Is it true that women go after the same men?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:6 ft tall, 6 figure income, 6 inch length, and 6 pack abs.

Go to Costco on the weekend. All men with wives and kids are 6 ft tall. Don't know about their income, abs and length. But visibly, without undressing them...their height is 6 ft. Also, all of them are driving big expensive SUVs.


All Republican, straight, white, conservatives. The ones you all supposedly say nobody wants.



That might be a DMV thing.

Here in a Midwest country that Trump won, the conservatives are very sad sack compared to more educated men who tend to be liberal.
Anonymous
That bumble survey is crazy. Women would rather date 6’8 than 6’2? No way. 6’7, 6’8 is too tall if the woman isn’t 6’. That’s like everyday life becomes a pain in the butt tall.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:All women only go after guys who check three boxes: at least 6 feet tall, make six figures, and have six-pack abs. But when you break that down, not many guys actually meet all those standards.

Only about 14% of men in the U.S. are over 6 feet tall. Around 25% make $100k or more. If you combine just those two, you’re already down to roughly 3.5% of men. Add in the six-pack requirement, and you’re probably looking at 1% or less.

So, every woman is chasing that 1%.

On the flip side, guys tend to have simpler preferences. They mostly want someone who’s attractive. There are a lot of beautiful women out there at any height and income range.

This is redpill incel talk.

If this were true, you'd see only married men that are 6/6/6, which is far from true. Stop parroting what the tate grifters are selling you.

OP, I say the premise is false. Not all women are into the same thing. I'm sure there are large swaths of men that NO women are into (like this incel), but I'd say the rest of women are into different things and want their men to reflect those different preferences.


Your statement is ridiculous. Women can go after the same men. Does that mean they will all be able to get these men? NO. There are only so many.
The women who fail will settle for the 5’8 guys with beer bellies. They will be happy when they make at least 6 figures.
Anonymous
Your friends are still married while you are divorced. Perhaps you are the physically unattractive one.


Nope. I’m actually about an 8. These guys are 3s.


An 8? Really? How do you know that you are an 8, and the "these guys" are 3s?

Eights are rare. It is much more likely that you are a 4, whom higher-value men ran through. Sadly, you sit alone, firm in your belief that you are too attractive for the men (of your caliber) who now approach you.

Let's address your inevitable comment of "Get lost, incel" head-on. I am a father of six kids, three daughters and three sons. Via their social lives, I see women like you all the time—specifically, women with an extremely high, yet unfounded, sense of their attractiveness.

If you were truly an 8, you would draw the attention of men who are also 8s.

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:All women only go after guys who check three boxes: at least 6 feet tall, make six figures, and have six-pack abs. But when you break that down, not many guys actually meet all those standards.

Only about 14% of men in the U.S. are over 6 feet tall. Around 25% make $100k or more. If you combine just those two, you’re already down to roughly 3.5% of men. Add in the six-pack requirement, and you’re probably looking at 1% or less.

So, every woman is chasing that 1%.

On the flip side, guys tend to have simpler preferences. They mostly want someone who’s attractive. There are a lot of beautiful women out there at any height and income range.


Maybe women just want men who are better at math than you?


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I'm 5'5"

I have a whole range of acceptable heights that still make me feel that they are taller than me. And in some cases, their height doesn't matter.

That’s you. You are part of a small minority. Most women won’t consider dating men who are under 6’



I am a statistician and design lots of surveys. If the question was asked about heigh in cm instead of feet you will get a very different result. If you ask women would 3 cm makes a difference to them 178cm vs 181cm) you will be surprised by the answers. Unfortunately a lot of these surveys about height and other physical preferences are so badly design and the speed at which social media posts travel you get a skewed view of reality.

I also think a big part of this is - women don't actually know how tall men ACTUALLY are! I've seen videos of a man with a tape measure going around, asking men how tall they are. Of course they all say they are 6' (or taller). He asks if he can measure them, and some were like 5'7". Most were 5'8/9/10. Their gfs had no idea how tall they actually were, they just assumed they were 6' because thats what the men told them. So I think (some) women who think 6' have dated men who were actually 5'9" saying they were 6' but because they are shorter than them they couldn't even tell.

There is a lot of data missing from this chart for sure.

You may be right, but does it really matter if they don’t how tall men actually are?
The bottom line is that most women are fixated on dating tall men or at least men that are much taller than them.
They consider 6 feet to be a good height and use it as their magic number even though they couldn’t tell the difference between 6ft and 5ft10.
The bottom line remains that they are fixated on height and all prefer tall men.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:6 ft tall, 6 figure income, 6 inch length, and 6 pack abs.

Go to Costco on the weekend. All men with wives and kids are 6 ft tall. Don't know about their income, abs and length. But visibly, without undressing them...their height is 6 ft. Also, all of them are driving big expensive SUVs.

The short, fat losers (with micropenis?) are the ones scrafing down pizza at the food court.


You have good eyes and you live in the real world.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Incels are incels for a reason. Maybe life was easier for repulsive men back when society made it very difficult for women to live independently.


Says the femcel.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:All women only go after guys who check three boxes: at least 6 feet tall, make six figures, and have six-pack abs. But when you break that down, not many guys actually meet all those standards.

Only about 14% of men in the U.S. are over 6 feet tall. Around 25% make $100k or more. If you combine just those two, you’re already down to roughly 3.5% of men. Add in the six-pack requirement, and you’re probably looking at 1% or less.

So, every woman is chasing that 1%.

On the flip side, guys tend to have simpler preferences. They mostly want someone who’s attractive. There are a lot of beautiful women out there at any height and income range.


Maybe women just want men who are better at math than you?


+1




I'm 5'5"

I have a whole range of acceptable heights that still make me feel that they are taller than me. And in some cases, their height doesn't matter.

That’s you. You are part of a small minority. Most women won’t consider dating men who are under 6’



I am a statistician and design lots of surveys. If the question was asked about heigh in cm instead of feet you will get a very different result. If you ask women would 3 cm makes a difference to them 178cm vs 181cm) you will be surprised by the answers. Unfortunately a lot of these surveys about height and other physical preferences are so badly design and the speed at which social media posts travel you get a skewed view of reality.

I also think a big part of this is - women don't actually know how tall men ACTUALLY are! I've seen videos of a man with a tape measure going around, asking men how tall they are. Of course they all say they are 6' (or taller). He asks if he can measure them, and some were like 5'7". Most were 5'8/9/10. Their gfs had no idea how tall they actually were, they just assumed they were 6' because thats what the men told them. So I think (some) women who think 6' have dated men who were actually 5'9" saying they were 6' but because they are shorter than them they couldn't even tell.

There is a lot of data missing from this chart for sure.

You may be right, but does it really matter if they don’t how tall men actually are?
The bottom line is that most women are fixated on dating tall men or at least men that are much taller than them.
They consider 6 feet to be a good height and use it as their magic number even though they couldn’t tell the difference between 6ft and 5ft10.
The bottom line remains that they are fixated on height and all prefer tall men.

I'd say yes, if we're going off this data. If women think theyd actually rather date someone who is 6'7" but they dont actually know how tall that is, I think that makes a difference. It's a weird delusion that both sexes play into.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:6 ft tall, 6 figure income, 6 inch length, and 6 pack abs.

Go to Costco on the weekend. All men with wives and kids are 6 ft tall. Don't know about their income, abs and length. But visibly, without undressing them...their height is 6 ft. Also, all of them are driving big expensive SUVs.

The short, fat losers (with micropenis?) are the ones scrafing down pizza at the food court.


What Costco do you go to. The Arlington one is like all obese Indians.


As a fellow Indian, I’m guessing they aren’t 6 feet and don’t have a six pack. I’m guessing quite a lot of them are married, though.

Are you just talking about white people or what?


Yes mostly westerners.
Many Indian women don’t pick their husbands. Their families pick for them and they are pressured to accept it.
At least the parents are smart to pick the guys making 100k or more. He may be short and fat, but hey they don’t care.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:6 ft tall, 6 figure income, 6 inch length, and 6 pack abs.

Go to Costco on the weekend. All men with wives and kids are 6 ft tall. Don't know about their income, abs and length. But visibly, without undressing them...their height is 6 ft. Also, all of them are driving big expensive SUVs.

The short, fat losers (with micropenis?) are the ones scrafing down pizza at the food court.


What Costco do you go to. The Arlington one is like all obese Indians.


As a fellow Indian, I’m guessing they aren’t 6 feet and don’t have a six pack. I’m guessing quite a lot of them are married, though.

Are you just talking about white people or what?


Yes mostly westerners.
Many Indian women don’t pick their husbands. Their families pick for them and they are pressured to accept it.
At least the parents are smart to pick the guys making 100k or more. He may be short and fat, but hey they don’t care.

What century do you live in? You really need to leave the house more. You aren't living in reality.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:6 ft tall, 6 figure income, 6 inch length, and 6 pack abs.

Go to Costco on the weekend. All men with wives and kids are 6 ft tall. Don't know about their income, abs and length. But visibly, without undressing them...their height is 6 ft. Also, all of them are driving big expensive SUVs.

The short, fat losers (with micropenis?) are the ones scrafing down pizza at the food court.


What Costco do you go to. The Arlington one is like all obese Indians.


As a fellow Indian, I’m guessing they aren’t 6 feet and don’t have a six pack. I’m guessing quite a lot of them are married, though.

Are you just talking about white people or what?


Yes mostly westerners.
Many Indian women don’t pick their husbands. Their families pick for them and they are pressured to accept it.
At least the parents are smart to pick the guys making 100k or more. He may be short and fat, but hey they don’t care.

What century do you live in? You really need to leave the house more. You aren't living in reality.

You need to face the reality.

Arranged marriages is very common in Indian society. More than 90% have arranged marriages.

https://www.npr.org/2023/08/06/1188366128/india-arranged-marriage-love-commandos
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:6 ft tall, 6 figure income, 6 inch length, and 6 pack abs.

Go to Costco on the weekend. All men with wives and kids are 6 ft tall. Don't know about their income, abs and length. But visibly, without undressing them...their height is 6 ft. Also, all of them are driving big expensive SUVs.

The short, fat losers (with micropenis?) are the ones scrafing down pizza at the food court.


It really doesnt sound like youve been out in public very much.


It really doesn’t sound like you understand sarcasm very much.

It didnt come off like sarcasm at all. Maybe work on that.


I’m not the one who posted that, but is was pretty clearly sarcastic.
The 6-6-6 thing is stupid. There is evidence of married and partnered men who don’t meet this criteria literally everywhere you look.


That’s the most stupid post on this thread. Women want 6-6-6 men is not the same as women get 6-6-6 men.
Of course, you’ll see a lot of women married with men that don’t meet these criteria. There aren’t enough 6-6-6 men for all women who want them. Do tou get it now?

Someone would say: most kids want to go to Ivy League schools. Your answer would be: This is BS, I see a lot of kids in colleges that are Ivy League. What a stupid answer.


Anonymous
This incel guy has clearly convinced himself that what is considered “desirable” is universal for all people, despite countless cultures, studies, and economic trends that prove otherwise.

The fact that he has 6 kids and is spending this much time on a niche social media site bashing women is at least part of the reason his wife wants nothing to do with him.

Grow a personality and stop blaming women for your lot in life. It’s unattractive.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Is it true that women go after the same men? Or is it an incel driven conspiracy theory?


Seriously, “incel” ??

No. Try: the DNC:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/news/video-3294157/Video-Kamala-Harris-releases-campaign-ad-targeting-young-black-men.html

“What do you do, and how much money do you make?”

“How tall are you?”


This was a real campaign ad.

Women all look for the same guy: 6-6-6-6.
Anonymous
We have to ask how much money they make because too many men are falling behind… lower college graduation rates, fewer home owners….. we don’t want to end up with some mediocre man-child that is looking for a caregiver.

What do you bring to the table that makes you desirable? Clearly it isn’t height, salary, or physique. So…. what DO you have to offer?
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