Is it true that women go after the same men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I divorced late in life. I scroll through the apps and just swipe left on all of them. These men look like my friends’ husbands. I know they love them, but holy moly, not a physically attractive one in the bunch.

Your friends are still married while you are divorced. Perhaps you are the physically unattractive one.

Nope. I’m actually about an 8. These guys are 3s

[Anonymous]

You cannot always get what you want. They paired up with unattractive people because that’s the best they could get. Ask them what their first choice was and you’ll learn that it’s not what they ended up with.

So your real issue is that you want to date women who are out of your league, and you are angry with them for not being interested in you.

Dude. Seek therapy. Grow a personality.

[Anonymous]

When I was single and dating I never went on dating sites. I always thought those people were losers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I was single and dating I never went on dating sites. I always thought those people were losers.

How old are you? I think that’s generational.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I divorced late in life. I scroll through the apps and just swipe left on all of them. These men look like my friends’ husbands. I know they love them, but holy moly, not a physically attractive one in the bunch.

Your friends are still married while you are divorced. Perhaps you are the physically unattractive one.

Nope. I’m actually about an 8. These guys are 3s

Shocked you didn't say you were a 10!

[Anonymous]

Yes, I see now where the 6/6/6 thing came from

The guys who put that together wouldn't think of getting together with any woman less than 8/9/10. They might sleep with the rest...

Well if you ask these 8/9/10s what they want, well they want other 8/9/10s hence the 6/6/6 thing.

The guys that think they deserve a high number woman (I know, this is problematic to me too) don’t want to come to terms with the fact that they don't measure up to the women they desire (the rest of us don't exist) that they say things like ALL WOMEN want 6/6/6.

[Anonymous]

I don't know about your circle but I know a lot of women who will be considered 10/10 in all aspects beauty, intelligence, physique, kindness career etc dating men who are perhaps around 5/6. It's not uncommon at all. I have far more men who are 10 dating women who are 8/9/10 then women are 10 dating similarly attractive men. It seems to me men just never get what women are looking for.

[Anonymous]

Dating sucks but head to any playground on the weekend. It's like an ugly convention. People find a way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know about your circle but I know a lot of women who will be considered 10/10 in all aspects beauty, intelligence, physique, kindness career etc dating men who are perhaps around 5/6. It's not uncommon at all. I have far more men who are 10 dating women who are 8/9/10 then women are 10 dating similarly attractive men. It seems to me men just never get what women are looking for.

When undatable men give other undatable men dating advice, this is what you get.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know about your circle but I know a lot of women who will be considered 10/10 in all aspects beauty, intelligence, physique, kindness career etc dating men who are perhaps around 5/6. It's not uncommon at all. I have far more men who are 10 dating women who are 8/9/10 then women are 10 dating similarly attractive men. It seems to me men just never get what women are looking for.

When undatable men give other undatable men dating advice, this is what you get.

I don't even think men take any advice because they don't listen. If they actually listened they will sort out through the nonsense and the goods. But they don't listen. They just want p**y and as quick as possible.

[Anonymous]

6 ft tall, 6 figure income, 6 inch length, and 6 pack abs.

Go to Costco on the weekend. All men with wives and kids are 6 ft tall. Don't know about their income, abs and length. But visibly, without undressing them...their height is 6 ft. Also, all of them are driving big expensive SUVs.

The short, fat losers (with micropenis?) are the ones scrafing down pizza at the food court.

[Anonymous]

Man here... only 5 percent of the public is dateable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:6 ft tall, 6 figure income, 6 inch length, and 6 pack abs.

Go to Costco on the weekend. All men with wives and kids are 6 ft tall. Don't know about their income, abs and length. But visibly, without undressing them...their height is 6 ft. Also, all of them are driving big expensive SUVs.

The short, fat losers (with micropenis?) are the ones scrafing down pizza at the food court.

It really doesnt sound like youve been out in public very much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know about your circle but I know a lot of women who will be considered 10/10 in all aspects beauty, intelligence, physique, kindness career etc dating men who are perhaps around 5/6. It's not uncommon at all. I have far more men who are 10 dating women who are 8/9/10 then women are 10 dating similarly attractive men. It seems to me men just never get what women are looking for.

When undatable men give other undatable men dating advice, this is what you get.

I don't even think men take any advice because they don't listen. If they actually listened they will sort out through the nonsense and the goods. But they don't listen. They just want p**y and as quick as possible.

Oh I think they do listen. But they listen to propaganda. That's how we keep ending up with losers spouting off about 6' 6" 6$ rather than do any actual thought about what women want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. But most men are interested in the same women, too. The more beautiful people we see on TV, the more normal that standard seems to us.

Imagine living in an agrarian society 200 years ago. The most beautiful woman you’d see in your life would likely be much less beautiful than what we routinely see in the media. She wouldn’t be retouched, wear makeup, or have hair dye. Your expectations would be more realistic. Hers would be, too.

I’d add that social media really made this worse. Now you are seeing people you know share their highlights with a million filters.