Everyone is becoming a Grandparent

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want my kids to have children to make my holidays fun. If they want to have and raise children, totally their choice.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My brother and his wife never thought they'd be grandparents either and for years have been droning on and on about how you don't need grandkids and the world is to messed up for kids etc etc. Now one of their kids is pregnant and they're over the moon they're so happy.

We love being grandparents ourselves. They're all local. They make the family complete and dynamic. Especially the holidays!

This is a pretty A**H*** thing to post to OP, considering how they’re feeling.

Right? It sounds like they accepted their lot in life, made the best of it, tried not to mope around about it, and now they're getting what they perhaps always silently wished for and they're excited. Or, alternatively, they got what they didn't think they were interested in and are now doing the only thing they can do- expressing joy and welcoming the new family member.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My brother and his wife never thought they'd be grandparents either and for years have been droning on and on about how you don't need grandkids and the world is to messed up for kids etc etc. Now one of their kids is pregnant and they're over the moon they're so happy.

We love being grandparents ourselves. They're all local. They make the family complete and dynamic. Especially the holidays!

This is a pretty A**H*** thing to post to OP, considering how they’re feeling.

Right? It sounds like they accepted their lot in life, made the best of it, tried not to mope around about it, and now they're getting what they perhaps always silently wished for and they're excited. Or, alternatively, they got what they didn't think they were interested in and are now doing the only thing they can do- expressing joy and welcoming the new family member.

Oh- yeah, a mean thing to post to the OP too. I was commenting on it being a mean way to talk about their sibling!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My brother and his wife never thought they'd be grandparents either and for years have been droning on and on about how you don't need grandkids and the world is to messed up for kids etc etc. Now one of their kids is pregnant and they're over the moon they're so happy.

We love being grandparents ourselves. They're all local. They make the family complete and dynamic. Especially the holidays!

This is a pretty A**H*** thing to post to OP, considering how they’re feeling.

Right? It sounds like they accepted their lot in life, made the best of it, tried not to mope around about it, and now they're getting what they perhaps always silently wished for and they're excited. Or, alternatively, they got what they didn't think they were interested in and are now doing the only thing they can do- expressing joy and welcoming the new family member.

Oh- yeah, a mean thing to post to the OP too. I was commenting on it being a mean way to talk about their sibling!

Nah. I'm the poster who wrote this and I'm very close to my sibling. So close, in fact, that I kept my mouth shut whenever they went on and on with their anti-kid thing because I knew it was a defense mechanism and I have been proven right. I'm very happy for them.

I think most of the poster on here who claim not to care about ever having grandkids are also just being defensive.

Grandkids complete a family. They just do. We just had another joyous holiday with all of our kids, their spouses, all the grandkids, the dogs -- all of us. It's just fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't want my kids to have children to make my holidays fun. If they want to have and raise children, totally their choice.

Making the holidays fun is just the icing on the cake. Nobody wants grandkids just for that.

They're FUN. I get it if you're jealous. That's ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You also won’t become a circus performer, a fighter pilot, or a cardiovascular surgeon. So what? You don’t get control over what other people do with their own reproductive systems.

I'm curious about your demographic. What are you doing on the forum for people with Adult Children?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You also won’t become a circus performer, a fighter pilot, or a cardiovascular surgeon. So what? You don’t get control over what other people do with their own reproductive systems.

Not the same comparisons. Not having grandchildren changes one's life structure and family structure. It changes everything. No we cannot control our children's reproductive choices or status, but that doesn't mean we cannot be sad.

"sad"

I am not "sad" I am proud I raised children that became intelligent adults and know not to bring children into the world right now. Vaccines for one, Stupidity of MAGA, Fascism by the dumbest criminal ever enabled by Republicans in office, Hell no.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My children are too intelligent to bring a child into this world right now with vaccines going away and stupidity of the cult of maga.

No way.

Heathcare for women and children after 2026 non existent thank you project 2025

Pro birth party and breeding homes not for my daughters no

This has to be the the dumbest post I have ever seen. Science, healthcare, technology, opportunity are at their highest points in the entire history of humanity. We are literally living at the apex of all civilization. But all means, let your genes exit the pool! It's called survival of the fittest.

+1

I wish every post came with the poster's demographics.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You also won’t become a circus performer, a fighter pilot, or a cardiovascular surgeon. So what? You don’t get control over what other people do with their own reproductive systems.

Family is a lot more important than being a fighter pilot, moron.

Name calling. This is why the smart people are leaving DCUM

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My children are too intelligent to bring a child into this world right now with vaccines going away and stupidity of the cult of maga.

No way.

Heathcare for women and children after 2026 non existent thank you project 2025

Pro birth party and breeding homes not for my daughters no

This has to be the the dumbest post I have ever seen. Science, healthcare, technology, opportunity are at their highest points in the entire history of humanity. We are literally living at the apex of all civilization. But all means, let your genes exit the pool! It's called survival of the fittest.

NP. Uh, no. Idiocracy is rapidly becoming a reality.

Things ebb and flow. This time is no different. The tide will always turn.

They will ebb from the US and flow to other countries. It's called a brain drain and is already happening.

We’re losing a lot of less smart people too. It balances out.

Over time, sure it balances out. We’re in a people where people are leaving and fewer smart, less empathetic people are encouraged to come - tech bros

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You also won’t become a circus performer, a fighter pilot, or a cardiovascular surgeon. So what? You don’t get control over what other people do with their own reproductive systems.

Not the same comparisons. Not having grandchildren changes one's life structure and family structure. It changes everything. No we cannot control our children's reproductive choices or status, but that doesn't mean we cannot be sad.

"sad"

I am not "sad" I am proud I raised children that became intelligent adults and know not to bring children into the world right now. Vaccines for one, Stupidity of MAGA, Fascism by the dumbest criminal ever enabled by Republicans in office, Hell no.

It’s like trying to describe Oz to Uncle Henry and Auntie Em.

[Anonymous]

We are fine with 2 or our 3 kids choosing not to have children. If you don’t want to raise them you shouldn’t have them. However, we won’t be leaving them the same inheritance. There’s no point in making them wealthy to what?? Leave it to the animal society? The one with kids will inherit 80% the other 2 can split the remainder.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are fine with 2 or our 3 kids choosing not to have children. If you don’t want to raise them you shouldn’t have them. However, we won’t be leaving them the same inheritance. There’s no point in making them wealthy to what?? Leave it to the animal society? The one with kids will inherit 80% the other 2 can split the remainder.

I'm from a family of four kids, two of which don't have children. And if my parents did something like this my brother and I (who have kids) would absolutely refuse our extra share and split evenly with our siblings. That's an excellent way to leave a bad taste in everyone's mouths after you die.

[Anonymous]

I'm from a family of four kids, two of which don't have children. And if my parents did something like this my brother and I (who have kids) would absolutely refuse our extra share and split evenly with our siblings. That's an excellent way to leave a bad taste in everyone's mouths after you


That’s so cute you think moral superiority will keep you from taking the money! You must be wealthy if you are willing to take away a paid college education or a down payment on a house for your progeny. Money has only one purpose, and it’s not to make you feel loved, or to show that life’s fair, it’s to smooth your life path. And single adults already have a smoother path but okay, decline and I’ll pick a family oriented charity and they can have it instead, Happy now?

[Anonymous]

Growing up, we had a family friend of my mom's who was like a grandma to us. She was so incredibly loving and caring. We really loved her so much and were so thankful to have her. She would take care of us while our parents were at work, and we'd visit her and her husband, have lunch or dinner and play cards or go to the park, and even sleep over sometimes. She really was the definition of a loving grandparent. They both were. There are days when I really miss them like my own grandparents. All this to say, you just don't know whose lives you'll touch. It doesn't have to be biological grandchildren to get the grandparent experience.