daughter is taking a way older man

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I grew up in South Asian country. Although it was acceptable pre-70's for boomers, I don't know anyone in generation X who married someone with 10+ year age unless they had no other options and wanted marriage and financial security. Most of us married men our own age or within 1-5 year older than us..

Hence divorce rates that were 5% for Greatest Gen/Silent Gen, 10% for Boomers, and now exploded to 50% for Gen X and 65% for millenials/zoomers.

Women are doing it to themselves, marrying men their age or younger is against Nature and a recipe for them to become single before their 50s or even 40s when the men trade them in for a younger model.

what’s your source for a 65% divorce rate among millennials? Also, younger generations of women don’t need men the way your generation did. Most of them realize they’re better off not marrying at all.

[Anonymous]

Does he Coach at UNC?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I grew up in South Asian country. Although it was acceptable pre-70's for boomers, I don't know anyone in generation X who married someone with 10+ year age unless they had no other options and wanted marriage and financial security. Most of us married men our own age or within 1-5 year older than us..

Hence divorce rates that were 5% for Greatest Gen/Silent Gen, 10% for Boomers, and now exploded to 50% for Gen X and 65% for millenials/zoomers.

Women are doing it to themselves, marrying men their age or younger is against Nature and a recipe for them to become single before their 50s or even 40s when the men trade them in for a younger model.

My parents were greatest generation and were within 2 years of each other.

Most of that generation married young with women marrying around 19 and men at 21.

This idea that it was common to marry much older isn’t based in any fact.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!

To you it is better every day, but for all you know she is regretting it. Like your wife, I am 50. I cannot imagine being married to a 69 year old right now!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!

To you it is better every day, but for all you know she is regretting it. Like your wife, I am 50. I cannot imagine being married to a 69 year old right now!

And men who marry someone their age, and the woman hits the wall so to speak at 40 something, so he regrets it and is dating a 30 year old behind her back.....

There are many reasons intelligent rational women prefer men several older than them, and not just for the biological reasons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What’s with all the slutty adult children posts lately?

Good question

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What’s with all the slutty adult children posts lately?

Good question

Either kids are being less discreet or older people have forgotten what they were like when younger and shocked by discovering the reality of youth again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are you saying taking? Twice? Do you mean dating?

I think it is simply the op’s way of acknowledging the obvious: that her daughter is regularly taking intimacy from an older gentleman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are you saying taking? Twice? Do you mean dating?

Questioning why they chose certain words is condescending. You get the message…check your biases

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!

To you it is better every day, but for all you know she is regretting it. Like your wife, I am 50. I cannot imagine being married to a 69 year old right now!

And men who marry someone their age, and the woman hits the wall so to speak at 40 something, so he regrets it and is dating a 30 year old behind her back.....

There are many reasons intelligent rational women prefer men several older than them, and not just for the biological reasons.

lmao at women "hitting a wall" at 40. Have you seen women in their 40s lately?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!

To you it is better every day, but for all you know she is regretting it. Like your wife, I am 50. I cannot imagine being married to a 69 year old right
now!

This.
At all ever matter of fact.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!

To you it is better every day, but for all you know she is regretting it. Like your wife, I am 50. I cannot imagine being married to a 69 year old right now!

And men who marry someone their age, and the woman hits the wall so to speak at 40 something, so he regrets it and is dating a 30 year old behind her back.....

There are many reasons intelligent rational women prefer men several older than them, and not just for the biological reasons.

lmao at women "hitting a wall" at 40. Have you seen women in their 40s lately?

Right?! Jessica Alba is more beautiful than ever. The 40s are my favorite decade so far, as I have more money and time to invest in myself now that my kids are older and I've established myself in my career. High-value women remain so for a long time and are less inclined to settle for an older man in our 40s or beyond than we were in our 20s because (1) by our 40s, we have plenty of our own money, and (2) when we were in our 20s, "older" men were in their 30s or maybe 40s, and still attractive, but once we are in our 40s, older men are in their 50s and 60s and look like grandpas who will soon need a caregiver, and no to that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d say nothing. Usually it ends. The girl grows up while Peter Pan doesn’t. But for MAGA Trump spokesgirl (her hubby is like 30+ years her age!)

Or Ana Navarro with an on old hubby

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Age isn't a definitive measure of equality but it's clearly a factor. A 25 and 50 year old are not equals unless the 50 y/o is a complete screwup.

Notice how you don't say "unless the 25 year old is mature and level headed". That says more about YOU than anything else you could have said.

How?a 25 year old, no matter how mature and level headed will ever be “equal” to a 50 year old. That person has lived their life twice, that can never be taken back. You’re delusional if you think you’re such a mature 25 year old that you’re equal to a 50 year old, and if you’re a 50 year old who thinks a 25 is your equal you are also delusional 😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I grew up in South Asian country. Although it was acceptable pre-70's for boomers, I don't know anyone in generation X who married someone with 10+ year age unless they had no other options and wanted marriage and financial security. Most of us married men our own age or within 1-5 year older than us..

Hence divorce rates that were 5% for Greatest Gen/Silent Gen, 10% for Boomers, and now exploded to 50% for Gen X and 65% for millenials/zoomers.

Women are doing it to themselves, marrying men their age or younger is against Nature and a recipe for them to become single before their 50s or even 40s when the men trade them in for a younger model.

Divorce rates were 5% because women couldn’t get a bank account, a loan, a mortgage or in a lot of cases, a JOB. They didn’t stay out of love for their ancient decrepit husband, they stayed because they were trapped. You’re seriously f***ed up to use that as a comparison.