Everyone is becoming a Grandparent

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Anonymous wrote:My children are too intelligent to bring a child into this world right now with vaccines going away and stupidity of the cult of maga.

No way.

Heathcare for women and children after 2026 non existent thank you project 2025

Pro birth party and breeding homes not for my daughters no

This has to be the the dumbest post I have ever seen. Science, healthcare, technology, opportunity are at their highest points in the entire history of humanity. We are literally living at the apex of all civilization. But all means, let your genes exit the pool! It's called survival of the fittest.

NP. Uh, no. Idiocracy is rapidly becoming a reality.

Things ebb and flow. This time is no different. The tide will always turn.

Climate change will put an end to humanity sooner rather than later.

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Anonymous wrote:You also won’t become a circus performer, a fighter pilot, or a cardiovascular surgeon. So what? You don’t get control over what other people do with their own reproductive systems.

Family is a lot more important than being a fighter pilot, moron.

Then OP can adopt some kids, or volunteer with some. It's not responsible for one person to have a baby so someone else can see it for a few hours each weekend at best, and brag about it to their friends. Again, you don't get to control what other people do with their reproductive systems.

And it's not like all of us can have kids (infertility) or afford to adopt kids.

Try participating in a substitute grandparents program OP.

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A good friend of mine has ten grandchildren and I definitely envy her as we have none. Their lives aren’t centered around their grandchildren which I think is healthy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:.....except me!! May not be in the cards for our family and it makes me feel a bit sad.

That was me a year ago.

I feel last sad now.

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Yes we just had the world’s most boring sleepy Christmas dinner with our two unmarried daughters in their late twenties. Just the four of USA Ho Hum. I thought by now there would be spouses and children and games and fun. Nope. Every year it feels sadder.

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Anonymous wrote:My brother and his wife never thought they'd be grandparents either and for years have been droning on and on about how you don't need grandkids and the world is to messed up for kids etc etc. Now one of their kids is pregnant and they're over the moon they're so happy.

We love being grandparents ourselves. They're all local. They make the family complete and dynamic. Especially the holidays!

This is a pretty A**H*** thing to post to OP, considering how they’re feeling.

[Anonymous]

I have noticed that the couples who marry in their twenties and have 2-3 kids had a great family home while growing up. They continue the values that were nurtured upon them.

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Anonymous wrote:I have noticed that the couples who marry in their twenties and have 2-3 kids had a great family home while growing up. They continue the values that were nurtured upon them.

I live were people typically marry in their 20s. It's a mixed bag as you would expect seeing as there is nothing special about marry in your 20s. Just a cross section of the population. Some good, some bad

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Anonymous wrote:.....except me!! May not be in the cards for our family and it makes me feel a bit sad.

That sucks but silver lining is that your kids would've more resources and time to care for you in your elderly years. Adult kids with spouses and children are usually no good in parent's time of need.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You also won’t become a circus performer, a fighter pilot, or a cardiovascular surgeon. So what? You don’t get control over what other people do with their own reproductive systems.

Family is a lot more important than being a fighter pilot, moron.

Then OP can adopt some kids, or volunteer with some. It's not responsible for one person to have a baby so someone else can see it for a few hours each weekend at best, and brag about it to their friends. Again, you don't get to control what other people do with their reproductive systems.

Stop- it is not the same. It isn't a family structure just volunteering. Not at all a substitute. It's not about being around little kids or whatever you think this issue is.

Just stop. OP didn't say anything about controlling other people's reproductive systems. And I doubt at OP age that adopting is really an option, wtf. It is perfectly fine to be sad. This is a normal part of life and how we are evolutionarily designed.

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Anonymous wrote:You do realize there could be fertility issues or other matters at play here? I really hope my MIL isn’t saying/thinking these things about me

She is. Every parent wants their kid to have a kid

+1 how clueless can you be PP. Of course they wonder! You're just lucky they aren't vocalizing it.

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Anonymous wrote:I have noticed that the couples who marry in their twenties and have 2-3 kids had a great family home while growing up. They continue the values that were nurtured upon them.

I live were people typically marry in their 20s. It's a mixed bag as you would expect seeing as there is nothing special about marry in your 20s. Just a cross section of the population. Some good, some bad

Yes. Our kids are late twenties and not yet married but they are starting to tell us about divorces among their set, guys whose weddings they went to. One friend of theirs is already divorced with a child.

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Anonymous wrote:You do realize there could be fertility issues or other matters at play here? I really hope my MIL isn’t saying/thinking these things about me

She is. Every parent wants their kid to have a kid

No they don't. They want their kids to be happy. Having kids isn't for everyone and parents need to realize that their kids' idea of happy may look very different from their's.

Every parent may not want their kid to have a kid, but every parent wants to be a grandparent one day.

That’s not necessarily true.

Maybe in the last generation, society/family expectations were to marry and have kids....definitely not anymore.
Kids are a lot, don't have them unless YOU really want them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My children are too intelligent to bring a child into this world right now with vaccines going away and stupidity of the cult of maga.

No way.

Heathcare for women and children after 2026 non existent thank you project 2025

Pro birth party and breeding homes not for my daughters no

Excellent. I can tell from your post that your genes should not be replicated and I’m glad your kids realize that! I wish more would realize it.

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Anonymous wrote:You do realize there could be fertility issues or other matters at play here? I really hope my MIL isn’t saying/thinking these things about me

She is. Every parent wants their kid to have a kid

No they don't. They want their kids to be happy. Having kids isn't for everyone and parents need to realize that their kids' idea of happy may look very different from their's.

Every parent may not want their kid to have a kid, but every parent wants to be a grandparent one day.

That’s not necessarily true.[

Agree. I have three adult kids. The oldest is 31 and is married; middle kid is 28 and engaged to be married this summer; youngest is 25 and in a serious relationship. What I hope for each one is to find their own happiness in love, friendships, and work that they find meaningful. That might come with kids or not; if it does, I’m sure DH and I would enjoy being grandparents, but if not, there’s a lot more to life.