that with her. |
| Every day… I’d be dead if it wasn’t for her. 🙏 |
You're fat as well so.... |
All of that at different times and about how good she is as a person, wife, mom, professional etc. |
| He compliments a hell of a lot more than just my looks! How shallow would that be?! |
You don't call a person you love a fat wife. You say my wife who has weight issues. You don't ask her to loose weight, you ask her to eat healthy, workout and get annual medical check up. |
| DH compliments me all the time. Usually beautiful, gorgeous, pretty. If I'm dressing up to go somewhere he usually will say hot or sexy because he knows I like that too. He also compliments if I cook, compliments me if something goes well at work, tells me what a great mom I am. Thanks me for the stuff I do around the house and for the family. Granted, it works both ways. I compliment him and thank him for what he does. |
Some people only have good looks to offer so in those cases, it wouldn't be shallow but honest. |